So, I will not say any names, but this is the most annoying thing to me. Why do some think that a guy doesn't also want to get to know someone first before feeling safe with them in the ways, behaviors, characteristics, and attitudes they might be carrying?
Just pay me to cuddle you already mentality might work for some people, but let's get something straight, I am not going to cuddle just because of how pretty or young a person thinks they are. That is so pretentious and highly irritating to me. An immediate turn off from wanting to cuddle.
I suggest getting a desire to grow in emotional and mental relationship building skills. These things will be hugely helpful to anyone out there struggling in relationships in general.