@SunsetSnuggles Much thanks for your post about undesired attention from customers. A special form of Hades. Especially if you are alone, I think. I normally, my whole life, did not get much attention from men and the one time I said hello to a guy and he thought it was romantic interest I was so surprised. I had heard of that happening but it just seemed so unbelievable, tho I did believe the women that had told me that.
@dave31415 Yes! I guarantee you (I'm sure many people have thought of this) there are several nice guys here who have done some very misguided things here and IRL thinking they were doing the right thing. I have talked to some sweet guys here who really just need advice and more than my advice. My social skills are lacking. I do better at telling people what to definitely avoid. Lol.
When I see the pics of the guys holding their fish I can only think about a guy I dated who was too wrapped up in fishing and himself. He was not a bad guy but not dating material for me and many other women.
I’m procrastinating doing work. There is no limit to my attention to this thread.
@dave31415 Glad you want to procrastinate a while here! Lol.
@cylee1180 Aw thanks, and I agree, @achetocuddle is sunshine on this board.
@achetocuddle It really didn't bother me, I mostly thought it was just bizarre. Like do they not think us girls talked to each other and figured out the same guy asked out all of us? 😅
~ Sunset Snuggles
Part of me believes that women that put the most effort into mocking men with bare chests and fish secretly are quite attracted to it, even though that drives them nuts. Kinda like Evangelical preachers attacking gay people.
@dave31415 That was a good one.
Yep. I’ll be here until this thread turns into a discussion of “free will” or God which is the end point of every overextended conversation.
@SunsetSnuggles You are kind and generous in your dealings with people. I suppose some people will think Duh! Tell us something we don't know. Lol.
@cylee1180 Regarding self-confidence and positive self-efficacy contributing to effective boundary setting: D*mn Skippy!
Now what is that joke about throwing a small boy into a circle of priests and watching them fight over him to the death...
Yikes, maybe that should go in the dark humor thread.
@achetocuddle At least I have something goin', eh?
@achetocuddle @SunsetSnuggles Are my favorite contributors now. Lol
@SunsetSnuggles Lol. I love well delivered self-deprecating humor. Yeah, I am talking about your humor. Lol.
@dave31415 That is so funny and true. You make me think hard. I like it.
Good night everyone What's that? Why yes, I probably will be here all weekend. I crack myself up.
@cylee1180 I wish I deserved such a nice compliment. I continue to enjoy your posts. Sometimes I could serve my best interests and all others by getting out of here before I get tired. ha ha
@cylee1180 Sweet as always, thank you.
@achetocuddle It was in earnest, as well as meant for giggles; I'm feeling rather craptacular, tonight.
Platonic 💕💞♥️s.
(ETA I just realized I was two pages behind - you guys were busy, lol - so these comments are from page 7, though @Catloaf s comment on page 8 was also brilliant)
@Moxytocin that's hilarious. It took me a minute to remember what I was trying to say, lol, but it's late. 😆
@Catloaf thanks for your contribution. 😇 You explained it superbly!
@SunsetSnuggles I wish you did not feel craptacular (love that word). I know it's no good for people to offer platitudes and such when we feel crappy. But with me being on the outside looking in, it seems you have a lot that might lift out of your crap view of yourself? You have a partner who seems to like to do a lot for and with you. That would give me a lot of encouragement about myself and things in general. I can't say for certain since I've never had that. Lol. You seem to have an interesting life, but I know that is not the same as fulfilling and maybe fulfillment is not even what has you down?
You have plans for the future with your partner and I believe several friends here, if not IRL. You must be doing some things right and seem to be able to evolve and grow to be more like you may want to be.
This may not address your current crap, but maybe this can be food for thought about things about you and your life that are not crap Your kind heart, and desire to help and include others in your own growth seems like good things to recall when you are having a craptacular time.
Be well. Don't be too hard on yourself or sell yourself short. You can always find someone IRL that could do that for ya.
@achetocuddle You caught me just as I'm going to sleep. I will PM you tomorrow. Thank you for being sweet to me.
Guys seriously. Respect the women.to put it simply treat them the way you would want your mom, or sister treated. NUF SAID
@dave31415 If some woman grabbed my junk in public with someone else recording, I would be quite pissed and immediately demand they delete the footage. I'm sure they would since they are literally documenting sexual assault. Ever since someone riding by on a bike tried to steal my phone out of my hands though, I've been extra careful in public with people approaching me. I immediately think pick-pocket or even being robbed at knifepoint. I'm not surprised they could find 100 guys who don't object but the question is how many they approached.
@cde123 @dave31415 Another thing that came to mind is the type of guys who hang out at clubs...they are likely much more prone to wanting and being comfortable with that sort of thing, than say if they had done the experiment at a mall, at a workplace, etc. (I may be wrong, I've never been to a club. 🤣)
@SunsetSnuggles - Some may like it, but why judge them for it? There are guys who go to clubs just to pick up on women.
@Mike403 I agree with you; that's why I'm saying the experiment was probably a little tilted, because they went to a place where men who are very likely to be seeking something sexual, congregate.
@SunsetSnuggles I went clubbing for 15 years - never grabbed a woman and never will.
@cylee1180 Haha Very glad to hear it! This was about the experiment where women were grabbing men in a club.
@SunsetSnuggles That didn't happen either. Lol
@cylee1180 ahahaha Well I'm glad you weren't sexually assaulted.
@cylee1180 - You must have went to a bingo club. It has happened to me when I used to frequent clubs. You get a place packed with wall to wall people and add booze in the mix and things happen.
Hmm. I have always wondered why it is described as junk and if it really is why would a woman want to grab it?
If you have to end a session because people are breaking the rules they agreed upon to be using this site I’m pretty sure cuddle comfort would understand. That’s why they recommend getting your payment before the session begins, you shouldn’t have to put up with or entertain others that disrespect you and the site.
@Btown - Because it is the nastiest part of the human body. You have to be high or drunk to want to grab one.
@Mike403 lol. Ok, so a woman must be in an altered state to grab said junk. Got it.