Rude karma….

[Deleted User]love_raven (deleted user)
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How does someone write Karma about you and you’ve never even had a session?? This person was messaging me and I was responding when I could. I do not always get my notifications 🤷🏻‍♀️So then he wrote “no communication” under my Karma tab, gave me 1 star, and then blocked me!! People have no patience and can be so very rude. It just shows their level of maturity I guess. My work life comes first before anything!! I’m not sitting here waiting on someone to cuddle with 24/7….. Thank you for reading and have an amazing day ☺️

Comments

  • bekah_cuddlesbekah_cuddles

    I didn't think they could... Either way, I don't see the 1 star review on your profile. It was likely taken down.

  • cuddleversedcuddleversed

    Unfortunately the way is set up people can give karma to anybody that they’ve been having a PM conversation with so maybe that could be a needed change.
    The negative karma in your profile was removed from what I can see so that means the mods reviewed the situation and saw that the bad karma was unwarranted and took care of it.
    Personally if I send a message I wait for a response but if it doesn’t come I just move on to the next cuddler because there are a myriad of reasons why a pro or non pro for that matter don’t reply to a message and like it has been said before, nobody owes anybody an answer so people need to relax and realize that we’re here trying to connect but we absolutely have lives outside cuddle comfort.
    @love_raven im glad your situation was resolved and hope you don’t have to deal with this too much in the future. Happy cuddling!

  • Ahmedali999Ahmedali999

    ☝️I think if moderators can improve the site getting Karma after session been booked through CC only for pros.
    Many had same issue like yours.

  • [Deleted User]love_raven (deleted user)

    Yes they’ve removed the Karma, thank you for your replies, it’s very much appreciated ☺️

  • RadiantHugsRadiantHugs Mod

    I'm sorry this happened, that certainly is not right, and I'm glad that the bad karma was removed!

  • Nature_Lover_Nature_Lover_

    This has happened to me twice lately and it’s extremely upsetting. One person kept cat calling me in my inbox and I told them this is not the place for that and they kept calling me sexy ect, and then left nasty karma which lingered for days despite being promptly reported by myself and at least one other pro in the site who received the same nasty karma from the same guy. Super thankful for the rapid response to the latest inaccurate and harmful karma.
    With regard to this platform I have learned to accept that some people will lash out if sexual advances are not reciprocated or if messages ( to which get no alerts from ) are not replied to within moments of being sent. The majority of people I interact with on the site are respectful, understanding and down right amazing over all. Just a matter of accepting the good with the bad here I suppose.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    No, don't accept the bad. Report it. The site doesn't want the bad. Nobody wants the bad. Bad behaviour should not be accepted because it is unacceptable.

    If in doubt, Report. It's up to the mods to decide what to do, if anything. Even if the incident is minor, Reporting it helps the mods build up a picture of the person.

    @love_raven don't worry about it. Sadly it's not that rare. Report and move on.

  • JoyfulHeartJoyfulHeart

    @CuddleDuncan

    I agree. Reporting causes no harm. If the mods don't see it as actionable, they will do nothing. Like you said, reporting small things can help mods have a clearer picture.

    We certainly don't want to spam the mods, but anytime something appears to violate the website guidelines, I don't hesitate to report it.

  • SideonSideon

    As others have noted (thank you!), reporting is a good thing. When in doubt - report it.

    We regularly remove punitive and negative karma, ESPECIALLY when two haven't met/cuddled. Flaking and ghosting is an issue for transgressors in that they'll get booted for wasting time - karma is the least of their worries.

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