What type of cuddler you like? Example energetic,active.or normal 🏃‍♂️🤸‍♂️🏋️‍♂️💪

Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
edited November 2021 in General

I have met 5 beautiful amazing pros, all are wonderful human been but ☝️2 of them are energetic 💪 and active in cuddles. 1 she lives very far which I can't see . 1 she's amazing, very active every time I met her.
When she cuddles me she's %100 energetic,active, while she cuddles me she squeeze me tightly with 0 👌 problem ,if i ask any position as long as it's platonic, she's ready and do it very tightly she doesn't mind or feeling disturbed.
,😍 i love her service all the time with no problem .
I also love been squeezed tightly 😍
Would you love an energetic,active cuddler🏃‍♂️🏋️‍♂️ or normal cuddle.

By the way I'm a lazy person 🤗 but i can be active sometimes If I'm positive or something motivates me.

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  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles
    edited November 2021

    Nice forum post! I have cuddled with all types of cuddle types before but generally prefer an active cuddler!!!🤗

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @SuperManCuddles 🤣🤣 by look just looking at your face i can tell you are an active cuddler 💪 u are body builder🏋️‍♂️.
    I love active person too

  • Nature_Lover_Nature_Lover_

    This is a great post!! I prefer stimulating, deep conversations easily, but less active cuddling. Definitely down to ensure the best experience possible for my cuddle partner, and am open to all styles, as well as trying different positions, but my preference is to melt into one another with a secure and comforting embrace. I do love to play with hair and have mine played with for sure but again, prefer to hold and be held and just feel warm and safe and secure.
    If it’s an extended cuddle session then I love to mix it up with enjoying a meal together, seeing a movie, hiking, or any other type of platonic adventure we might wanna explore before or after a good cuddle puddle.

    🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @Nature_Lover_ i have read your post on excuercise, you do 🧗‍♂️🧗‍♀️🤺 martial arts and rock climbing, you are an active. I %100, agree with you not everyone would like very active cuddles, it's better to mix it 50/50, some like me i love both normal and active, ☝️ but i prefer active which requires alot efforts and energy it's not easy

  • Nature_Lover_Nature_Lover_

    @Ahmedali999 I prefer to be active in life yes but meant for cuddling I prefer nice relaxing, comforting and warm embraces. I do enjoy giving and receiving massages and again playing with hair ect, but this still feels calm and tuned in to me especially when coupled with great conversations. I have to guilt fully admit I also really enjoy being the little spoon - I jokingly say guilt fully as that’s more of a passive cuddle scenario to me but again, it’s my favorite! 😝

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @Nature_Lover_ > I prefer nice relaxing, comforting and warm embraces
    That's the real cuddles

    + little bit of squeezing tightly sometimes passing your energy to cuddler make it perfect 👌it's the most beloved thing in cuddle to me . I love been big spoon all the time. I love conversations in the beginning but i enjoy quite cuddles 😍

  • CuddlesByGracieCuddlesByGracie

    I love a relaxed cuddle but when you're needing comfort and security nothing beats a big bear hug of a squeeze for me!

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @GracieGirl %100 well said, relaxed cuddle it's wonderful with a bit of squeeze and pasing you energy it's gorgeous. you're amazing active cuddler, i love your excellent sessions, you been always active cuddler 😍 👌

  • CallMeMikeyCallMeMikey

    All types. I've had several of the pros I've worked with , over the years, tell me how surprised they are that I 'cuddle back.' Apparently there's a lot of people out there who just lay there like stiffs. Not me. I'm an active, happy participant.

  • CuddlesByGracieCuddlesByGracie

    @Ahmedali999 Thank you, you're a wonderful active cuddler too!

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999

    @CallMeMikey 🤣🤣 people are different types but I love active people especially when it comes to pros my favourites are active once .
    @GracieGirl 🤣 I'm a lazy person but when it comes to cuddle I'm active. Cuddles keeps me positive,active like a battery charger (soul charger)

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    Lol... "or normal" 🤣😂🤣

    That made me chuckle. Anywho, it depends on the moment and the other being's vibe, but typically I'm one who is both vertically passive and horizontally active.

