I didn't last long at a different site at all but this one I like so far. And I've been here longer than on the other place already. I hope I'll like it as much as those who lasted here the longest so far.
Not very much longer. There are not enough enthusiasts to make my time worthwhile. I do not know how the women do it as they are generally more vulnerable than men. I guess that is why there are not so many.
I come and go due to my physical health. After working with the professionals learning the platonic cuddling skills, I would like to graduate to female enthusiasts, but so far, no luck, hopefully, one day. Consensual Platonic Cuddling is still fairly a new concept in mainstream society that is hard for many people to understand.
@Rocket_Man the issue is generally men who are listed as professionals do not get as many requests as women whether they are enthusiasts or professionals themselves. Like I think if women need a hug or a cuddle they can easily get it from a guy friend or even a gal pal if they're close. Speaking from personal experience here too. So like I would also not really seek a professional male cuddler online since I don't have a need even if vulnerable. Others mentioned this as well before too. Personally, male professionals would thrive more in actual work offices/businesses best that offer this but such places are rare still. Closest one to me is like 2 states away. They also don't give you a choice in who you cuddle either so you'd get men and women cuddling with you, just whoever walks through the door and pays. Anyway, sorry that this place isn't working out too well.
Like I think if women need a hug or a cuddle they can easily get it from a guy friend or even a gal pal if they're close.
@Amortentia This definitely isn't always the case - I'm a woman who doesn't have "huggy" friends or family members. Outside of relationships, massage therapy, and finding cuddle buddies on here, I don't get any physical contact.
@Amortentia, @squeakytoy is right. There are many women who are not in so fortunate a position as you.
It is also the case that a cuddle with a friend is a completely different thing from a cuddle with a professional.
My 1st. answer was going to be about an hour, LOL, but I thought about it and then had to go look at my profile to see when I found the site. A little over 1 yr., and happy so far, I found a few great cuddlers here. I do like to travel, once we all get over this virus mess then I hope to get out more and I find this site very good to find a cuddlier where I will be heading to. I have found a few very rude people here also, but I guess there will always be a few rotten apples in every basket as the old saying goes. If i was going to rate it, I would say 7 out of ten stars. I'm hoping it will get better in time.
@waynewv
I'm hoping it will get better in time.
Do not hope. You are a member here, it is your responsibility. Make it happen.
@CuddleDuncan , I’m doing my best, I even told a few good friends about it. But I can’t ban the jerks, LOL
@squeakytoy yes it doesn't apply to everyone so you are right. I just meant that other male professionals struggled with the same thing online. And females tend to generally hug more and guys don't. Like I always hug my friends when greeting them whether male or female and my guy never understood that since his friends would think it's weird or gay so he gets his hugs only from me. Lol. I don't hug family much so I'm kind of the same on that with you. I just hug my little nephews and niece. Oldest one thinks he's too old for that and that it's "eww" if parents, aunts/uncles, and grandparents hug him. So he's the only one I don't hug either lol
@CuddleDuncan yes she is right. I think I wasn't too specific then in what I wrote. Just was saying that other male professionals said they struggled and that was one of the reason they listed. So that reason isn't true for everyone nor is it the only reason when there are struggles. I just didn't want him to think he was the only one, and to expect struggles but not to give up.
I’ve been here a year and a half and didn’t realize it had been that long until I was messaging someone on the site in the last couple of days and we discussed it. I, too, have had some weird experiences and have to sort through messages to find people I can trust - but overall I have met some amazing people here and have some lifelong friends from cc.