Why do people block you?

[Deleted User]Chrischong (deleted user)
in General

I've the type of person who likes to read reviews back and forth just to make sure I have a smooth cuddle session, but I've noticed some women have blocked me for no reason. Do they think I'm a threat??? Just because I checked your profile doesn't mean anything at all. I look at so many profiles both men and women all the time. I dont add random people as friends though even my clients I don't really add.

I've blocked a couple of men who wouldn't stop messaging me constantly... Who cares if someone checked out your profile! I'm not in competition with anyone since I do this part time. Usually one week on and one week off.

Chill out people! There's enough love for everyone!! :)

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  • [Deleted User]DarkLordChungus (deleted user)
    edited January 2021

    I figure that people block me because they don't enjoy humor, sarcasm, satire, or pessimism. It's also possible that my amazing writing style intimidates them; they can't handle the images I conjure in their brains with my evocative prose.

  • Mike403Mike403

    If I drank a beer for every person who blocked me for no reason, I'd be drunker than a dog. Don't worry about it.

  • ImportanceImportance

    I’ve never heard that one. But I’ve definitely heard drunk as a skunk.

  • [Deleted User]Chrischong (deleted user)

    Thanks Mike and UltimateChungus!! Yes, I won't worry about it. Just found it strange...

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    @Chrischong I would not worry about it. Just like in everyday life not everyone likes everyone or wants to be our friend. The people that we do connect with for friendship and or cuddling are valuable to us! I have been blocked before for looking at others profile and sometimes after exchanging messages. I don’t worry about it anymore because have many more positive friends and Karma. Many people tell me that I am a “good” person but still not everyone is interested in me and that’s ok. I am not everyone’s cup of tea ☕️.

  • parkwayvisualparkwayvisual

    Because haters be hating.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    I think @spuds has nailed it.

    Don't take take it personally. Unless you've done something bad, obviously.

    Some people are concerned by repeated visits to their profile without sending a message.

  • [Deleted User]Mennahugs (deleted user)

    I can totally relate!! I been blocked just by viewing someone page after they viewed my page. Like @FishCuddles said everyone not going to like you and that's okay. As long as you are being your genuine self then it doesn't matter how others feel.

  • MissAdventurousMissAdventurous

    Oh yeah, it totally happens girl.
    From just wanting privacy to haters REALLY hating 🤣

    I've had people even ask for my advice as a professional and then block me after I'm friendly and give advice. It can be bizarrely random who does it too.

    Don't take it personal if you know you didn't do anything personally wrong though, we can control our emotions and how we respond, but not others.

    Happy Cuddles @Chrischong 💗

  • [Deleted User]sage_wisdom (deleted user)

    I know exactly why. I’m incredibly annoying.

  • hawker69hawker69

    They are just insecure little people living in their little world.
    They could never handle real life.

  • [Deleted User]Chrischong (deleted user)

    Thanks guys and @MissAdventurous! You are amazing @MissAdventurous!! Thanks for the feedback...

  • SideonSideon

    If one can't get through the talent, evening-wear, swimwear, and something more than "world peace" portions of life's pageantry and they block me... I'm sure we wouldn't have connected very well, anyway. 👑

    You do you, @Chrischong .

  • MarkBPhxMarkBPhx

    @MissAdventurous I appreciate your loving and supportive energy, always brightens the conversation.
    @Chrischong I just visited your profile, and I'll echo what others have said, you may be extremely intimidating to someone who isn't secure with themselves. Your energy and awareness are amazing, and if I ever visit Burbank I would totally request a session with you!

  • [Deleted User]Ebow87 (deleted user)

    @Chrischong, I was blocked for no reason too. I'm trying to figure it out as well.

  • [Deleted User]sage_wisdom (deleted user)
    edited January 2021

    Don’t take it personally people’s inability to accept and deal with other people’s differences. it says more about them than it does about you.
    Also, We are entitled to our opinions. Not everyone in life is going to like you and that’s okay. that is a normal part of life.
    Everyone has a right to protect themselves from things that they feel are harmful to them. Essentially, either way you spin it you shouldn’t take it personally. your time and energy alive on this earth would be a waste spent worrying and being upset about things you actually have no control over.

  • [Deleted User]Chrischong (deleted user)

    Thanks everyone and @MarkBPhx!!

  • pmvinespmvines

    Because the mere visit by me to your profile is something that the common human is not always able to withstand. Kind of like why you cannot hear the lord speak for his voice might shatter you, or you cannot look directly into an eclipse for potential of blindness. I understand, it is merely the way that some mortals must protect themselves from the unfathomable.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    With me it's either something I did in the forum, &/or they took one glance at my profile and thought,
    "Oh, hell no!" ~> "block"

    But it's okay. If they can't handle me here, they certainly couldn't in real life! I've got a lot of weird, can be a bit extra, and don't have much of a filter. It takes a special kind of person to truly 'get' and appreciate me.

    And good on them for knowing what they don't want in their life, and for having boundaries too!

    But there is a part of me that wonders what it was...

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Great question !!! With me its the opposite... I’m surprised I don’t get blocked by people that seem to not like my presence : / does that means deep down they love me ♥️ 🥺 kisses & hugs *Muahhhzzz***!!!! 🤗

  • [Deleted User]DarrenWalker (deleted user)

    You know, I've never asked anybody who blocked me why they did it. I figure they've got their reasons. Like maybe I'm not the type of person they want to cuddle, so they're pulling me out of their search results. Or maybe they're just weirded out by all my weirdness. Could be that.

    Personally, I've never blocked anybody on here. My "Blocked Cuddlers" list is totally empty, otherwise I'd share: give some examples of reasons for blocking. Oh well.

  • PeopleLikeUsPeopleLikeUs

    It's the only way to organize the Visitors queue.

  • ImportanceImportance

    @PeopleLikeUs that makes me laugh. Using the blocking feature to organize the visitors queue.

    However, I don’t quite understand how this organizes anything. I can still see the people that I’ve blocked. Maybe I just don’t know what the visitors queue is. Actually I have no idea what it is.

    Ahhh, whatever.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life
    edited January 2021

    @Importance ~ 🤣😂🤣 ~ visitors ~

  • ImportanceImportance

    Ahhh thank you!

  • [Deleted User]DarrenWalker (deleted user)

    @PeopleLikeUs: Isn't that already organised, though? The person who's visited you most recently is always at the top, with the next most recent below them, and so on down to the bottom of the page.

    ...Hmm. It is true that if you want to see any of the visitors on page two you've got to block visitors from page one. Maybe that's what you meant.

  • MissAdventurousMissAdventurous

    @PeopleLikeUs you are in my favorites list for sure! ☺️☺️☺️

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    As an NFL player IRL I play defensive tackle. I am used to being blocked.

  • ImportanceImportance

    Omg... if that’s true, you make so much more sense to me in a good way.

    🦍🦍🦍

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    @DarrenWalker Same here! I have been blocked by some people never asked why and never blocked anyone on this site before. We are nice 👍🏿 😁

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