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  • Is it just me or is the site really slow ever since the ddos attack?
  • @Mark  It has been mentioned before that it  would be great if we were able to like posts in the forum.  Is there any sort of a timeline for that to happen?
    ♥Jim
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited June 2017
    @snuggle554321 It is an issue and I do plan to address it. One possible option that comes to mind is preventing re-registration for X number of days.

    @MrSoloDolo I noticed hangs and CPU spikes over the last 48 hours and have now rebooted the server. I don't believe it relates to the DDoS at all though.

    @I_am_Polylover That's not something planned at the moment. I'm not convinced it's a good idea as it can turn a place into a popularity contest and also deter contrarian opinion. 
  • I've seen quite a few great changes happen on the site since I've been here. It seems at times that they take awhile to happen but what matters is they do happen.
  • @Mark  There are plenty of times I agree with something that is said, and would like the poster in particular, as well as others, know they are not alone.  I could start making 'me too' posts to accomplish the same thing, but if everyone was to do that, I think the forum would become overcrowded with that type of post.  It would also be a good way to find people I have things in common with.  I also don't see how it would deter contrarian opinion.  I know if I have a differing opinion, I am very likely to speak up about it.  Since you said you weren't convinced, this was my attempt to convince you. ;-)
    ♥Jim
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited June 2017
    Timestamps on your messages are now automatically updated based on the location you have set in your profile.

    Widowed status is now available ( @DeliMan )

    @I_am_Polyover Thanks. The benefits and potential negatives will remain under consideration.
  • It won't help with the messages I lost, but thank you for the updates @Mark. I appreciate the time you put into this.

    Buck
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited July 2017
    I think the reason for the speed issues might have been backup operations running that have become more and more CPU intensive due to the website's growth. These were running at around 5-6pm Pacific Time. I will find a solution but in the meantime I have scheduled the operations to happen at 3am PT which should minimise disruption.
  • Thank you, Mark. That is much appreciated.
    ♥Jim
  • @Mark I much appreciate that once blocked you no longer appear in their visitors. My question though is, does that take affect after you block a person or does it include the current visit (in which you are there to block them) and any past visits? Also are there any plans to add additional ways of blocking users (for example, from any place in which their username shows up) so that you don't have to visit their profile? You also said that once blocked they cannot access their half of a conversation... does that become available again if they're unblocked? And lastly, if a blocked person tries to visit your profile and they see that they've been blocked.. can they block someone in return?

    Thanks in advance!
  • I have a suggestion for the search function. When setting your preferences to begin a search, it would be very helpful to be able to select host and/or guest. 
  • Also to be able to search by name would be great.  I got a couple of emails about my cuddle party saying who they were here, but I had no easy way to find their profile.
    ♥Jim
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited July 2017
    Forum software has been upgraded. I'm hoping this resolves the typing issues people had, particularly on Firefox.

    Let me know.
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited July 2017

    @C8H7N3O2

    I much appreciate that once blocked you no longer appear in their visitors. My question though is, does that take affect after you block a person or does it include the current visit (in which you are there to block them) and any past visits?

    Previous visits will still remain in their list including the visit where you block them.

    Also are there any plans to add additional ways of blocking users (for example, from any place in which their username shows up) so that you don't have to visit their profile?

    The next update to the code will hide blocked users from your search results. Other than that, there are no other plans.

    You also said that once blocked they cannot access their half of a conversation"... does that become available again if they're unblocked?

    I don't think I said that. Previous private conversations will remain viewable to both parties regardless of block status.

    And lastly, if a blocked person tries to visit your profile and they see that they've been blocked.. can they block someone in return?

    Yes, they are actually offered that option out of fairness.

    @JFGreen

    I have a suggestion for the search function. When setting your preferences to begin a search, it would be very helpful to be able to select host and/or guest.

    I'll add that to the list for future consideration. I can imagine that would be particularly helpful when searching Pros.

    @I_am_Polylover

    Also to be able to search by name would be great.

