So what’s everyone’s favorite part of cuddling? I’ll start: I love falling asleep in the warmth and comfort of a cuddle partner. I feel safe!
What a fun thread.... Hmmmmmmmmm…. I'm not really a favorites girl, but I love the conscientious CONNECTING part.
The talking ahead of time. The discussion of boundaries and the commitment to each other for the moments we share. I have a dear friend who made a comment about how we can connect without the "Disconnect" It was very tender.
Someone asked how to cuddle with “no strings attached” and this was his response.
No strings attached? Nay. Not unattached; what we really mean is hearts unbroken. Emotional, mental, and spiritual boundaries are there as much as physical boundaries. But connections can't be made with no strings attached. The commitment lasts for the moments we cuddle, and then we walk away, perhaps for a while, perhaps forever, safely disconnected and hearts intact, each of us having experienced what is mutually beneficial and desirable as humans.———
@sillysassy a most excellent quote, thank you.
I just like making people happy
I can't match the phrasing of that quote but the idea that strangers would be willing to cuddle, hold each other, and care for each other unconditionally blows me away.
As a professional, I truly love the connection. I encourage people stopping sessions once they are no longer needed, but I know I put my full heart into it when I am truly sad, even devastated, to have a cuddle client relationship end. It's also an indication that I'm not doing this whole professional thing quite right, lol, but I love it. 😇
@sillysassy - thank you for sharing that quote. That is beautiful