The absence of possessiveness, and the abundance of heartfelt caring for one another as friends, is something I didn't expect to find through here. But I'm so incredibly thankful I have.
The reciprocity of touch I expected. Feeling genuinely excited or happy for someone I've cuddled with (or hope to cuddle soon) when they tell me they have a cuddle date set up, is not something I expected to feel.
The reverse has also been a heart warming surprise! Where someone I've cuddled with, or have been connecting/building rapport with and hope to cuddle with some day soon, will not only encourage my relationships with others, but also wishes me well when I'm meeting up with someone else!
That alone is incredible! But that we also stay in touch, following up with each other (not to get specific details, but just to check in) asking how it went, or simply how the other is doing (after the cuddle and/or after the come down), is something else that never occurred to me as a type of dynamic I'd have, and with multiple people too! Just wow!!
~ This feels like what healthy friendships and relationships should feel like. ~
Have you had any unexpected delightfulness happen through CC?
[Thank you in advance for keeping your posts and comments positive!]
Also, I have others to share, but I'm saving them for later...