Just saw a YouTube review about this site. It was subjective but eye opening. How do you all feel about CuddleComfort?
From a member standpoint I really like CC (both the forum & what it offers) … from a business standpoint I wish the founders/owners would allow (or welcome) outside investors.
@cuddles_ndream I agree with you. I like the social part of CC but I feel the business could be doing a lot more like creating an app.
@BlakeFireFire i agree that it would be more convenient, but I wouldn’t change the interface of the website at all … the same way I wouldn’t want to change or put a hybrid engine on a 69 Chevy Camaro lol, yes it’ll burn less gas but it’ll take away from what makes it special.
If it's the video I think your talking about she was banned for repeated offsite communication and then verbally went after moderator, along with unsubstantiated claims of prostitution. Disabling comments on videos suggests limited desire for open dialog. Her other videos are eye opening and provide insight into her character.
Largely indifferent from personal experience, positive overall from what I've heard about the experiences of others as at least a decent number of people seem to have success with finding cuddles on it. Not everyone but that's just the nature of any site like this. The forums I've seen are also largely positive but a more sharp downside of how often discussions turn sour.
Not sure what to say for the business side of things.
@Zundar right I’m indifferent as well still new to CC not expecting a whole lot. @Gary I agree there’s two sides to every story but I definitely picture some of the stuff this person was talking about going on.
I've never had a pro cuddle so I can't speak to that side of things, but I've had a few enthusiast cuddles and as sites to find others who wanna swap platonic affection go, I think this one's pretty solid. I like the forums especially.
I looked up yesterday that YouTube review of Cuddle Comfort. She's a pro who got banned & she's obviously butt hurt, which is why she left a bad review as revenge. I've been a pro here since February 2018 & this is the best cuddling sites.
Cuddle comfort is hands down the best cuddle website. It is very easy to use, convenient, the percentage of the cut is decent, the community built here, safety, and met so many awesome people here! So far the only website that has my money is only cuddled comfort.
She also has comments turned off on the video so no one can defend the site 🤷🏼♀️ I’m on the site often enough that even if my notifications were turned off, I would still be able to see my messages. So she’s just running around in circles during that whole video.
There are definitely ppl asking for sex and giving out sex but as a team, that’s why we report and try to help. This girl was making it sound like cuddle comfort is advocating sex, which they aren’t. Unfortunately, this kind of activity will be on any site. Hell, I’ve seen sexual activity on my Cattitude Facebook groups dedicated to cats and dogs. Lol. She’s just lashing out and acting childish so I honestly don’t think anything she says has much merit.
@CaringSoul @CuddleBarista1 @Sheena123 since y’all are pros I can see why her video could cause y’all some problems. I personally wanted to see if there were any vids on YouTube about CC since I’m a new user & wanted to see if it is legit. That video left a bad first impression but, it didn’t discourage me from sticking with it. Respectfully lol
@BlakeFireFire I’m so glad it didn’t deter you from hanging around! There are a lot of amazing ppl here! There are trashy ppl here too but for those that care about the site, we try our best to weed them out!!
There are a lot of amazing ppl here!
What @Sheena123 said is absolutely true. It took me some time to stick my toe in the water, so to speak, but since that time I've met some amazing people who have contributed to my healing, growth, and quality of life.
Basically the site is about business transactions. hooking up pro cuddlers with people who want their services, glad that is available. But I think they could do more with the site. Sometimes the simplicity of buying a service and them going home after is what you want, but it might be cool to maybe have a forum other then this chat board to actually do activities and make friends with people who like cuddling just like you do.
Her argument against her ban is weak.
She claimed that she can't screen clients without talking to them first. You can. You accept a proposal then you're free to screen your clients offsite if necessary. If they don't pass the test you cancel your booking. Simple.
It reads that she wanted to take communication offsite to exchange information and book her clients to avoid paying her fees to CC. She got caught and is salty about it.
Yes there are SW's and unsavory people on all sides here, it's the internet, but the majority IMO are pretty awesome people who are here for the right reasons.
"It reads that she wanted to take communication offsite to exchange information and book her clients to avoid paying her fees to CC. She got caught and is salty about it."
Yea, but what is this? There's really a fee for booking through the site? How does the owner find out communication was taken off-site? Do they go through your direct messages? Seems authoritarian.
@Saysoh yes, if a professional finds a client through the site they pay a fee to CC. The fee is extraordinary low by any standard. These fees are the only source of income the site has.
Not paying the fee would be both dishonest and churlish.
The site explicitly reserves the right to read any messages that you write. In practice this doesn't happen unless the message is brought to their attention for some reason.
I saw the video that some of you are referring to. And I don’t agree with everything she said. Especially the part where she claimed that people on this site are here for sex. While I do think that there are a few people here that do that, a majority of the people that I have that with are very good people.
Nothing is perfect & nothing goes without criticism-
People will criticize atheists / people will criticize the religious
People will criticize democracy & capitalism
People will criticize communism & socialism
People will have something to say about republicans / people will have something to say about democrats
People will like you / people will hate you …
Hopefully people start basing their own opinions based on their own experiences & not what other people say.
Cuddlecomfort is legit. I like it. If they get an app, no biggie. I prefer no app. I think it weeds out a few with low patience or seekers of quick gratification. My opinion and $5 will get you a cup of coffee.
@achetocuddle those $5 will also get you a toasted butter roll or bacon 🥓 egg 🍳 & cheese 🧀 in nyc 🤪
@cuddles_ndream Which I would prefer. Or part of a muffaletta. I don't like coffee.
@achetocuddle ill have coffee ☕️ maybe once a year, twice the most … & how come I’ve never come across this before 😍😍
I guess muffalettas are not well known. But honestly, I don't know how YOU haven't come across it, my little Faux Foodie Of course you can't get them in my area. They have a piquant olive spread on them. Tasty. @cuddles_ndream
@achetocuddle Maybe its because I’m a Faux Foodie, & forever go for the same things no matter what new place I go to for a bite 😋😂
I’ll make sure to find a really good spot that makes them & post it on the foodie thread 🌌
I really couldn't finish watching her video. It's apparent she's salty for getting caught violating the site's rules, but at the same time, she says she was one of the only ones following them? (scratches head) After talking to quite a few Pros that say they like this site over others, I'd be inclined to believe that she might've been trying to circumvent the communication rules for more than trying avoid CC's percentage. 🤷
What? Another conspiracy theory on youtube?
It's a shame that it comes up as the top result in YouTube.
I hope eventually someone without a malicious agenda posts a genuine video with "Cuddle Comfort" in the title.
@BlakeFireFire
I’ve been on here for 2 years or so and haven’t experienced any sexual misconduct.
The review comes across as ranty, yes there are some people propositioning for sex, but if we all work to report and ban them, the better the site gets.
It’s very hard for men to connect with women, just like on any social media site. But have some patience be respectful and you may meet some cool characters. If not, participate in the forum or hire a professional.
@Mark Challenge accepted 🤪😊