Trying to figure you out @morpheus . First you come on suggesting that the photo is not appropriate for this site - because it seems here and in other threads you have taken it upon yourself to be the cuddle police, but then you talk about someone, if even jokingly, posting a photo of his bulging crotch.
None of it adds up coming from a guy who has his own picture on a friendly cuddle site as one depicting some kind of demonic looking figure. Just weird to me.
@bruin_alum my default picture is the character, Morpheus from the movie, The Matrix.
Can't say he looks very cuddly - violent if anything. Platonic or not, I would rather cuddle up to cleavage than that monster - if we are judging people simply by photos that is! Ever hear the saying about people in glass houses??? You all should go a little easier on someone who posts something you don't necessarily like or agree with - after all, this is a site about being friendly, cuddling with each other, spreading a feeling of peace and love - yet you all jump on the poor girl immediately.
@bruin_alum is there any reason why you're addressing just me about this and not the others who have said something negative regarding this post? I feel I was very polite in comparison to @sometimes
I think it is not just related to this thread Morpheus, but others. It may be personal from me, and I am sorry for that, but I just keep reading threads where, again in my opinion, you seem to chime in with this attitude of being "The Man" for the forum and the site, and that your opinion is not really opinion but fact we should all be living by. It has really rubbed me the wrong way, and this really should probably be a private message, but since you asked in an open forum, I am answering here. I just take personal issue with people who come off holier than thou, so to speak, and if it were only this thread, you're right, I would have picked on others too. But I have felt that way in a lot of threads regarding your continuous input.
Hit me up if you're in LA and we'll do lunch, I'm a pretty cool guy.
Will do. I am there fairly often.
@chococuddles, Shouldn't that be "Sensual, Scrumptious, and Yummy CuddleCrotch"?
Your "Platonic only" slayed me. #dead
Some of the same men on this site who would criticize said person also would, and in some cases have, partake in some boundary pushing cuddling and would have no problem at all with their cuddle pal looking like and wearing exact clothing if not less in said persons photo. In some cases, some folks have and continue to not always be the picture image of platonic cuddling . I admit this to be hearsay, but i have heard that even some of the very folks who take it upon themselves to point fingers at folks and start flame wars have engaged in practices that are very much not befitting of the cuddle contract. Maybe if we werent so driven to sexualize women, while at the same time making light of our penises getting hard and thumping into them as we cuddle, we wouldnt be making such an issue. And would it make a difference if said person in photo happened to have small breasts? It is after all the same type of clothing I would imagine many people wear to cuddle in. Perhaps we can get a big scarlet A? Regardless of what you may deem appropriate or not, lets not all turn into hypocrites over it.
Scarlet is a harsh color.
I wouldn't mind an 'A' in pink or fuchsia.
Or Calculus.
Suggestion #3: wear actual clothing, not just a bib that nominally covers a quarter of a bra from the front only.
Chocos cuddle crotch, platonic only comment is very likely the most hilarious thing ever said in the cuddle comfort forums #slayedit
I should upload a pic of myself here in nothing but a bib.....hahaha.
To be on topic....personally light touches on my arms are better than good. It's super tingly for me. But I think that is uncommon as I've never had anyone else tell me that it has the same effect on them.
@jasoncuddles regarding arms, wrists and inner elbow are the best
bliss
The light touch thing? I just realized/remembered in prior body work/massage/reiki/cuddle sessions, any time my face or neck are touched my brain pretty much flat-lines from so much oxytocin. BEST platonic sensation in the world (aside from sharing a great meal (or molten caramel chocolate cake) with someone you care about).
Now I want cake
Anyone game for molten caramel chocolate cake at this awesome Italian restaurant in Berkeley, and then cuddling - message me.
This was a very interesting read over all. In the way of insight and entertainment