@2cuddleisreal Ty for your big hugs 🌌 I’m sending you 3 more just because 🫂🫂🫂
@callmeruss you’re damn right! lol
@Gallowglass im sooo sorry to hear 😔 I’m gonna send you a message
@cuddles_ndream Aww, thank you!
~ Sunset Snuggles
Maybe 6 weeks ago. My now ex told me how it really hurt her that I didn't pick up the phone when she was waiting in her car outside my apartment. I was playing a video game, but I wasn't like intentionally ignoring her. Maybe I was kind of in a fuck-off sort of move though because I would text her constantly and never get a response. That wasn't the day we broke up but that was basically the beginning of the end and I cried.
@SunsetSnuggles its not letting me pm you, it says that they are limiting your messages for now because you are getting lots of them 🥺, are you able to message me?
The last time I sniffled was probably some scene in a movie. The last time I really cried was after being rejected by a lady I was trying to date.
@WinterSoldierzz i hope you guys are still able to make it work !!
@cuddles_ndream Nope, over like a bridge over water.
@WinterSoldierzz sometimes things weren’t meant to be and best to learn what we can and move on. Easier said then done I know
I cry everyday! Every show, every time someone has an emotional connection. I’m STUPID SENSITIVE
@cuddles_ndream Sorry about that! I just joined a day ago and I guess I'll have to wait until tomorrow. I Favorited you so I can find you easily.
@SunsetSnuggles, lonely while in a relationship is an awful place to be. I've been there. This place has helped me tremendously...but please be careful and read up on safety. PM me any time if you have questions or need help.
A very long time!!!!!
@Cuddle_RN My boyfriend is actually amazing, I have just been feeling incredibly lonely this week - I think the lack of friends in my new small town is hitting me. Thank you so much for the advice, I am very cautious and have mostly been having friendly chats with out-of-staters, just getting to know people.
@SunsetSnuggles hang in there!!! Things usually take time to adjust. You are going to come out on top.
@Connecticut1977 Thank you! Be happy to chat more when my PM's open up.
@sunnysideup sorry you went through that … just know that rejection is part of the dating game, so don’t let that discourage you from pursuing (or fear of being rejected) in the future 🥂
@Scotishcuddler that’s actually nice! 🌌
@SunsetSnuggles No don’t be, it’s not your fault I couldn’t message you … its the fault of every single body who messaged you in the last 24 hours of you being here lol (I didn’t think it was true that the ladies get bombarded right away, well I knew that it was to some degree, but not to the point where I’d get an automated message lol & ty!!! I actually favorited you instantly! 😎
@Connecticut1977 really? how long of you don’t mind … & do you view it as a good thing or bad? thanks.
After my recent cuddle, because it was just extremely relaxing and necessary for me and the other person
@cuddles_ndream thanks. I was new to the world of dating, and she mentioned that she liked me, so I was wondering what I did wrong, or wondering what was wrong with me to have to reverse the fact that she liked me for quite some time.
The only conclusion I could come to - If someone doesn’t appreciate you, move on.
This morning….and last night…and a lot lately in general. Lost my younger sis very suddenly in a car accident a couple weeks ago. She was only 25, and truly living her best life: had just gotten home from a week in San Diego, was supposed to start a new job last Monday, wasn’t engaged, but was still planning for her wedding with her boyfriend. She and I weren’t close, and I’ve been mostly estranged from my family for the last 4+ years, so I barely knew the amazing woman that she’d become other than through a few scattered phone calls and her hilarious TikTok videos, but it’s still my sister, y’know? 😢
@Marvel30 I'm so sorry to hear about your heartbreaking loss! Losing a family member is never easy.
Sending you a hug!
I cry, I would say or tear up, most every day, mostly happy tears💛❤️
@Marvel30 So truly sorry to hear about your sister. I have a traumatic loss in my background; if you ever feel like chatting, I am here! hugs
@Marvel30 that’s so tragic I’m so sorry that happened to your sister and your family.
@Marvel30 So sorry for your loss. An unexpected loss of family is rough. Hope you find the strength you need as you grieve.
Crying is a great release for the mind and heart. Shedding a tear in solace reminiscing over memories good or bad gives a lot of comfort.
@blisscuddles I really agree. it’s good to surround yourself with your friends and family that really love you when you have loss. Because they help you to cry and grieve. My friend lost her husband a couple weeks ago while she was out of town. And I told her that I love the way you’re grieving. Because she’s allowing herself to feel the emotions and the loss and she’s not isolating herself to much. She’s reminiscing about her husband with a smile. But also she takes time to really allow the sadness and the pain to take its full course. For lack of better words.
My ex-husband never really grieved over his Brother and sister dying. Even though he knew that they were going to die because they had a disease. But he held onto that grief until years later and then it caused him a lot of problems mainly drinking problems.
I really think that’s why cuddling and holding people is so important. Sometimes people just need to be held I know that that’s what I would want if somebody that important to me passed away. So thankful for this loving community❤️
It's been so long I don't even remember, there have been some times I've wanted to cry but haven't.
Very recently. I took in a foster cat, because a friend of mine is a "cat lady" and came across a cat that was scheduled to be put to sleep last Saturday. So I took him in on Friday. I'm not even a huge cat person but I have never had anything love me so much, my nose is sore from him licking it all the time. I found someone to adopt him last week and when she came over he ran and hid like he knew what was going to happen. Then my friend found another foster for him the other day and today I lured him into his crate and locked it behind him, he looked so scared and was meowing nonstop like he was going "Why?". That's when I cried, I didn't think I would but things just started bubbling up that I've probably kept pushing down to the bottom for years and years. My worst fear is probably to be betrayed which has happened when I was a lot younger and have been making sure ever since that it never happened again, and here I was betraying this cat who loved me and it was just too much to take. So I let him out, not sure what I'm going to do now, I can't fit a two year old cat in my life. I'm hoping maybe to just find him the perfect home, instead of giving him to this other person who was just going to be another temporary foster.
Saturday, after exchanging things with my ex.
@dpl The cat looks tremendously comfortable with you, I hope you keep him … plz do!