Hi do yall know other site or app , to get in touch with cuddlers or hugger ?
Im from france btw
Thanks
Its almost like going to McDonald & asking where’s the nearest Burger King lol (especially when having access to Google maps), Google search should do the trick.
Wow that was pretty rude of you @cuddles_ndream
@CapricornKing Wait... how that rude. First,,, @cuddles_ndream is right. Second,,, he could've just Google it.
@CapricornKing nothing I said was meant to be rude, if anything I was highlighting how inquiring such a question on the open forum is rude to the site owners / developers / team ect … its like me going to an oil change place , asking all the customers sitting/waiting for their vehicles (in front of the staff / owners )…. ect ect ect. ty Chris.
@nplvsth - I may be a little biased, but of all of the other cuddle sites I’ve visited, none are as good as CuddleComfort here, just sayin’.
Why don’t you just forget about all of those other sites and just spend some time with us here for awhile yea?
There are some great cuddler’s you can meet here, and since you’re already here, you don’t even have to do any other searching or traveling around to find others since the best ones are all right here.
@NicoSnuggs I agree. CuddleComfort it is the best one of all.
@cuddles_ndream
Lmao 😅
@cuddles_ndream "nothing I said was meant to be rude, if anything I was highlighting how inquiring such a question on the open forum is rude to the site owners / developers / team ect … its like me going to an oil change place "
The owner doesn't seem to be making bank from here. So I don't think it matters to him as much as it might have otherwise, especially considering all the others aren't as good. Or are just built different, so there's practically no competition. You want an apple? Right that way. A pomegranate? Right here. Lol.
Also because of how niche this is, if it helps someone find the connection they need from elsewhere I don't see a reason to not help here. And as much as he could Google, nothing beats hearing it from others you can actually interact with and possibly hear their opinion with it. As well as maybe even finding a site or an app you may not have otherwise found by just googling certain words.
@nplvsth I'd also second, third?? I lost count... that this is the best I know. Though you can also try the cuddle buddy subreddit and maybe even be in luck using the Whisper app lol. Though the latter may proof to be much more cumbersome than fruitful.
Not cuddles but https://www.human.online/
@Lovelight ” The owner doesn't seem to be making bank from here. So I don't think it matters to him as much as it might have otherwise, especially considering all the others aren't as good.”
How do you know whether the site owner is making bank or not? I didn’t know that the finances on CC & its distribution were public record… also, why should it matter if something is profitable or not for others to consider common courtesy? regardless if the competition isn’t as good..
Thanks for the replies guys
"How do you know whether the site owner is making bank or not?"
I don't and didn't say I do, it's what it seems to me going by the amount of mainly guys who complain about pros charging money, the people who push boundaries causing pros to have to cut ties, the ones who don't show up or waste time. And pretty sure this isn't a multimillion dollar company.
Furthermore, pros keep 85% of what they make probably minus taxes. That leaves 15% which taxes may or may not have to be paid* on. Edit source for reference: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/become-a-professional-cuddler
"also, why should it matter if something is profitable or not for others to consider common courtesy?"
Because if something isn't making much money or the goal of it wasn't really that in the first place, as I remember reading (can't find where) CC started as enthusiasts and a percent of the income goes back into running the site, then it won't matter. And if it was making a whole lot, pretty sure part of it wouldn't be run by volunteers.
"regardless if the competition isn’t as good.." If I ran a car company, I wouldn't care about some bike company or coffee shop being built next to me, which is what those other platforms are like to me. And pretty sure they are like that to many others. Also given how niche this is, people can use all the avenues they can get to find someone. It's safe to say that most who are looking for alternatives aren't doing so to find pros either. So it'd be nonsensical to have someone stay soley on this site if it doesn't meet his or her needs so far.
“ If I ran a car company, I wouldn't care about some bike company or coffee shop being built next to me”
This is going way longer than it needs to, & I feel that this is a case where someone doesn’t want to be proven wrong no matter what … so I’ll add this as my final response, the op asked, “do y’all know other site or app, to get in touch with cuddlers or hugger?” he didn’t ask for another social media platform or forum, he specifically asked for cuddlers or hugger.
“ especially considering all the others aren't as good.”
“ I'd also second, third?? I lost count... that this is the best I know.”
You stated that the others aren’t as good as here, & that this is the best you know, to make the point that it doesn’t, (or shouldn’t) matter, and that we could, (or should) share that information, while pointing out that I was wrong for saying otherwise … and in the end you still didn’t share any of them lol … Reddit is not a cuddling site, you have to search for a sub category , this is equivalent to me saying what I said, search Google, the Whisper app is not a cuddling app, it is design for people to be vulnerable & express themselves whole heartedly while maintaining their privacy … Everything you’re fighting for or trying to prove, you didn’t do yourself, which is even more strange, you didn’t mention none of these “other apps or sites” which aren’t as good, & it is pointless to mention them now, it would literally be to prove a point, the fact is that you didn’t, & maybe there’s a conscious reason why you didn’t, even if you didn’t (or don’t) realize it, which goes back to common courtesy… but this is my final thoughts on the matter, thank you.
@cuddles_ndream "& I feel that this is a case where someone doesn’t want to be proven wrong no matter what …"
Sorry to hear you feel that way.
"so I’ll add this as my final response, the op asked, “do y’all know other site or app, to get in touch with cuddlers or hugger?” he didn’t ask for another social media platform or forum, he specifically asked for cuddlers or hugger."
Yes.
