No
Well i made appointmwnts with two pro’s that turned out not to bw who they claimed. So time wasting and annoying.
I don't prefer the term "bad experiences".
I prefer "material" for any future stand up comedy career.
Just once: with someone who it turned out really needed to be searching on FetLife rather than here on CC.
But that's one out of many dozens. Some of the others have been meh but by and large it's been a great experience. Just like everything else in life you can't focus on the negative. You can find the bad and of the good in everything. Focus on the good
I have had many sessions with pros most have been amazing. I have had 3 that I wish I could forget.
I had 2 females who didn't want to leave when I had to go to work...🤔🤔🤔, Which was weird, you want to stay in a person's, house you barley know🤷..but I guess that's a compliment to how much fun I am😎..so I digress!!!
I've only had one session that I could describe as bad. My only real requirement is that I feel respected, and I wasn't.
I would only say when they don’t happen. Sometimes you really need it & at others you may tend to be really looking forward to it.
I’ve been catfished.
Cuddlers have stolen from me.
Cuddlers have lied in karma about me.
Cuddlers have stood me up or been extremely late.
Some cuddlers aren’t interested in actually cuddling.
But still I’d say the majority of the time it’s good.
People gettin gropy. People who think they don't need to wear pants. Ick. When I worked out of my house I was constantly on edge because people knew where I lived. Now that I work in an office I don't have to be too nice about people who overstep boundaries.
@vivalalife YES! I agree With you.
I was told I apparently fart in my sleep. So that’s my downside, I guess 😂
I would love to hear others talk about what you have learned from these bad experiences and what you have done to help minimize bad experiences from happening again.
@simsaddict pretty girls don’t fart
Yea right 🤣
@Asha_Imani welcome to Cuddle Comfort. Congratulations on your pro status. Wish you lots of success 😊
“Bad experience?” Can’t really say I have ,even after almost 5 years . Meeting people here is just a really “awesome experience “ for me
I do wonder sometimes when glancing over forums when people here have “bad experiences “ , why do they stay here ? But that’s for another thread 👍
I'm with @Morpheus on this!
No not me!! I have always been professional and respectful of ALL boundaries. I go above and beyond the call of duty to ensure that whom ever I am cuddling with, is safe and comfortable.
Once.
I booked a session with 3 pros at once, with advanced knowledge, for an overnight cuddle puddle. I even bought some board games and anyone who won got to keep the game lol. They all ended up cuddling each other all night lmao.
Pretty sure two of them were really into the 3rd, but man talk about unprofessional.
From a pro perspective, I have been super lucky with my clients thus far. Now my inbox is a different story, but actual experiences have been positive. I am extremely selective about whom I cuddle with and take on as a client. I don’t do it for the money, I do it for the cuddles and to meet new people and hear their stories and provide platonic affection. I have a full time job that takes me away from my home base often, so my schedule is limited and I prefer to fill my time up with good people rather than strangers whom don’t respect me. For this reason I ask for ID and deposit for sessions, and tend to attract locals rather than tourists - which is fine with me living in a tourist city (las vegas). I screen clients thoroughly through conversation and boundary setting and have lucked out, most of the “bad clients” show their true selves before we ever meet and keeps me from wasting my time.
Bad - no. Annoying - yes. I prefer not to dwell on it.
I haven't had any bad cuddling experiences since my divorce.
@JoyfulHeart ouch ! 😆
@Asha_Imani Big welcome to you !! @Jkay 🤣🤣🤣 that could be a life motto ! @Mela_B @CuddleWho @vivalalife I am sorry to hear about these negative experiences! @Connecticut1977 Love and appreciate your answer!! @simsaddict I recently heard a ( rumor ?? ) from a trusted source and fellow pro cuddler I will not name here that you ‘farted like a Gorilla in the kitchen,’ the other day! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷♀️🤪
I have had so many amazing experiences and met wonderful people I would have otherwise never encountered in my normal circles. Most experiences are meaningful connections which often include incredible conversations and comfort.
Regarding the negative experiences :
I am beyond grateful for our amazing moderators who help review and resolve these scenarios.
Yes… It’s extremely apparent that a large chunk of the population has no idea what “ongoing consent” regarding touch means.
Have had some good. Some extremely awkward. And one that was absolutely horrific. Many meetups never got to actual cuddling. Especially since the horrific one.
@grumpy_cat I'm so sorry to hear of that experience! When you book a paid session with a pro, it is your time, and the session should be all about you. If you booked pros and they ended up cuddling each other instead, I'd be asking for a refund at the very least. The very first cuddle session I had with a pro was horrible. I won't get into details, but I clearly didn't book her again. After that first session I learned all the right questions to ask during the initial screening call, and the next pro I found was amazing as a result. We ended up doing monthly sessions for two years straight, and it was so transformative! The worst that has happened to me during a session is that my pro fell asleep once. Hardly something I'd whine about 😊
Yes. The very first cuddle pro I booked was a negative experience. Fortunately, the second pro I booked with was great and kept me from giving up.
More times then I can count , I had one tonight !! I don’t get why some men think because they pay for our time , they pay for our body , it’s a shame !
Since I've been on here, so a few years now, I've only had one cuddle, and it wasn't even with someone from here. Only complaint I would have with it was the location and the cuddling surface (it was hard). It was completely platonic as well. Also that it's been a couple of years.
For me it wasn’t necessarily having a bad experience, but some of the questions I’ve been asked by potential clients. Everyone that joins this site has to agree to the cuddle rules and I have my own code of conduct that has to be agreed to, but I still get inappropriate questions that let you know what the person is looking for. I’ve concluded that most don’t even read the rules, at all.
Very bad experience of offering other services . also had one who should have her cuddling space condemned .it was that filthy .
@Gaba
Oh god dirty places are the WORST. I literally spent the whole day cleaning before my session with my last pro because I'd be deathly embarrassed if my place was dirty! But maybe I'm just a clean freak.
One time I set up a session with a pro and she came in right at the scheduled time. She then proceeded to go to the bathroom and by the time she was ready at least 10 minutes had passed. She did small talk for another 5 minutes, set up an alarm and one hour after she knocked on the door the alarm went off and she bolted from the bed, grabbed her stuff and left. So I got maybe 45 minutes of cuddle time, she was a cold fish by the way and to top it off I paid for the hotel room so yeah worst experience ever. I’ve learned from that though and I am more careful when selecting a pro to cuddle with. I also politely ask that if im paying for a hotel that additional time is added to the cuddle session because of the expense.