So I'm a pro, this is my second post in this forum I think. I had an incident today that did kind of anger me. One of those cheeky fellows that asks a pro for free sessions in return they be 'my' cuddle buddy.
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I don't like when people see it as "oh she is just in it for the money."
I LITERALLY spend 2 hours prior to a session to incorporate appearances that show clients that I not only listen but want them to be their happiest when someone (who didn't have to) takes the time to try hard for them.
" lightspeed" 'hear' is to you. I wasn't rude, I wished you luck, you didn't like what I had to say and degraded my professionalism. I didn't even mess with you about grammar and you were upset I didn't say what you wanted. I wish instead of them just being able to deactivate and make new accounts their IP could be restricted.
I read what Tera said about blocking people without responding. I can get that if someone is really out there creepy or pervy you might do that. And certainly if you've told someone that you don't see any possible connection and they keep messaging, a block is justified. But if a sincere person sends a socially appropriate first meassage and you can't type a reply, even a simple "No thank you," you do us all harm. People begin to think the site is seeded with false profiles ( like a lot of the pay dating sites are ) or full of just plain rude people. You can feel that you are above common courtesy, but I'd ask you to think about it next time.
Some are very quick to block. I've sent a nice, pleasant greeting and have been blocked just for that.
As they say, "to each his own"