@DrCuddleBug my profile is blank in protest.
@CuddleDuncan you mentioned earlier that CC started purely enthusiast , & than welcomed professionals later on ... do you recall how it was here during this time, were there as many complaints than as there is now & do you remember the ratio of men to woman in this timeframe? Thanks.
For all the guys - I promise there isn’t 1 single female here (pic or not) that couldn’t set up a cuddle session this week with someone here if they wanted to ... for us that isn’t the case , even if we were seeking pro’s it still isn’t the case & we couldn’t guarantee it, I guarantee any of them can if they really wanted to (I’ll leave you with that).
Money can buy cuddles. If you are willing to pay enough you can get any cuddle you want. You may have to go above the market rate...
I could probably cuddle Brad Pitt with enough money.
What kind of forum is this where a new person posts and then gets attacked for things they might not even be aware of yet? ( @CuddleDuncan ) Honestly I feel like it's getting a bit hard to read the forums on here, with the kind of negativity that gets thrown out there sometimes. Perhaps timetocuddle07 wanted to read the forums and just hasn't filled out their profile yet. Just be excellent to each other.
@introvme if you believe it is easy for the women here then you are mistaken.
@Importance - It would feel more special to me if I didn't have to pay for a cuddle and I would value that time a lot more. I'm not actively seeking out any pros(and gave up on enthusiasts), but enjoy participating in the forums. I met a lot of awesome people here.
He looked great playing Cliff Booth in Once Upon A Time in Hollywood.
@Importance I don’t mean it in terms of you wouldn’t have to do your due diligence & scan through profiles / personalities / & everything inbetween to find the right cuddle person you’ll feel safe & protected with, what I mean is for the sake of just setting one up, without doing any preliminary checks, you could set one up or accept any of the countless messages you receive ... we can’t, maybe I speak for myself but even with pros I haven’t had success in my days where I didn’t have anything in my profile / any pics / and I was just reaching out for the sake of reaching out.
@Mike403 I agree. I want a real connection and a true friend, not just a one time cuddle.
So, it’s seems most of us are just hurting here.
@Importance Seems to be the case.
@Importance when I met you the first time here , there was a way that you answer a question that intrigued me immediately, & than right away I clicked on your profile & it was even more intriguing & I even told you about it right away, ive never seen a single pic of you & I would cuddle you tonight! I know the same doesn’t apply the other way around , I would have to work for your trust & many other factors & that still wouldn’t guarantee that you would want to cuddle with me - (I’m always throwing myself in the fire 🔥 😅😂) but that’s for the greater good of all of us : P
@introvme how could you possibly presume to know if I would cuddle you?
We do have the problem of distance.
I feel like an anomaly. I have found a number of cuddle buddies through this site over the last 2 years. Friends now with most of them. All were repeat cuddles. I have one or two that I regularly cuddle currently. I find that is enough for me.
no @Importance i didn’t mean it that way lol 😅😂 sometimes testing or typing doesn’t come out the way we intend ... & I don’t know how to say it to make my self more sensible or understood sigh smh @ me 🤦♂️
But I still do believe that any of you ladies (regardless of pics or not) could set up a cuddle date this week if you ladies wanted to (taking nothing into consideration or account of vetting the right person if that makes sense) & not us the guys ...
@Importance - I heard that @introvme built a teleporter in his basement.
@introvme you are probably right. Here is my dilemma. I don’t want to be cuddled once and then ghosted. I seek friendship. A lot of men on this website like to leapfrog around from female to female.
Guys brb (sorry gonna get ready to clock out from work now)
If I wanted to be cuddled once or twice or have the fear that my friend would not return to me then I would just become a pro. I seek a real friendship.
@Importance I'm not disagreeing that "a lot" of men on this website leapfrog from cuddler to cuddler because I honesty have no knowledge of this one way or another, but I would be interested in knowing how you could make such a nd claim on what do you base it? See a you would need a fairly broad knowledge of the various men, in various locations, in various situations, to make that claim.
I actually think that men should take a moment to consider some of the famous women who have struggled with relationships. Jennifer Anderson was left for Angelina Jolie. Sharon Stone has a dating profile on bumble. Princess Diana was cheated on. And so many other beautiful, charismatic, loving women with money have been left behind. Please don’t think that it is easy for women. I understand that we all have challenges and that we all want excellent cuddle buddies. But it isn’t easy for anyone.
I actually do have quite extensive experience with men. But nothing that I want to make public on this website. Thank you kindly for understanding.
@Importance "it isn't easy for anyone." Truly these are the end times ...WE AGREE! 😁
End times?
The "end times" ... the end of human history as we know it ... is said to be nearing when accompanied by certain signs. Us Greeting was to be such a sign.
Nevermind. It was an attempt at humor. I won't quite my day job.
We'll, you make some sweeping statements/ generalizations without any support. Not a solid way to make a point. But what do I know. It's not like I've got a research PhD. Oh, wait .... I do! 🤣
@DrCuddleBug how many different women have you cuddled since your time here?
I feel that you dislike my idea that men “leapfrog”. Let’s talk about it.
@Importance I don't dislike your idea, I was curious. It hasn't been my experience, so I wanted to know how you have come up with that perspective.
In 2 years, I've cuddled 5 women from this site, all more than once. Of those 5, I currently cuddle 2 of them regularly. I no longer cuddle the others for various reasons (all by mutual understanding ... which is mostly due to distance, ad I have moved 3 times in the last 2 years). That said, I have remained friends (or at least friendly) with all 5. I have never ghosted a cuddler, and never maintained cuddling relationships with more than 2 at a time (and they always know I of the other cuddle buddy). Maybe more than you wanted to know. I have the utmost respect and care for those with whom I cuddle. They don't have to cuddle with me, so I consider it a treasured honor that they do. I believe I communicate that to them in my cuddles and how I treat them. One of my cuddle buddies is still on this site. She is free to agree or disagree publicly if she desires.
I like the tone I hear in your "Let's talk about it." It's very welcoming and inviting.