Do u go out and look for snugglers or they contact u?? Just startling out...
Welcome, @bigshow .
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I'm new here and want to ask is it normal to be messaged with only 1 sentence asking if I'm interested in a cuddle session?
@JessieDreamer welcome! Sadly, yes it is. It's not normally regarded as a red flag on its own, but as you are implying, it's not a great start.
You are at liberty not to reply. If in doubt, always Report and block. Always insist on a photo.
Do not agree to a session straightaway, but I would suggest you engage this person in conversation and see what happens. One of the mods here, Sideon, is in favour of allowing people a little rope. The troublemakers usually hang themselves quite quickly.
Best of luck anyway. There is lots of good advice already here if you hunt around a bit. It's fine to start a new thread for a question like this.
@CuddleDuncan thank you for the advice😊 I'm brand new and am weary still but think it is simply that I am not used to the community yet.
@JessieDreamer
I think @CuddleDuncan may not have noticed you're a pro; hence his advice to engage the person in conversation. If you want to have a conversation with this person, go for it, but in general most pros don't want to beat around the bush and just want to schedule a session right away. That's probably what this person is used to. Yes, it'd be nice if people would have enough sense to introduce themselves and say a couple introductory sentences when they message, but... a lot of people on the Internet aren't very bright.
@CuddleMeLater still very true, still trying to engage with conversation though as I prefer getting a feel for someone before hand as you never know who is behind the keyboard
@JessieDreamer I was perfectly well aware that you are a professional. It was obvious from your question that you prefer to get a feel for somebody before accepting a booking from them.
There are indeed quite a few professionals who are not concerned with this, and will enter straight into the booking arrangement process. This is why such a message not a red flag in itself.
If you were an enthusiast rather than a professional then I would have advised ignoring the message: most female enthusiasts would regard such a message as either a red flag or sufficiently reddish-amber to make the difference moot.
@JessieDreamer hey chicky 😊 welcome 👋
This happens now and again. As pros, we are regarded as a service so sometimes that means we will have people that immediately send booking without a conversation.
I just decline the booking and send them a message stating “for safety reasons, I’d like to chat for a tiny bit to get an idea of who you are and how you enjoy a platonic cuddle 🤗 “
After that, some don’t message afterward which shows a red flag for sure while others answer back going “oh ok, sure, let’s talk”. Never do anything you aren’t comfortable doing. I always meet in public right before the cuddle to have a free little ice breaker 😊
Good luck!