By create I may mean fabricate reasons for
Can you please elaborate on what you’re trying to express? ☺️ I’m not following
Like not being available for however many days due to various reasons. That could just be true obviously but noticed a pattern previously
@GoAwry just tell us your story. The forum is a place that wants and tries to be accepting and helpful, and most of the time it succeeds.
Probably. Though I doubt those who do this will admit it publicly.
Many of us work other jobs, have hobbies outside of cuddling, partners and/or kids we want to spend time with. We need to rest and reset in order to give our cuddlers the attention they are booking us for. There have been times where I was completely tapped out and needed to take a break for myself, though I voice this openly with those looking to book me during those times.
If you feel someone is avoiding you by making excuses maybe it's time to look for another pro.
@Rezz Not avoiding as such - arranging but delayed.
For sure real reasons, breaks, though I've never seen that on the profile.
At least one time it definitely seemed to be made up, wasn't clarified.
@GoAwry I have definitely delayed sessions based on what is going on in my life. Especially if I'm dealing with any stress. I never want to subject a cuddler to low or negative energy. I have cancelled day of bookings based on unforseen stressors because if I'm not in a good headspace how can I put you in one?
The best you can do is to just let her come around on her own time. If it were me, I'd just move on to someone else.
@Rezz that's useful to know and i think it's possible one was like that. Though as you said you mention in message that being the reason, like personal.
To clarify I didn't mean arranging but then postponing. Just a delay from the start to when the appt could be. And these were past instances which I didn't then proceed with, because rightly or wrongly I didn't understand why it wasn't either on the profile (if it was a longish gap) or clarified in msg. Other than perhaps not wanting to admit it's a screening method.
I 100% did this as a pro and will continue to as an enthusiast. It works.
I have had countless people ask for same day appts and hours later/next day they're banned. Some before I even read the message.
So I don't schedule anything same day unless it were with someone I had an established connection with.
I never book sessions the same day. Conversations need to be had to assure we are a good fit between expectations and service provided. 👍
I agree same day seems too much especially for a new person. I personally didn't request same day.
Yes, in part. For screening, mental, physical, and logistical planning and preparation. No need for reasons or excuses or explanation of what else I have on my schedule, it just might be my planned lazy day. Some pros just automatically require booking out a day or two (or more).
@CuddleDuncan mind your own business
Aaaaand account deleted