What is the first step? Booking or messaging?

scratchfuryscratchfury
in Pro Cuddling

So I’ve been messaging first with my picture and some details to see if someone is okay with me booking but have never gotten a reply. Now I’m wondering if that means they’re saying no (which I understand) or of I’m supposed to do a booking request first and then the rest follows. I appreciate any help on this.

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  • Sheena123Sheena123

    Every pro is different but for myself, I love getting a hello message, mentioning some stuff about you and why you’re here to cuddle. If you already have an idea of when and where you’d like to cuddle, I like that getting thrown in there too. I don’t require a pic until we actually have a booking and are about to meet up.

    My suggestion is just to keep sending out greeting messages and asking some questions that make it show that you’re here for the right reasons in platonic cuddling. Good luck 👍🏻👍🏻

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    I believe most professionals would agree with @Sheena123. But, sadly, reply rates from random professionals are not as high as they might be. You may just be unluckier than average. Tips for getting a reply, in no particular order, are given below. None of them guarantees anything, and they are merely statistical guidelines with many exceptions.

    • Only message professionals who have been online in the last week. (The Filter options allow you to select this option. Results are shown in order of last login.)

    • Focus on professionals who have been on the site a long time; have comprehensive, well-written profiles; are slightly older; and have lots of Karma. Reply rates tend to be slightly higher than when the contrary applies.

    • Write your message of about three to five sentences in correct English and include your picture (as you do). Talk about things such as, what you are looking for/your cuddling experience; dates, times and places that are possible for you; and any questions you may have. It can also be helpful to demonstrate that you understand that cuddling is a platonic activity, and that you have read the professional's profile.

    Save the actual Booking process until a place and time has been agreed. If the professional tries to suggest having a session without using the Booking process, Report them. It's not just dishonest, and a breach of the site's terms and conditions, it's a red flag.

  • CuddleWhoCuddleWho

    There have been times and locations when I’ve had to message 10 or more pros to get a single one to reply. And other times and locations when most of them reply. It varies, and you’re not necessarily doing anything wrong.

  • scratchfuryscratchfury

    Thank you all for the replies and advice. I will keep trying and look at more established professionals as suggested.

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