Finding a reliable cuddler

Jascuddleboo32Jascuddleboo32
in General

Hi everyone,
I seem to be having a lot of trouble finding a reliable cuddler in and around my area.
A lot of people I message either don't respond and when they do their accounts get suspended or deleted within days. I've been here for 6 months and have just one cuddle session scheduled for when I go to Tampa, Fl later this week. Not sure what I'm supposed to do because I'd really like to find a few reliable cuddlers in and around my area.

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  • Mike403Mike403

    I've been here since 2017 and never met anybody except for one pro. Most non-pros don't even respond to my messages. Join the club.

  • [Deleted User]cuddlestogive (deleted user)

    @Jasneedsacuddle It's a common problem. There are WAY more men on the site than there are women. Add to that the fact that some men are just creeps and it turns women off the site and they delete their profile never to return. I've been lucky enough to have met a couple of good cuddle buddies. One I get to cuddle all the time and we've become very close.

    I guess my advice would be not to give up. You're in the same situation most men are. There just aren't enough ladies on the site that are available to cuddle unless you're open to finding a pro. I've sen many, many messages to women hoping to hear back but get the same results you do. But it hasn't stopped me from trying. Cuddles are too important to miss out on! I wish you the best of luck.

  • RockRollCuddleRockRollCuddle
    edited January 2021

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  • Jewels_927Jewels_927

    It depends on the cuddler, I’m fortunate to have a morning job on where I can reply with maximum if an hour. My only down fall is that I can only be a guest or public. I’d like to think I’m pretty reliable unless some major emergency comes up ( which luckily hasn’t happened.) Keep your head up high because they’re out there.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    The advice given by @cuddlestogive is spot on. It's a vicious circle: too many of the men are creeps, the women get scared away, the few women who are left are overwhelmed with messages.

    The solution is to reduce the impact of the creepy men. This is hard for a number of reasons, but we are working on it in the GREEN PAPER and WHITE paper threads. All comments welcome.

    In the meantime, keep trying. Make sure you have read the FAQ sticky at the top of this board, and the links at the bottom of the homepage. If you are in a position to find a good professional, that's a help. Some professionals on CC are truly wonderful and amazing people, and some are .... still finding their way in the world.

    If it all works out, indicate that if they would like to write some nice karma you would be ok with that, and if you they didn't that is totally ok and would not affect your view of them. Remember that nobody is obliged to write karma at all, and it is not ok to 'trade' karma: karma must be honest and freely written.

    Write opening messages which are friendly, polite and respectful. I presume you are doing that already. Do not be fussy about you write to.

    Try rotating your main profile picture.

    In a spirit of helpfulness I suggest rewriting the first sentence of your profile to something like this:

    I'm a sweet, caring, and compassionate person, at least I hope I am. My best friend says I'm an excellent listener.

    (You can only have one 'best' friend, that's what best means!)

    Join in the forum. Some people check forum posts before deciding whether to reply. Good luck!

  • ElleCuddleMiElleCuddleMi

    @Jasneedsacuddle Well maybe you can find a cuddler like myself who travels and pick specific days to cuddle. I travel to Tampa and Orlando every other month or so. Not saying you have to try me out lol I'm just saying maybe you could find one that does travel.

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    @Jasneedsacuddle I live in Florida and @ElleCuddleMi is amazing cuddler!

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    @Jasneedsacuddle I’m excited for our cuddle. I’m sorry I can’t travel to you 😣 but I’ll make sure to hug you extra hard! 😄

    I would suggest chatting with certain pros that travel, but I know it’s not as simple as having a reliable pro right in your area.

  • UKGuyUKGuy

    @jasneedsacuddle - My advice is to not rely on this site to find a cuddle partner. It's pretty hopeless for men.

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