How do you wind down after a Cuddle Session?

Personally, how do you wind down after a cuddle session?

If there

  1. How do you wind down after a cuddle session?31 votes
    1. Sit in silence
        3.23%
    2. Listen to music
        9.68%
    3. Watch some TV
        0.00%
    4. Watch a movie or show
        0.00%
    5. Have a drink (or more)
        0.00%
    6. Smoke some hemp or weed
        0.00%
    7. Take some edibles
        3.23%
    8. Trip on psilocybin mushrooms
        6.45%
    9. Have a cigarette (or two)
        3.23%
    10. Write in your journal
        0.00%
    11. Scroll through social media
        3.23%
    12. Text/Call the person whom you just cuddled with who just left
        6.45%
    13. Scroll through these discussion boards
        0.00%
    14. Look for and reach out to your next cuddler
        0.00%
    15. Have a good cry
        0.00%
    16. Eat something/Make a meal
        9.68%
    17. Get some exercise/workout
        0.00%
    18. Go for a walk/get into nature
        3.23%
    19. Hug your pillow
        0.00%
    20. Hug your pet(s)
        0.00%
    21. Hug your kid(s)
        0.00%
    22. Varies based on who the cuddler is
        9.68%
    23. Take a shower/bath
        6.45%
    24. Multiple
        9.68%
    25. Other
      25.81%

Comments

  • I drive home. The closest pros I've met with are all over an hour away, so I'm almost always driving after I cuddle. That may change after I get a space set up where I can host.

  • @JoyfulHeart
    Same here. All most the majority of pros I've met. Is average of one hr drive.

  • I’m usually super hungry after! So nice when my cuddler brings me food so I’m left with a parting gift 🥰

    That’s alot of driving do you two live in rural areas? @JoyfulHeart and @Chris04

  • @MxBliss I'm in a small city. Most of the pros closer to my area are unable to host.

    I'll be moving into a better place soon, and will be able to host, so that will help.

    Also, my current favorite is about 3 hours away. After the first couple sessions with her, I started scheduling overnights to get the most out of the travel time.

  • I do a few of these. Listen to music on the commute home, then usually take a shower and a nap right when I get home. And my cat will come in to cuddle and nap with me 😴

  • I’m guessing the vast majority who select “other” will mean masturbation. I know that’s not allowed in sessions lol but it is perfectly natural and not against the codes of conduct for people to do on their own after a session. I’d bet it’s more common than most would admit and honesty is good.

  • I chase flamingos and beat box

  • honesty is good.

    @dcattorney Yes it is but it is thick with irony when an attorney says that! 😉

  • @dcattorney yikes! I chose other...because going to sleep wasn't listed. I usually host so its perfect to go to sleep!

  • @dcattorney - That’s actually an interesting one and a certainly an option which could be added to future renditions of this list.

  • @OhioMike - Also a very good one. I was thinking about adding something like ‘napping/sleeping’ but I guess I dozed off a little while writing out this list…zzz

  • lmao, tripping on shrooms seems like an odd way to wind down.

  • I thought of “other” too since taking a nap or falling asleep wasn’t listed.

  • Nap squad 💪💤

  • [Deleted User]goodguy197636 (deleted user)

    I usually have a hour drive home so I usually have one of my faves on xm radio on quietly in the background. I just enjoy the vibes from the session if there's any. I do offer to bring treats/snacks to our session to munchie on.

  • @MxBliss
    I live in Los Angeles. Is just the commute, lot of traffic. With out traffic, usual time would be round 35 min.

  • Oh yes LA traffic definitely can slow things down. Sometimes the one-hour drive from my parents to the beach takes 3 hours!!

  • I don't typically need to wind down. I enjoy the waves of oxytocin.

  • A nice hot shower and a cup of cold pressed coffee


  • Lite naps with cats

  • Cuddling it the winding down for me. Afterwards I feel refreshed relaxed and have more energy.

  • Cuddle sessions can be such a wind down on their own depending on the connection, energy levels or actual activity.
    Sometimes after a cuddle connection I do

    require some alone time. I find my peace hiking or kayaking typically but sometimes crank the tunes and sketch or paint for my personal recharge. Very cool question / topic. Loving all the unique answers!

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