I’m new to this! But I’m not sure where to start! Any tips and tricks would be appreciated! 😍☺️
I think that you've already found the best help that you can get. Keep reading the forums, and when you think that you have something worth saying, say it.
I know that it can be difficult, but you might also try to expand the "about me" section of your profile. Tell me why I would want to cuddle with you, rather than with somebody else. Read the profiles of lots of other women, particularly those who are active on the forums. Learn how they style their profiles.
Other than that, just try starting some conversations with a few other people here, and see where they go.
As a newbie, I found this thread by @Cuddle_RN very helpful: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/13143/ladies-heres-my-screening-process-as-a-female-enthusiast/p1
Do you need somebody? And can it be anybody?
@TheBestCuddlr 🤣🤣🤣
@Nodramalama Just encouragement.
If you have something new to say, start a thread and share. As you did. If you see a post you want to comment-on, jump in. As with many large groups, we're largely easy going. It's always interesting to think about other's comments and posts. For me it expands the human experience. Welcome!
Hi @Nodramalama, welcome! Keep your standards sky high and put up with zero shenanigans. Every single one of the "don'ts" on my profile is based on things that have actually been said to me on this site. Us enthusiast women are basically unicorns here, and we don't last long unless we get tough. There are some wonderful men here but the nature of this site makes it a magnet for predators, unfortunately. They will push your boundaries and try to talk you into all kinds of things. NONE of the good men that have become a regular part of my life have ever tried any of that crap. The second they start pushing or for any other reason give you the uh-oh feeling, block them, seriously. After a little over a year here, I'm up to 5 cuddlers that I have platonic sleepovers with and they are SOLID GOLD. At times I have felt like a total bitch but honestly it's worth it. Good luck and message me any time if you have questions or need back up!