how to deal with potential clients who become emotionally attached..

[Deleted User]KeliBean (deleted user)
edited June 2017 in Pro Cuddling
i just want to share my experience with a potential client who became to needy and asked for me to compromise my professional cuddler services by kissing and doing other stuff in our session. when i told him no he became very needy and even created a seperate kik account to try to coerce me from. then when i told him i was reporting him to this site as well as blocking and reporting him in kik he begged me for forgiveness and told me he thought we should be together....after only a few messages. it is very hard to get a response from the admins of this site in order to flag this user....can anyone help?

Comments

  • MorpheusMorpheus
    You should report him by going to his profile and clicking the three dots below save as favorite and then click on report.
  • TacticalTeamTacticalTeam
    edited June 2017
    Throw down the ban hammer? lol might be a troll? just report, block and move on.
  • funandadventurefunandadventure
    @mark this is a sham can it be removed. John
  • PinkLipstick22PinkLipstick22
    KeliBean,
    Thank you for sharing your experience.  I've noticed a high percentage of needy and pushy cuddlers on here, as well.  I've also reported a couple on here, but it didn't seem to be received by anyone.  I hope you're able to report him!  Good luck.

    Consider outing the person to warn others if reporting doesn't yield any results.
  • funandadventurefunandadventure
    This is a scam the poster dose not exist, highlight the profile.
  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)
    From my experience One-Man-Army Mark (patent pending) responds to reports quickly.

    This sounds like a bait thread from a fake profile.  This thread shouldn't just be closed but deleted.
  • PinkLipstick22PinkLipstick22

    Deleting a helpful post because someone doesn't like the original user seems extreme. The issue is valid and is quite common on here I've found.
    It's also difficult to get reports responded to, so discussing an issue can bring about a faster resolution, especially if someone is new to cuddling and isn't aware of the many potential ways things can go wrong.
    I say keep the post and continue adding advice. OP: if the person continues contacting after you've asked them to stop, go to the police. They will help you.

  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)

    OP was scammer bait and left or was banned over a month ago.

    I do agree that the issue is valid and common but I've never had any issue getting a prompt response from admin.

    Not sure why you would want to continue to add advice with the OP long gone but don't want to be extreme so carry on.

  • MarkMark Mod
    edited July 2017

    @PinkLipstick22 You might not be aware but the sender of reports rarely get a personal reply which might be why you have the impression of lack of action. So for example, I can recall recently banning/suspending quite a few users based on your reports but you might not have noticed as you were not contacted.

    In my experience I would say over 95% of reports are actioned. Pro related reports are probably slightly lower because it's more common for there to be a lack of evidence which can lead to a difficult decision. In those circumstances it's normal for the account to be flagged internally or the account suspended pending proof of ID which usually is not forthcoming.

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    I posted somewhere on the boards that @Mark is very on top of things and as busy as this site must get, I'm not sure how he does it.

  • PetraPetra

    I completely agree with you @Morpheus. Every time I contacted Mark, I received a reply from him within 24 hrs and sometimes within 1 hour only...it does amaze me :-) Thank you @Mark

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