I wish I could make a cuddle group/party in this website. I don't see any cuddle parties in my area. I think I would feel more secure with a group of people.
It does feel more secure with a group of people who all agree to a set of rules that keeps the container sacredly held. Have you thought of flying in a professional from near you and putting together a group for them to come in and facilitate for you?
There are several facilitators in CA - though in the other cities. Several in San Diego, for example. However some of them may be interested in offering an event near you. https://cuddleparty.com/facilitators/?filter=true&country=US&state=CA