No such thing as a cuddle buddy.

Gumby9912Gumby9912
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I use to thought there were actual people out there looking for a cuddle buddy or at least someone to hug but it doesn't exist. I requested, put at an ad and got nothing so what are you looking for? More then just cuddling? This is not a hookup website go to Craigslist if you want that but not here.

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  • quietman775quietman775

    Gumby9912, several things come to mind. First, your join date is November. so you've been here fewer than two weeks. Way too soon to be giving up. Second, it DOES exist; there are plenty of people who have shared their success stories on various forum threads. That said, it has been my experience that men on here do not typically find cuddle buddies just by putting up an ad in the Cuddle Requests section. You're going to need to read a lot of individual profiles in your area, and reach out to quite a few of them to initiate a conversation. I've met four enthusiast (non-pros) from here, and may meet a fifth this week. I have also cuddled with something like 20 pros that came from this site and two others. Of all those people, only two reached out to me; with the rest, I was the initiator. Finally, you seem to be looking for a very specific kind of person --- someone who wants to cuddle a mascot in costume --- and I suspect that such people will be a distinct minority in the cuddle community. Nothing wrong with it ---- it just won't be everyone's cup of tea. Maybe consider making the mascot suit an interesting side option instead of your primary focus. Might broaden your appeal. Just a thought. Whatever you do, you'll get better results with patience. Lots of patience.

  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)

    So...you cuddle people while you're dressed up as Goofy? Do you only cuddle people while dressed up as Goofy? Actually, don't answer that.

    You definitely need to give it time. A few weeks is nothing on here, even a few months isn't long. Your tone is slightly accusatory so I'd tread lightly, especially being so new. Read thru some of the forums if you have time and be patient.

    As a side note most people aren't fond of bad grammar. Not trying to be a jerk, just saying it's an instant turnoff for some of your potential cuddling buddies.

    Guh-hyuck!

  • ScarletteScarlette

    @Gumby9912...first of all, welcome to Cuddle Comfort. Second of all, I think you just probably offended everyone that read your comment. As someone new to this site, you can't accuse us of looking for something that doesn't exist or being here for more than cuddling. I assure you platonic cuddling does exist. After looking at your profile, you may need to consider hiring a professional. Good luck and cuddle on!!!

  • letschat6letschat6

    I agree with @Scarlette to a T. You can't just make assumptions about our intentions. While cuddlers with bad intentions exist, most of us are here to take part in platonic cuddling.

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