@scorpio2112 Thanks! Care to share any differences! Thx.
cylee1180 to be honest I don't notice differences I only think of the person I'm with at the time.
@scorpio2112 Sounds like quality cuddling!
@CuddleDuncan
That's interesting! I wonder what I smell like. I'm no judge of my own body odor (I'm around it too much to notice it unless I go without a shower for longer than I'd care to). Zwei says it's "musky," but that covers a range. I wonder whether you could tell I have a DSD from scent alone, or if I smell notably "manly" or "womanly." Something to think about!
In general, the people I've cuddled with have smelled like their bath products plus wherever they'd been in the last hour or so. I guess I've been lucky: I don't typically care for the scent of human.
Yeah men (generally) are great for cuddling when you need to feel safe and protected
Women (generally) are great for cuddling when you want to feel nurtured and validated
This is of course a generalization and there are plenty of individuals that the reverse is true
Enby cuddling has an energy that.....I can't quite put a name to
Thank you for your thoughts @DaringSprinter .
@Lithellyl thank you for sharing. Also learned a new term: Enby.
I’ve only cuddled with a few women in the 3 years of doing this. 98% of my cuddles are with men. I will say that one of my favourite cuddles was with a women that booked me every single week for 6 months. It felt like a girls night in. We would brush each other’s hair, watch documentaries and she would pass out lol. It was really nice. 🌸🌸
I’ve had such amazing snuggles with men as well. They have a different smell that’s hard to describe and nuzzling into a man’s neck is a whole different world. Usually with the women that book me, I lead the way with how the cuddle goes. But with men, most of them have a stronger grip so when I get pulled into a cozy snuggle, it’s pretty relaxing lol
I haven’t cuddled with any other gender yet so I don’t have an experience to share for that. And I guess I don’t have an immediate preference to a specific gender either lol glad I could contribute nothing 😂😂
@cylee1180 I would like to add that I really like reading your responses to people throughout the forum. It seems so understanding, calculated and caring. Thank you for that 👍🏻👍🏻
@Sheena123 Thank you for that. I'm learning a lot here, and surprised at your empathy on that other forum.
Very vivid descriptions and realistic portrayals of your experiences. I can actually see the scene.
What I found interesting is that in some ways, men and women's bodies sometimes fits together like a puzzle piece. I know the pairing is not everyone's preference or sole preference, but when it happens it feels like a perfect physical fit. And I like the bit about the smell too - so much goes into a cuddle.
I was once ask before. In my profile file I have... I cuddle with woman an no man.
Ok, now... My answer....
Woman by Nature ( Norture) they Automatically and produce Oxytocin.
-> Man don't
Meaning I'll get more benefit cuddling a Women.
@Chris04: You know everyone produces oxytocin naturally, right?
Everybody's hypothalamus does that, whether they're male, female, or intersex—so long as you've got a functioning hypothalamus, you're gonna be producing oxytocin.
Edit: And heeey, hold on, you know you can't give the oxytocin you produce to anyone else, right? It doesn't ooze out your skin and rub off on whoever you're cuddling with or anything like that. That's not how hormones work!
@DaringSprinter yes I've wondered what you smell like too! It came up in a conversation with somebody about my cuddling or rather not cuddling men. I hope to find out one day.
@CuddleDuncan: Weird though this may sound, I also hope you get to smell me someday. And I, you.
@CuddleDuncan and @DaringSprinter ROFLMAO! “I hope you get to smell me one day. And I, you.“ 🤣
A belated thanks to you, @CuddleDuncan , for your rigorous honesty about cuddling (or not cuddling) with men.
Great stuff pple. Keep spreading the love and affection!