@Julie33 I dont believe that you were casting blame or had bad intentions. I dont think you should be dog piled on for your post . My issue is that we are all putting ourselves at risk by even attending . Just look at all the pics of people laying all over each other . So it's hard to say who might have given what to who . Like chicken or the egg. So many people have it and dont show major symptoms. So my fear is that it becomes a blame game ,like aha , you gave me covid , when in reality you take the risk any time you do something like a cuddle meetup .
Get tested if you are visiting somebody who doesn't want to take the risk. Otherwise feel free to live your life. We're not required to social distance ourselves in a cave forever. The virus is being treated as an endemic at this point. It will always be around for the rest of our lives.
@Julie33 - I appreciate you sharing what you did publicly and without naming names.
I also appreciate all that privately let me know who was involved so that I can now take precautions and protect my dad, who is older and who I am living with.
@FunCartel - There is an old piece is wisdom about the ‘Boy Who Cried Wolf’ that you may want to be aware of if you are not already; It’s also a lesson in the Aladdin story as well:
“Be careful what you ask for and invite into your life, because when you least expect it, what you invite in will come into your life at its opportune time and not in your time.”
And as the young ones say (not me, but the younger ones): “If you don’t want no smoke and don’t want these hands, Then don’t flex no hate and aggression.”
@FunCartel i will retract my previous statement since you were there. I apologize I was not aware of that. I do not wish to participate in any kind of negative energy through PM or any other form of communication. Especially since your message to me is clear you are only wanting to pick a fight with me now or that you did not read my post in full. I will not entertain that idea. Not saying that you are negative just would rather keep walking then plant that seed. I did reply once but that all your going to get from me.
@NicoSnuggs Well put!
We all knew their was a risk of covid attending this event. I'm more shocked at how shocked everyone actually is. I think this should be laid to rest and we can just leave our cups full of good vibes versus emptying them by dealing with this bs. Cause that's exactly what it's becoming.
@cuddler5617 We are good
@NicoSnuggs There is also an old saying that says “Don’t shoot your mouth off until you know all the particulars. You just look like an ass then.”
Thank you @Julie33 & @cuddler5617 for your attempts to clear things up. I want to respond to you and others in more sincere depth, but I'm feeling hella shity on multiple fronts and just can't right now.
I think the take-away is that if you're going to inform people of an exposure, there's no need to say by who (be it public or private) and we should all just assume exposure at all times and act accordingly.
Thank you for all the well wishes and for those who are handling this all with 'meh'/matter-of-fact type takes.
Perhaps I could have just posted that I tested positive here. But why worry people unnecessarily or taint all the positives being shared on the other threads?
Anyway, hope this makes sense and people can chill. I'm gonna go passout some more now.
Thanks.
Maybe since I was the one who was originally blamed for things privately..... Maybe just maybe I can say......... Lets' be done with this? No more needs be done. No more needs be clarified. No more needs be protected or defended. @Julie33 now that we all know we need to be aware of getting sick maybe @Babichev can go ahead and lock this thread so it doesn't send all of our beautiful chemicals crashing??
There were misunderstandings and fear that brought on uncertainty. There is a problematic element in trying to navigate these still complicated matters..... Everyone is responsible for their stuff.... and YES it was a lovely weekend. Joy to be had by all.
Love and Light. Pixie dust and rainbows. Take care of your health and your loved ones. Thank you for everything that each of you bring to the table.
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@sillysassy & @Babichev ~ Yes please. 😷🤗
@FunCartel agreed we are good. Thank you for your last PM.