    I like all the slow-mo rubbings, huggings, scritches, scratches and snuggle nuzzles I can give/get. But there is definitely a point, especially if adequate pretzelling has been achieved, where I may very well melt into a squishy gooey blob of contentedness and the only discernable movement will be the rise and fall of my chest for a bit.

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @quixotic_life > That made me chuckle. Anywho, it depends on the moment and the other being's vibe, but typically I'm one who is both vertically passive and horizontally active

    That's amazing, you are balanced. True what u said, I'm same as you, I can't wait for my next session 😍

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    What Nature_Lover_ described literally 🌌 😌

  • TheMidnightOwlTheMidnightOwl
    edited November 2021

    Interesting question. What even is “normal”???

    I don’t care as long as they have good hygiene, aren’t creepy or pushy, I feel safe to relax in their presence, and they know what “platonic” and “consent” mean in practice. Many don’t meet even these basic requirements so my pool of options is quite small.

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @TheMidnightOwl > Interesting question. What even is “normal @quixotic_life

    I didn't know which word to use rather than (normal) if I use lasy it's going to sound rude.
    I have cuddled different types of cuddlers☝️ some they put efforts into cuddles like little bit of squeeze and pass their energy.
    Flexibility, active,u give and recive ect
    Some they put no efforts is like u feel u not receiving, they just laying down which is ok .
    It's difficult to put efforts all the time but i I prefer little bit of efforts and flexibility,and passing your energy.

  • nurturingmannurturingman

    I agree with @quixotic_life and @TheMidnightOwl about questioning the word "normal," since I don't think there's a norm. I like being both energetic and, I would say, reposeful when cuddling. 😉

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999

    @nurturingman that's the correct word (reposeful) best cuddles when you give and recieve , i can't edit the title is too late😁

  • TheMidnightOwlTheMidnightOwl

    @Ahmedali999
    So, you seem to be referring to level of reciprocity in sessions. Like someone who is more passive versus more actively involved in the interactions. That makes more sense.

  • [Deleted User]Saysoh (deleted user)

    @Nature_Lover_

    " I also really enjoy being the little spoon"

    Noted.

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999

    @TheMidnightOwl that's what I love, whose more actively involved in the interactions. + respect

  • SnuggleBugleBugSnuggleBugleBug

    I am with @Nature_Lover_ when I cuddle, I like
    The melting
    merging
    gooey
    safety-sweet-comfort experience.

    MOSTLY... with some squeezes or strokes mixed in.

    Something I love which I have done on the dance floor- is MUSHING!

    It's inspired by Contact Improv Dance... where you just in essence roll over each other... it takes some prescience and skill, like being mindful around knees and how much weight you use on different areas and that is one of my favorites cuddle-esque activities.... but wouldn't do that in a session though....

  • JohnR1972JohnR1972

    Great topic. I am an “all of the above” cuddler. I certainly enjoy active bear hug cuddles, hair play and great conversation. I sometimes also enjoy just still and silent cuddling with my arms wrapped around my cuddle partner (or her arms wrapped around me). The best cuddles are when you and your partner are in sync and without a word you can read each other and transition from on type of cuddling to another. So far I have had this type of connection with all of my cuddle partners which makes for a very enjoyable cuddle session 😊

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999
    edited November 2021

    @GracieGirl > when you're needing comfort and security nothing beats a big bear hug of a squeeze for me!

    🤦‍♂️ i forgot to comment on that , i confirm what you said it's true, you really amazed me with that,and you are good choice, I'm glad i have been guided to you .☝️ that's what i need. when my battery get charging (my soul) to keep me going, deleting all viruses in my computer 🧠 struggles,stress, negatives,fears,anxiety ect,forget about everything, ☝️just meditate,focus, think about the monent 😑 of cuddling, little bit of deep breathings, relaxing music 😴, the sense,comfort, compassion,it's really effective.

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