    If you mean by username, then you can just try entering it straight after cuddlecomfort.com/ in your address bar. If you mean by real name then that wouldn't be possible as we don't record real names for standard members.

  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)
    Gonna go ahead and give Mark a golf clap for listening to concerns and improvements and actually implementing them in a timely manner.

    Normally this site runs so smoothly I often forget it's a one-man show. Huge thanks for your dedicated work and open ears.

    In conclusion, YIPPEE FOR EMOTICONS! :p :3 B) :p :3 B) :p :3 B) :p :3 B) :p :3 B) :p :3 B)
  • Cool! When did those get implemented?
    ❤Jim

  • @Mark I clicked on the link you gave to the wiki page on Markdown, but came away very confused. What does it actually mean for me? One thing actually stuck with me, and that is, it said something about being used in email, so I composed this in my email with the hope that the formatting I used there will stay when I paste it here. No such luck based on the preview function. Help!
    <3 Jim

  • MarkMark Mod
    edited July 2017

    @I_am_Polylover

    It's fine to just ignore it because buttons above the text-box should be sufficient for styling your posts.

    Some people like to use the code manually. Reddit also uses Markdown as the way to style posts.

    The most relevant part of the Wikipedia article is this: http://prntscr.com/fwbfuw

    @chococuddles

    Thanks and you're welcome. (p.s. it's not always just me behind the scenes)

  • Thank you, Mark. That helped Ha... I just used it successfully!
    <3 Jim

  • Old dogs can learn new tricks.

  • A huge thing for me would be if they put into the search criteria when they when the person was last on. ie If someone just want to look at people who are online now, nor the last week. etc. thats the biggest thing, for me, and would help a ton

  • @sol2 it's automatically listed in order of who was on most recently

  • [Deleted User]navyvet76 (deleted user)

    But not just who is logged on. This would make searching easier.

  • I don't know if this has been mentioned yet but how about a spot on the profile where it lists the distance the member is willing to travel for a session? For example, a member can list that she's willing to travel up to 25 miles etc

  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)

    I second the "distance willing to travel" by @Morpheus.

    I also like @Sol2 idea of showing when the person was last on. As Morph pointed out you do see who was online last in order but it goes from "online last 2 hours" to "online 9 months ago". Maybe an option to search by "online within the past day, week or month".

  • [Deleted User]StarFlower (deleted user)
    edited August 2017

    "Forum posts are like a box of chocolate. You never know whatchuh gonna get."

    By this I mean, sometimes I pop into a thread and the first message I see is the original message. Sometimes it is the most recent message. Sometimes, with multi-page posts, the 1 2 3 4....page boxes are at the top of the page, sometimes they are at the bottom.

    Suggestions:
    ^Have the most recent replies (last page) show up first, because many of us are following a thread and are waiting with bated breath for the next reply, and

    ^Place the 1 2 3 4... page boxes at the top and bottom of the page.

  • MarkMark Mod
    edited August 2017

    Hmm, that shouldn't happen if you enter via the index (list of topics). This forum's navigation conforms to the standard almost every other forum of its type uses. As in the latest post will always appear on the last page.

    When you click into a forum topic from the index, it should take you directly to the latest post that you have not read. That will typically be the last page of a topic if you read the forum regularly. If you are only an occasional visitor then you will likely be taken to the first page of a topic because the first post will be the latest unread for you.

  • [Deleted User]StarFlower (deleted user)

    @Mark That's not happening for me. I'm on an Android device, I don't know if thst affects it?

    Anyone else having the same experience?

  • MarkMark Mod
    edited August 2017

    So when I referred to forum index, I'm talking about the actual forum, not the main website.

    But I have just noticed that the Social box on the main website is only linking in a non-personalised way ignoring what you might have read.

    Which of those paths are you taking?

  • [Deleted User]StarFlower (deleted user)

    Right, @Mark. I'll browse through the forum index, and I'll get mixed results. I'm going to do a test and see if searching by Recent Discussions has any effect/different results, or if there is a pattern.

    What is the Social box? I get to the Forums by clicking on Forum on the left-hand menu.

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