I realize everyone likes to feel heard, but sometimes we just need to listen. When I see posts calling for more inclusive members regarding gender, race, age, etc. to participate (that doesn't include me), I still enjoy reading through the thread. It's a great way for me to appreciate the struggles of others outside my demographic, or discover situations that would be beneficial for me to be more aware of.
It's understandable that excluded members still want to give their two cents. Sometimes I don't cringe when this happens, but most of the time it feels like people are more concerned with forcing their own perspectives into another's reality. As a hetero, White male that's often compared to large apes by family and friends, I can appreciate that I'll experience and handle some situations very differently than a Blue, feminine hobbit.
So the next time someone pours their heart out in search of some inherent understanding, just let them. Outside input can of course be beneficial, but sometimes it's nice to talk with someone that just gets it.
And before someone calls me out, I can say what I said because one of my best friends is a hobbit!