"You stated that the others aren’t as good as here, & that this is the best you know, to make the point that it doesn’t, (or shouldn’t) matter, and that we could, (or should) share that information, while pointing out that I was wrong for saying otherwise … and in the end you still didn’t share any of them lol …"
I wasn't pointing out that you were wrong, I simply presented my view point about why I think it doesn't matter.
"Reddit is not a cuddling site, you have to search for a sub category"
Who said it is? I said "Though you can also try the cuddle buddy subreddit and maybe even be in luck using the Whisper app lol." Note I said the cuddle buddy subreddit. I also suggested whisper as a place he could try to find someone.
Enjoy your day or whatever it is for you where you are.
@cuddles_ndream "Its almost like going to McDonald & asking where’s the nearest Burger King lol (especially when having access to Google maps), Google search should do the trick."
PS. Sorry your highness that I gave someone suggestions to other places he could try to find cuddlers rather than specifically a cuddle site or app. When even you just told him to Google it. At least I got as close as I could and a lot closer to trying to help him. Just cause you came at me over nothing I feel the need to point that out, not that I care about it being a competition. Peace.
Play nice, y’all. - Babichev
Just to experiment, I searched for cuddlers in Paris, France on CC, and there were only three people who were online inside a month ago, and the most recent pro was last online 3 months ago. So, to modify the analogy of the fast food restaurant, it's like going to McDonalds and discovering their freshest burger is 3 days old. It is then you ask if there are any other burger stands nearby. But we didn't go to through the trouble of discovering what the OP discovered before troubling him with sarcasm.
WOW! Goodness....... Well...... @nplvsth you certainly got a glimpse of how the forums work sometimes. There was a bit of sarcasm being tossed around. As much as we who love this community REALLY LOVE IT..... The forums aren't always a good representation of the people who are a part of the cuddling world. (Sometimes I feel like the forums present like the playground at a school.) There are a ton of people who make up the beauty that is Cuddle Comfort but just a few who are actually posting in the forums, so hopefully this back and forth doesn't discourage people like you from the idea of CUDDLING!!!! Thank you @Babichev for the reminder that this community is supposed to be about kindness and connection AS WELL as curiosity and questioning and exchanging personal experiences.
It does seem like there have been a lot of connections happening in the U.S. but not as much over in your part of the world. There were a few other online communities like some have mentioned, but this does seem to be the most active community of its kind with both professionals as well as enthusiasts.
There are also some online groups that we have here like "MeetUp" and I have found some groups that get together for cuddles and also connect in the online world through zoom and such. Maybe YOU will be one of the first people to get things started out there!
Welcome to the community!! And as always.... May The Cuddle Gods be EVER in Your Favor!! 😊😊😊
@cookiecrumb Yes you right.... but then there's also Google. Or people also going to defend him, is because he has no way to get access to the wifi/internet or data 🤦.
See one time... I went to Jack in the Box.
And for what ever reason thy were short on food, They ran out in a lot of their menu.
@nplvsth my approach to you could’ve & should have been different, & I could have expressed my thoughts more mindful & respectfully, I apologize.
"Just Google it" y'all know that part of seeing results from search engines and finding resources is from people asking in forums and the like, right? And that by asking he may have the chance to find something he may not have otherwise got to see by just Googling whatever key words he could. Or possibly get a little more insight with the resources .
Side note:
I used to ask others for help with directions when I wasn't so tech savvy, had no data, and didn't know that I could download Google maps offline. And even now I still find myself ocassionally asking for help, because I sometimes have difficulties finding places I've never been to before even with trying to follow the map directions. Glad nobody told me "Google map it".
Also it seems to me he felt the need to ask people he could've had the chance to have live interactions with. Instead he was met with hostility. Like @sillysassy said, I hope this doesn't discourage him from asking for help and having a pleasant time here. Peace y'all.
@Chris04 ty again, they would tag you , quote you … you prove them wrong, & they are so set on “being right” that they start quoting their own quotes lol … & than you have others that are so used to sadistic & narcissistic behavior throughout their lives, & seeing those that remind them of their enablers leave the platform , that they try & somehow turn it on you. Me & you know what’s good, I could have approached it differently but the thoughts remain the same on the matter. Since I already know how these people think, they would use this opportunity to say that I mentioned I wouldn’t speak more on it, but they won’t point out that they have already peaced out twice. Peace.
@lovelihht The point i was traying to make, if he was able to log in to CuddleCumfot and type something. So that means he does have access to the internet to look for other cuddle websites. Or unless people going to defend him that what if he went to the public library 🤦
@cuddles_ndream I was thinking, he never really was looking for another cuddle website. ( Because the answer is logic) He knew EXACTLY WHAT HE DID. And he made it, we all felt into the trap. I seriously continue with the discussion. But I rest my case. I prove my point.
And for the Rest... Your opinion always matters, speak your mind out. Nothing wrong having differences. Some people like Spooning position other Like the honeymoon positions and we don't discuss that because both awsome. Yall take care and your Mental care always important, need help always reach our to someone. Yall are awsome i love you all and be safe.
If you can't find Burger King then asking at McDonalds is the smart thing to do. They are much more likely to know where it is, being in the same line, than some random shop.
When I worked in a bookshop by far the commonest question of this type was for some other bookshop. Nobody ever asked me for directions to the pet food shop. (Actually, strictly speaking, the commonest request was for directions to the post office, but that was due to a quirk of local geography. I strongly suspect that google maps, which did not exist at the time, would have made this request more common, not less so.)
