My Pledge, as a Man, to Female Cuddlers

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I added the following to my profile--feel free to share your thoughts and suggestions for additions or improvements.

**My Pledge to You, My Potential Cuddler

**#1 MOST IMPORTANT: I want you to come away from our time together feeling like you had the best experience you could've hoped for, so your comfort and happiness will be a top priority for me. This includes, but isn't limited to, making the effort to understand and completely honor your boundaries.

--I'm happy to engage in any preliminary communication necessary to ensure that we've addressed any issues or concerns.

--I can visit or host. If I host, I'll provide a clean and comfortable environment. My home is animal- and fragrance-free. We have 24-hour security on the premises and we can register you with security if that would make you feel safer.

--I promise you that I look like the pictures in my profile.

--I promise to be truly interested in who you are, and what you have to say, at least for the time that we're together, and to be a good listener. I'm also okay with long quiet periods.

--I'm happy to accommodate any special requests you might have, within the appropriate boundaries. I take pleasure in making other people happy and bringing them a little joy whenever I can.

--I'm fit and athletic, but I'm flexible on the types of body types I enjoy cuddling with. In the past I've had a very nice time with women who would be considered "larger" by societal standards.

--Assuming things go as well as I expect them to, I'd be happy to write a karma review for you and would be pleased if you'd be willing to reciprocate.

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  • [Deleted User]grumpy_cat (deleted user)
    edited February 2022

    I dunno what this guy is on, but I'll counter his offer with:

    • I'll shower before hand
    • Have the pay ready in an envelope
    • Wont try to grope you
    • Have you out the door by the end time

    Also I tip in pizza.

    EDIT

    I forgot an important one:

    • Not spam your DMs/continue to contact you after
  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    It sounds like @CuddleDuncan wrote this pledge for you 😅 I had to double check who the op was lol jkjk

  • MCcuddles2MCcuddles2

    Im:
    -never gonna give you up
    -never gonna let you down
    -never gonna turn around and desert you.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike
    edited February 2022

    @FitSmartCuddler am I to assume you are trying to reach an enthusiast? or Pro? or Both?

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    @cuddles_ndream the clue that it wasn't me is the part about "fit and athletic" ..... 🙄

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
    edited February 2022

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  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @OhioMike, I'm currently only interested in enthusiasts but I think much of this could apply to either scenario

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @grumpy_cat said: "I dunno what this guy is on ...." Whatever do you mean? I'm quite drug-free, I assure you.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @FitSmartCuddler ok gotcha 👍

    I remember some of your earlier posts since you joined last summer. I don't know if this "pledge" will help you find what you are describing. Maybe it will. Most is common sense stuff so you got that going on 😊

    From my experience here it takes effort to meet enthusiasts. By effort I mean triple whatever you are doing currently. I don't think its enough to be fit and smart and have a" pledge" to go along with it. I mean look at me ! 🤗

  • [Deleted User]DeadGirlWalking (deleted user)

    In the past I've had a very nice time with women who would be considered "larger" by societal standards.

    I suspect you're trying to be diplomatic, but singling out a certain group of people based on their body type, and not mentioning any others is a very backhanded way of reassuring said group of their desirability.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @BuggleBear 👍

  • [Deleted User]ClubSamwiches (deleted user)

    Lmfao

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @OhioMike said: "Most is common sense stuff so you got that going on." Maybe, but I keep reading over and over again from women how guys almost always push boundaries so I'm not sure what else to do besides make it clear that I understand the problem.

    "From my experience here it takes effort to meet enthusiasts. By effort I mean triple whatever you are doing currently. I don't think its enough to be fit and smart and have a" pledge" to go along with it."

    I don't think anyone who's been here for more than a half a minute fails to realize that getting a woman, on any website under any premise, to pay you attention and eventually come to meet you, who are a stranger to them, is challenging.

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @SweetSammi said: "Lmfao." And why is that, exactly?

  • [Deleted User]DeadGirlWalking (deleted user)

    @CuddleDuncan apparently you're the only male on the website that cares about reassuring women that you're going to respect them, so much so that other people's posts get attributed to you. Way to go, rockstar!

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @FitSmartCuddler ok you understand the problems women have here, and you know its challenging to meet them.

    So lets look at this from another angle. Why do you think some men are successful here in meeting women to cuddle?

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    @MCcuddles2 that’s very unique!! 😂😂😂

  • RezzRezz
    edited February 2022

    -- In the past I've had a very nice time with women who would be considered "larger" by societal standards.

    Saying you're open to cuddling all body types is far more pc than whatever it is that you're trying to convey here.

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @OhioMike said: "So lets look at this from another angle. Why do you think some men are successful here in meeting women to cuddle?"

    The impression I get from reading many comments is that men aren't having much success meeting enthusiasts.

  • NicoSnuggsNicoSnuggs

    @MCcuddles2 - As a fellow follower of the Astley way of life, you have my upmost respect. 🙏🏽

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @FitSmartCuddler ok yes most comments on forums are men not having success! (BINGO!🤣 btw )

    But what about the ones that are? What's your impression of them?

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod
    edited February 2022

    @FitSmartCuddler I have success in cuddling enthusiast women. For example, the other day two enthusiasts (who I know well) both messaged me on the same afternoon to say they were a bit low and was there any chance of cuddling tonight.

    I am fortunate in that I live in a place where there actually are some women enthusiasts.

  • MCcuddles2MCcuddles2

    Thanks @NicoSnuggs

    Furthermore my pledge to you is

    -Never gonna make you cry
    -Never gonna say goodbye
    -Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

  • [Deleted User]DeadGirlWalking (deleted user)

    I find it fascinating, that someone who claims to want to make women feel comfortable around him, and improve his chances of success when it comes to meeting female enthusiasts for cuddles, has actively ignored all of the women that have posted their thoughts on this thread, except for one that he replied to with a rather confrontational tone...

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @OhioMike said: "But what about the ones that are? What's your impression of them?"

    I don't know. I'd have to have some details about who they are, who the cuddlers are, and what the conversation was like that took them from intro to cuddling.

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler

    @BuggleBear said: " has actively ignored all of the women that have posted their thoughts on this thread, "

    ALL the women? I count two. I replied to one.

  • [Deleted User]DeadGirlWalking (deleted user)

    There are four women on this thread. You replied (confrontationally) to one because you didn't like what she had commented, and have ignored all of the actual advice you have been given.

    I'm starting to see why you're having a problem meeting.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @FitSmartCuddler Can you do me a favor that I have mentioned in other thread(s)?

    Pretend you are a woman here looking for a male cuddler. Change all your search settings to max limits so you can get the most male cuddlers showing up. Keep looking till you find a male cuddler that has the gold stars / numbers on their profile pic.

    Click on those men and look at there profile, friends, karmas, etc. See what women wrote, see what the men wrote etc. Now I know its a lot of work but I mentioned that work earlier in the thread. That will definitely help get you details about men who have had success here.

  • [Deleted User]ClubSamwiches (deleted user)

    @FitSmartCuddler ”laughing my f#%!ing ass off”

  • FitSmartCuddlerFitSmartCuddler
    edited February 2022

    @OhioMike said: "Click on those men and look at there profile, friends, karmas, etc. See what women wrote, see what the men wrote etc. "

    I picked one male forum member at random who had a five-star rating. I clicked on about ten of his karmas; they were all from pros. Now, I don't have a problem understanding that if I start cuddling pros, and accumulating good reviews, eventually my "image" may become positive enough that it might actually start getting me some enthusiast cuddles. But I'm not interested in paying for cuddles. Bit of a paradox, isn't it?

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