@achetocuddle Platonic ā¤ā¤š!!
This went off the rails.
Oh you guys. I haven't had my first cup of coffee yet and what is going on here?@ š¤£ I see the blood stained battlefield of another thread gone to war.
I'll just say I hope everyone slept it off and we can move on with our cuddle lives.
Makes and females get a bad rap for having an opinion. Everybody else feels the need to validate their opinion. Then the comments that are left are just repeating the same words in a different order.
Yeah and when people decide to attack someone else's red flags as illegitimate instead of just respecting them, it does start a conflict. Being wary of paying someone with little or no Karma with an advance online payment is a legitimate concern and should not be attacked.
Pros with a lot of Karma can do that, but if you are just starting out or have few Karma despite being here for years, I believe you have to wait in line to be more established before you can make such a demand (advance payment). You can still conduct business, but it should be on a more equal footing until your name is better known.
Folks. Get this thread back on topic. @Bixi is timed out. @Mike403 and @achetocuddle - I have placed a gag order on her account. If she tags you or messages you, let me know, and it's banhammer time - but that said - I strongly advise you to not engage with her further yourselves.
Note to all: if you think or even slightly wonder if you're personally attacking someone with your comment, then kindly refrain. There is a difference between criticizing an idea versus being a dick to the PERSON. This thread is an excellent example of how not to post in the forums.
Can ya'll get back to the cuddle topics now? Much thanks.
@HumbleBarol LOL
There's a difference between a red flag and a yellow flag. A red flag means the person is potentionally dangerous and you should avoid at all cost. A yellow flag means that there was some suspicious behavior, but you can proceed with caution.
This thread is off topic and people are just loitering at this point. Everyone knows what a red flag is. The OP was asking for input from women about what they consider a red flag and then. Some forum members have a bad habit of wanting to get their buddies and dominate all the daily threads, and don't respect the OP or the topic.
Sid was here. I'm all for opinion. I'm not ok with extending personal attacks after multiple timeouts. Enjoy ban-hood. You earned it.
The forum seems to be the place where angry cuddlers go to impale themselves on the banpole.
I respect Sideon and am really trying not to get off-topic, but that is uproariously funny @UCpaaHVg6u0 . @unsocial_bee I am really sorry how your sincere and serious question got mistreated. I would be happy to PM with you about red flags. I just don't like to talk about it where predators can get ideas. I did not offer to PM before cause I've been busy:)
quietly reads thread
retreats to safety
@HumbleBaron exactly š¤£š¤£š¤£
Banned camp sure does seem to have a lot of members at this point...š
What a difference a day makes.....
@unsocial_bee I hope you got at least a few useful responses. I hope you have been able to find some people who you feel comfortable messaging with questions and concerns . I find that personally to work best for me when seeking feedback from others, as even the most mundane thread topic can spiral backwards fast
Seeing as this thread hasn't been closed , I would like to add @Bixi that many potential clients have read your exchanges and will likely not want to hire you ever after seeing your behavior. May want to think about that one ...
@pmvines - This thread was closed then reopened when the troublemaker was put in timeout.
@pmvines I don't know about that. I'm in the market for a bad time. That might be right up my alley. It takes all kinds.
@UCpaaHVg6u0 Since I was involved in the unfortunate thread and I respect Sideon I am trying to be circumspect, but you are making it rough on me. Lol. Just teasing. Carry on
The forums here are awesome. It lets people know who to avoid.
Yep.
@Sideon is a god. Iām so glad he got to this before I did.
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Red+Flag+Waving