If somebody sends you a penis picture, send them back a bigger one.
@CuddleDuncan Would love to read it.
@LRCuddler101 Very well stated
@cylee1180 I thought about hunting it down but didn't bother. It was some years ago and that's all I can remember about it.
@Mike403 lol omg. I know just the picture to send.
@Mike403 You have the answer to so many things. LOL.
@CuddleDuncan this is one I found related to narcissism, misogyny, and really...stupidity (I thought they would like it). Read at your own risk. Lol
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/unsolicited-dick-pics-narcissists_n_610874fde4b0497e67026da0
Brian McKnight will count for you!
@cylee1180 thanks for that. Good article.
Aren't men who send dick pics to women just extrapolating what a woman would like to see of them, based on what they want to see of the woman? In which case, it's a failure to understand gender differences in what feeds attraction. That there are women who like dick pics must certainly add to their confusion.
I guarantee that no gay man anywhere has ever wondered why another man sent him a dick pic On the hookup scene, they're practically mandatory. Having seen many, I can't agree that they're all alike. Not by a long shot. The Lord giveth and the Lord giveth not.
@CuddleDuncan Np. Thanks for the idea and search inquiry!
@Mike_Girard Yes to all of this. Lol. I feel sorry for men many times. It might be hard for some to tell based on my previous posts, nevertheless, some women like to receive those pics and it has to be confusing. I do think that men tend to send those pics cause they don't know or stop to think that what feeds a woman's attraction is not the same. At all.
@achetocuddle - They have access to Google and can look at dicks to their heart's content. They don't need men sending it to them.
@Mike403 So true. And if a guy sent me a pic like that, it could make (me at least) question everything good that went before.
@achetocuddle @Mike403 I dunno, I think there are contexts where a dick pic is, if not warranted, at least legit and not rude. It all depends on the context. If two people are talking about hooking up, doesn't seem like a big deal. It's about selling the goods to a prospect. No one asks why guys send face pics, or pics of themselves in muscle revealing clothes. What's the big deal about dicks?
@Mike_Girard Point taken. Of course their could be appropriate context sometimes. I think this started out as discussing, or assumed discussion about unsolicited pics in situations where most people would know/assume that it wasn't the right time or place or person.
@achetocuddle yes, I must admit, you are probably right, as you so often are. However I'm curious what the inappropriate contexts are and how prevalent this is. A dick pic out of the blue seems like the email equivalent of flashing. Kink or aggression.
@Mike_Girard So generous in your thinking and approach. I so appreciate you. I believe that many attractive women in any kind of service profession that is related to touch get many unwanted pics of this nature, based on talking to them and nonfiction reading. And you are correct - many women see an unsolicited private part pic as invasive, disturbing, offensive, etc. as flash, kink or some aggression. Depending on upbringing, exposure to worldliness and of course individual sensibilities it can be merely annoying and/or insulting to traumatic.
I am trying to keep this convo academic for the site and for each member.
I feel this convo may help someone who feels in the dark about the opposite sex. I've hoped this would be the case in many of the threads:)
I came here to share dumb college stories but if this is the topic we're on I'll take the chance to say: It doesn't matter who you are, what your intent is, or how appropriate you feel it is; If I'm sent a dick pic without asking for one, it's immediately killing off any positive opinion I would have previously had about you. Maybe it's just cause of my background but I definitely feel some folks can agree that getting that stuff unsolicited lays low any chance of forming a relationship beyond outright avoidance.
...so on to what I came here to say, in my first semester of college, when the world was going to shit, I had to explain how vaccines worked... To my biology professor. Lol.
@Mike403 When you say that to men wanting noods from women though, it doesn't come across the same. Lol
Man: Send noods? 😍🥵 Woman: Google it. That's my response from now on.
On the other hand, I've always wondered what are all of these dic pics all of these women are getting? I feel depraved. Edit: deprived. 🤣
@Moxytocin - Careful. You might open the flood gates and penises will start filling up your inbox.
Well, let them go right ahead and try it here. Net is ready. No catch and release. Lol
I witnessed someone with headphones on playing music loud enough to not really hear other people lower their mask to ask "what?" when someone was trying to talk to them, and then spend about 3 seconds trying to lip-read the other person before finally realising what the problem was and taking their headphones out. I witnessed it firsthand as it was me lol.
https://www.facebook.com/reel/444270337262038?fs=e&s=cl
@Zundar A cute, funny and sweetly self-deprecating story. Lol.
Ngl I do that all the time @Zundar