@cuddleversed what you ask is only fair. I sometimes have to change clothes and when we start cuddling is when the time begins. Thr time should be extended and not rushed at all. Sorry you had that experience.
Not so far, they have all been great. But only had three people I have cuddled at this point.
Yes, I had my boundaries not just overstepped but completely ignored and violated. It's been a long time since I've felt even remotely willing or able to meet anyone else to cuddle with, because I have a lot of anxiety about a similar thing happening again. People like @CuddleDuncan have helped me to feel better about cuddling, and after well over a year of talking to him, we've started to make tentative plans to meet socially later this year., which hopefully will lead to me being able to cuddle again
I've cuddled 4 people, & of those 4, only 1 was not abiding by the rules of CC. I was also blocked by this person after the "cuddle" session, so a bit confused about it!
Luckily, the other 3 were amazing!
I have had a few awesome sessions but have had a few bad ones. Had one we set a time, I arrived at location and she never showed or contacted me. Had another came in with really bad attitude and a truckload of rules. I was not even allowed to touch, hug, or snuggle. Basically had to lay there, lay perfectly still, and don't say anything. 30 minutes later she got up and she was off to her get together. I've also me a few on here that are great people and we've had several sessions and would love several more.
@wigglehugs don't worry about it. Unless it's blindingly obvious what went wrong, being blocked is about the blocker, not the blockee.
Looking forward to it, @BuggleBear!
I got stolen from. This was after over a year of knowing the person. That was upsetting.
No.
I’ve definitely had a couple bad experiences, and one or two “meh” sessions, but on the whole I’ve been very fortunate to find many wonderful people who are safe and comforting.
Yes. One that was straight up horrific and I've already shared on here somewhere...
But all the others fall somewhere within the 'Okay to Fabulous!!' range. 🤗
Many people trying to do much more than cuddling despite many warnings that I am platonic only and celibate. I had one man tell me i was lucky he didn't r*pe me.
@Bunny_Kisses i am so sorry that awful person said that to you. That is not ok. I hope you reported them. No worries if you didn’t though, I completely understand you must have been so scared. hugs
I have learned to not leave any pain killer meds in the bathroom that your quest would be using. I had someone from another site steal some real strong pain killers I had left over from a broken leg. I have had 3 no shows, 2 were pro,s and 1 none pro that just happened on a road trip I took and was asked to meet in a hotel as my RV was deemed to small, we chatted for weeks on the date and time, once I was in my room I sent the address and then was told, I can’t do it, then deleted there acct. the 2 pro’s were a no show at my home, both said, I’m on my way, then ghosted me and deleted there actt’s. The 1 thing all 3 had in common was, they were new with no karma, so now I will not contact anyone that does not have any karma. The hotel deal cost me $200.00, a lesson learned. But I have met some great people overall.
@simsaddict, we all appreciate the warning!! @Nature_Lover_ , sims already outted herself, no need for the BAD AIR. hehehe... fart...bad air...
I crack myself up!! I'm here all week folks!! 😉
Unfortunately yes.
All pros. Not all pros are bad, but there are some incredibly bad pros out there.
@FunCartel
One could not stop yapping about her training, education and credentials. I actually kicked her out after a half hour. Obviously she was truant the day they covered etiquette and shutting the @$#* up.
I'm 💀 🤣 Sorry you dealt with that but I laughed.
@Rezz I felt bad as I can be kinda chatty in person but once someone squeezes me hard it activates my off button. Didn’t work with her. I guess I was a hypocrite with probable cause in that instance.
Pro cuddler shows up to the hotel room at 7pm (on the dot) comes in, goes to the bathroom, comes out a while later, we do some small talk and proceed to cuddle at about 7:15pm. Total dead fish by the way, minimal effort. At 8pm alarm sounds, she bolts from the bed, grabs her things and proceeds to leave. Worst pro experience ever. The kicker? She contacts me a while later to ask if I wanted to schedule a session. I politely declined of course but at that point she probably wasn’t getting any clients and that’s why she was contacting me, she was gone from the site shortly after.
The two worst experiences were planned cuddles other men. First guy claimed he was 20 years younger, misrepresented self online. Then after he fessed up, got mad at me for being a little bit offended. Then he made inappropriate advances and I had to block.
Another guy also claimed to be younger, pictures were misleading, but that wasn’t even the beginning. Walked in, wreaked of smoke and also made inappropriate suggestions. And people wonder why I’m hesitant to cuddle other men.
I’ve also met female enthusiasts who insisted cuddling really means something more physical. If that makes sense.
Luckily I’ve had mostly positive experiences on here, except for the fact that the number of cuddlers in my area has been steadily declining.
Did anyone here ever use Snuggle Buddies? now gone and domain up for sale at GoDaddy. LOL owner was a crook. but anyways, the girl was literally pleasuring herself while being the small spoon. like I see how your hand is moving, I know what you're doing. maybe an odd experience rather than bad. also had one poor hygiene experience but I'm polite I don't say anything all other experiences were very positive! I wish I discovered cuddling earlier
Multiple bad experiences.
@quincyq03 and @TheMidnightOwl Sorry that both (and others) that had bad experiences with cuddling. If we ever connect during travels, would love to provide a safe, respectful and relaxing cuddle experiences for both of you! I have had a some negative cuddle experiences before (usually people that talk about just platonic cuddling, only to push boundaries/consistent negative energy), not fun but also met many more respectful/positive people that were fun!!! The respectful, positive and fun cuddle buddies make it worth it!!! I wish everyone with negative cuddle experiences, much better future cuddle times!!!
I feel like there are a lot of guys on here claiming to be younger than they are. Maybe women are doing the same, I don't know. Only have experience on here with men (so far).
@simsaddict I fart in my sleep too. Glad that’s out of the way.
I had an experience where the person was so surprised that there is a huge component of kindness to cuddling. She had never been cuddled without the man trying to have sex with her. She kept commenting on how kind it felt and cried a few times while cuddling.
The cuddling itself wasn’t a bad experience. It was lovely. It just made me upset that she had clearly dealt with some not cool stuff.
Any bedwetters? 🙋♂️C’mon, there is no judgement here. Just putting in an order for mattress protectors.