No one answering my messages

[Deleted User]safehugs48 (deleted user)
in Pro Cuddling

Hello her all. I am a new member but I have sent A couple messages to 2 professionals but have gotten any replies. Is that normal? I have just told 2 professionals. I am in need of help.
How do I get a Professional to reply to my message?

Sincerely
Scott Bethards

Comments

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    Hi Scott, activity is key. I would message many more women that you are interested in cuddling. The more prospects you message, the better chance at reply. The honest truth is that not everyone on this site is a cuddle match (many would rather not respond if the feelings or goals are not mutual)but messaging many more women greatly increase match chances. I had many cuddles, many no responds but have so many cuddles, so not worried about no responses lol I wish you well.

  • GreatHornedOwlGreatHornedOwl

    That's not really abnormal. For one thing, a lot of people (including some pros) are not really active. Look at the "Last online" entry in their profile. If it's been more than a week, you may get a reply, but it may take several days. If it's been more than a month, a reply isn't very likely.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    Sadly, it is normal. As long as your messages were in the same style as your post, don't take it personally.

    Have a read around the forum - there is a lot of help and advice here - then try a couple more.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    Welcome! I agree with @GreatHornedOwl about checking the Last Online bit of their profile, to see if they are currently active. You sound very polite and there's no reason a nice person wouldn't respond to your PM.

    A word of advice though, I wouldn't put your last name out there, just for privacy reasons. If you like, you can click the gear icon on your original post and Edit it to remove your last name. Just a tip! Hope you're having a great morning!

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • nycuddlernynycuddlerny

    It's usually something in your profile they do not like, I would guess.

    After looking, my guess would be I don't think many would want to cuddle a married man.

  • pmvinespmvines

    Dont come across like you are expecting to be fixed or rescued. It might be a.little intimidating. Cuddling might have some debatable therapeutic aspects to it, but don't expect it to fix your problems. These areht mental health professionals. They are people who signed up on a website to cuddle people. All walks of life., all backgrounds, varying degrees of personalities and skills and f@&ks to give, so manage your expectations and be realistic. Good luck .

  • Mike403Mike403
    edited May 2022

    Cuddling should be looked at as a form of entertainment. Something you do for fun because you enjoy it. If you need actual help, you should be contacting a mental health care professional.

  • [Deleted User]Gabriel2k (deleted user)

    It appears to be a common thing as some have already mentioned. When I first joined, I tried reaching the few individuals close by in my area but never got a response back. Also, some people do ignore accounts with no profile pictures. Wishing you the best!

  • Mike403Mike403

    @SunsetSnuggles - It depends on how much privacy they really want. I have nothing to hide being on a cuddle site. :D

  • UCpaaHVg6u0UCpaaHVg6u0

    @safehugs48 Yes, that's normal. Understand the effect that your anticipation has on your sense of timing. Also understand that there are many other messages, and perhaps she actually has a life beyond Cuddle Comfort (sarcasm intended gently). If she has a child, be very patient. Also, exhibiting an easy going patience will convey a sense that you aren't going to be a problem down the road.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @Mike403 :p

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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