Am I being trolled?

I’m at a bit of a loss. I’ve tried to schedule with a pro for a couple weeks.

We spent a week and a half where she would ask me when I was available . I’d respond, then she’d ask how long of a session. Then she’d seem to completely forget that we had that interaction, and when I’d follow up she’d ask when I was available again.

This cycle repeated three times before I basically said, “I wish you well, you seem like a great person. But maybe we’re not a good fit. I’ll look to book with someone else.”

Quick response and she offers a booking.

“Ok, maybe we just got our wires crossed somewhere,” I thought. So I accepted.

She follows up and says to text for address because she was going to host.

I text back saying I’m looking forward to meeting, and I’ll see here later today if she can send the address.

She writes back, “Okay sounds good!” Then nothing.

Advice? Thoughts? I’m inclined to give up at this point. If for no other reason I feel like I’ll bring negativity into the session.

I doubt any of it is malicious on her part. But I’ve been exceedingly stressed about my inability get medical appointments scheduled. It’s miserable to be in chronic pain and have appointments moved and doctors offices not out orders in.

Scheduling a cuddle session shouldn’t be added stress, which it already has been.

Thanks for reading. I think this community it great, and I guess I just needed to vent a little.

Comments

  • I will personally move on from that pro, for so many reasons … but this is just me, & I won’t point out why, but you have already done so… all the best moving forward.

  • Yes, give up and move on. I agree that it's unlikely to be malicious. It sounds like she's not really at a place in her life where she should be in this line of work. You are not the first cuddle client to have this kind of experience.

    Sorry to hear of your difficulties in getting the help you need. I have experienced that and it can be very disheartening indeed.

  • There are plenty of pros who are almost unbelievably flaky and disorganized... to the point that you wonder how they manage to even live their regular life. Just move on and find someone else.

  • [Deleted User]MissX (deleted user)

    @AaronInLakewood Just to chime in from the pro perspective I'd second the advice you received so far. She sounds pretty flaky and you've given her enough opportunities to set up a session. Unfortunately what @CuddleWho is true, lots of flakiness here from pros and enthusiasts as well. I hope you find someone who'll appreciate your interest.

  • Yes she sounds flaky, but there might be a reason for not giving the address yet...

    If she is doing a session before yours, where that client is booking a hotel, she may be intending on using that hotel to host you later. She may not have the address yet either.

    Just a thought...

  • Wait to see if she follows up in a reasonable timeline to make concrete plans. You shouldn't have to beg someone to take your money! Now, I'd also consider this reportable and for sure blockable.

  • I'd add, if this happens with her again forget about her. You don't need the headache!

  • Sounds really frustrating. You’re right, this is a good community and there’s good people out there, don’t give up 👍

  • I’d forget about that one and try someone different. It shouldn’t be that difficult to book a session.

  • I don't think you're being trolled, but she seems a bit scattered. Time to move on to someone who has their stuff together.

  • edited July 2021

    There are some pro cuddler that there only for the money w no Interest in the client wat so ever.
    Notice this from personal experience...

    Me : are you open for this date?/?/???
    And at 10 am??

    After certain hrs or next day
    Pro Cuddler: yes .

    Me: 2 hr sesh ok w you?

    After certain hours or next day.
    Pro cuddler: yes

    $300 3 hr Sesh.

    Me: so wats your address?

    After certain hours or next day
    Pro cuddler:
    ( she types in her address)

    She literally put no effort. And during the sesh she slept through the whole time.

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