@kimmypie maybe you're right and I wasn't using it right. I just know my brain stem felt like it had goose bumps
Those who have cuddled with me know I love having my hair played with a brushed during a session. It's a great feeling, refreshing and makes you feel free. I'm 62 years old with a full set of hair as well!!
@OhioMike i had to reread your last comment a time or two. I am living such a sheltered life here in Kentucky 🤣 what else am I missing I wonder?! 😝
@Touch_You_Crave you're in Bowling Green KY! Sheltered? You have the National Corvette Museum ! AND.........cool sink holes, at the same time
@OhioMike Hahah very true very true! But we don’t have flavored oxygen or public scalp massages ... yet lol.
well all you need is tens of thousands of 21 year olds, liquored up, passing out, waking up again, and doing it again Katy Perry style lol
Uhh...I usually prefer to just brush my own hair. I had my cousin brush it before and my niece when they wanted to do some styles. And I guess the hair salon people too which is where I am now lol. But personally I prefer to brush it. Will probably never have a cuddler do it for me but I do bring a brush to fix my hair after a cuddle.
@OhioMike i just now saw your reply 🤣🤣🤣 I see what’s driving the trends now. I will say I am quite at home in Kentucky amongst the caves, waterfalls, great food, music and art ❤️
@Touch_You_Crave i love your city and area I always liked staying there when I travel. And so close to Louisville or Nashville also. Awesome place ! 😊
I enjoy both, as well as giving and getting scalp massages!
@OhioMike thats great you’ve experienced some things in my area! Please drop me a line if you make your way out here again! I frequent both Nashville and Louisville! Perhaps my little nest here in bowling green isn’t too terrible 😝
@OliviaJohnston scalp massages are the best!! Completely and utterly relaxing.
@kimmypie that is heaven! @pmvines how can you not like that hair thingamajig…. I’d pay someone to use that on my head… it’s just bliss I can zone out with that.
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I adore running my fingers through hair, especially when their head is on my chest but now you mention it maybe I’ll buy a nice brush so clients can brush mine if they so desire. Clients tend to comment on the colour of it.
Weeeelll you cant brush my dreadlocks but if you massage my scalp and/or play in my hair i will be in heaven. I even like it when someone smoothes down my eyebrows too. 🤪
I love having my hair played with, too (not just brushed). 😊
I don’t have much hair but scalp massages feel great 👍🏿 On the giving end, I enjoy running my fingers through others long hair! One of the ways I help others that consent to feel relaxed!
Yes, yes and yes. Having my hair brushed is pure magical contentment. Nirvana on earth
@DimpleGirl Yes having your hair played with in any form is such a relaxing feeling
@SuperManCuddles absolutely love the feeling of a good scalp massage too! Pure bliss!
@RavenQueen pure magical contentment- you describe it perfectly!
@SnshineScarlett love the term hair “scritches!”
I have had 2 Cuddlers allow me to brush their hair. I enjoyed. It. They loved it. Or they enjoyed it. I loved it.
@CuddleDuncan you got a genuine giggle out of me ahhaha maybe I also need a cat or dog because I can’t get enough of running my fingers through people’s hair!
I used to have a partner with an impressively hairy chest and I was obsessed with trying to braid his hair, twirling it, trying fun hairstyles on it 🤣 its loads of fun!
@jasmineluv I agree!!! Gotta love ❤️ scalp massages 🤗!!! Thank you!!!
Absolutely love all these responses. The same feeling from when the hair dresser washes my hair with the right amount of pressure and the perfect soothing touch is my form of self care- (don’t even need the cut, I’m good with just the wash alone!)
In the same vein, totally agree how you put this @Mare_Bear how it’s that same feeling reflected in the cuddle zone once you find that deep relaxation. Or as @BuggleBear out it- toe curling relaxing if it’s that right person who knows how to do it just right!
@pmvines digging the throwback pic
@simsaddict YES to the feeling of it being sweet and tender- love those words to describe it when it’s with someone you trust
Thank you for sharing that sweet and cherished memory @Touch_You_Crave glad you can relate on a ‘scalp deep’ level!
Cheers to head scritches!
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This may sound weird but when I was very young my grandmother used to brush my hair with this little brush and rub a tissue across my face for light touch. This is my weakness. Anyone that does that to me will have me feeling super safe and probably asleep in ten mins lol.
@cuddler5617 That doesn’t sound weird at all. Touch and sensation can be powerfully relaxing and hit our buttons. I can totally understand that feeling. Glad you have a fond memory of that super secure and sense of safety with your grandmother.
I cannot get enough of someone touching and playing with my hair 🥰💜 It's so unbelievably soothing and makes me feel really close to them.
It's super curly though so no brushy brushy for me
So much touch can send us into blissful states. Hair brushing, playing with the hair, fingertip moves on the scalp. Slow soft massage of the half-moon behind the ear. It takes you back to the times of being carefree as a child. A safe place, absentminded soothing. Or to a time when you were relaxing with a special friend on a hillside watching the cloud shapes. The only thing holding me back from giving that touch when I cuddle, is the encouragement of a sigh, a smile of relaxation, and the words, "More, please." I make offers of consensual touch, you make requests of what positions and cuddles help you relax more.