I mean, Im ghosted and ort ignored by all of them lol
Yes, virtually all the women on this site are real people.
Being ignored or ghosted by people is standard stuff and both are very common here. Welcome to the Internet in the modern world. But if it's 'all' then the common factor is you.
I'm presuming you are talking about enthusiasts, so you may find this thread helpful:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/10731/how-i-found-happiness-on-cuddle-comfort/p1
Last I checked they are real. I’ve had my share of being ignored and ghosted by some, but not all of them and I go on to the next.
@pmalloy I’m real 🙋🏻♀️
But I’m also in Los Angeles and you’re in OH 😕
pmalloy, Ghosting probably happens more than 90 percent of the time. Just because it's all, so far, does not necessarily mean it's you. You're profile looks great, just keep trying. Most I've contacted are real, but a few were scammers. The vast majority do not respond. I've some home amazing relationships with people I've met on here and made some dear friends.
There are definitely real women on the website. It can be difficult to find someone on this website because I've realized that you don't have any karmas and a lot of enthusiast and pros get apprehensive to meet someone who doesn't have any reputation built yet. It can sometimes be hard to trust someone and they are putting their lives at risks. Wish for you to find someone who is willing to cuddle with you.
@pmalloy I agree with @CuddleBarista1 that karma which can equate to experience and loot to reputation can be inviting factors but aside from not having karma I peeped your profile and think it’s great. I really loved that you mentioned cuddling with no added pressure or expectations 😊 big bonus points for having a picture with a cat in it 🤪🤷♀️
Seriously, you seem awesome and I hope you are able to find someone great to cuddle and connect with soon.
Maybe if you message someone over 35 they will respond. I think your pics are fine and as Nature_Lover said, mentioning you like cuddling here cause there is no added pressure is good. That was well-worded.
Since I identify as a "real woman," I can attest to myself being real. As many others have mentioned though, humans are a very fickle breed and far too often ghosting has become common practice. Life sometimes gets in the way of us being able to achieve our wants, (AKA cuddle time) but courteous communication of that being the case is often lacking. My mantra has become when it's meant to be, it will happen!
It is possible to meet real enthusiast women on this site - get some positive karma, by seeing pros if necessary, and then spend a lot of time on the forum, messaging women, and making connections.
But for most men it’s going to be a big time investment. If your objective is just to meet someone to cuddle, and you’re not particularly interested in the cuddle community at large, IMO it’s not worth it. Alternatives include just seeing pros, or meeting women elsewhere to either date or form affectionate friendships which include cuddling.
I think ghosting is to be expected. I know many women on here get a ton of messages and its gotta be real tiring to deal with. Even if I have been having good communication with someone, if I am ghosted I don’t take it personally. They could be going through a difficult time or any other number of reasons. I enjoy the attention I get and if they simply want to move on I’d like to respect that. Seeing as I can be socially awkward myself, if they are the same and can’t find the words to express their reasoning, I understand ghosting is an easier alternative.
@CuddleDuncan Virtually all of them are real. 😂 Just made me chuckle.
I like to cuddle with the imaginary ones, but recently they've raised their rates. # inflation
Hello fellow humans, I am certainly a real person and not an artificial intelligence. What types of organic matter do you enjoy ingesting for charging your energy levels instead of using a superior delivery method like electricity?
I, myself, am a human as well and I and other humans like me enjoy consuming for energy a brewed drink prepared from roasted coffee beans, the seeds of berries from certain flowering plants in the Coffea genus. Certainly not lithium ion. Yuck.
There are more men than women. Most women who are cuddling for free are flooded with messages by guys, and will probably not respond to you. 'Tis the way of the world.
@cylee1180 , we need a like button just for your post
What is your initial message that you send? That can be a factor to. I try to answer to everyone but one worded messages make it difficult. I don’t like responding to “hey” or “what’s up” I appreciate a message where the person introduces themselves, it makes conversation flow easier as well. After exchanging a few messages and the other party starts sending one worded messages I also use that as a sign the conversation is over.
@littleBlackbird i agree...i hate replying to those too...and dont you dare start the conversation with how you like my looks. Shit will not stand 👋
I put my 72-year-old mom on here as an enthusiast she got one message after another. So can you imagine how many messages people in their 30s and 40s and 20s get. She finally had to get off after one week, But she did meet a nice guy that she talks to daily on an email.
I love your pictures and your profile I do have to agree you might have to up your age range pass 35. If I was a 25-year-old enthusiast I would like to have a really special message sent to me and a plan to meet and something interesting to do for the first time visit. I love your cat picture:)
I think people just plain have unrealistic expectations on here. This isn't Facebook or a site for making friends, people are providing a service for money. Not that there aren't enthusiasts and not fully possible but the males outnumber the females by about 300-1 so expect the reality of that.
@bleukris86 Absolutely, that’s another one.
@pmalloy We aren’t saying that you’re sending messages like that but it’s possible that could be one of the problems as well. At this point I couldn’t imagine any other reason. Saying to look for older cuddlers makes it seem like you’re only looking for younger enthusiasts or pros and you didn’t say anything of the sort, so I don’t think it’s an age thing either.
I think I've made a few friends. Several people here feel the same way, not just one gender. If a person has already come to the conclusion that meeting an enthusiast is impossible or nearly so, it will subconsciously translate into your messages. The recipients will not get a feeling that this is someone they might want to know.
I'm in Cincinnati, and you haven't even messaged me. So you can't exactly say all of them. I have multiple reviews, I'm listed on other sites, and several clients on here would absolutely vouch for the fact that I'm real.
@MisterP That’s very well a factor, but he’s saying with quite literally everyone he messages.
Fact that I'm real. *
I'm struggling with Internet connection tonight.
Sorry for the reposts.
I really didn't want to comment on this thread, but like the OP, I am also from Ohio! Yay! Was a little surprised to see the Cincinnati Women being called out for not being real. Great city and great members from the Queen City 😊
I can definitely vouch for our very own @mekkiec . She's a superstar cuddler!👍
Aww, thanks @OhioMike ! I really enjoy my time with you as well. 😊
@pmalloy
Are you talking about enthusiasts or pros? Booking with a pro should be easy you just have to be respectful. Even then about 70% won’t respond or will be super flakey. The other 30% are awesome, though.
For enthusiasts, @CuddleDuncan is right. Although I’ve seen little progress as a result of some of the changes I’ve done. I haven’t done enough but it’s just not worth the effort when there are pros. @CuddleWho states what is probably your typical (and not creepy) guy’s experience on here. @achetocuddle is right that expanded age range will make things easier. @KozyKim I’m not a female enthusiast but what she wrote sounds like your typical female enthusiast’s inbox on here.
I have met a lot more people on here than my karma reflects. Yes we are real, it just is that you must understand not everyone will share your interest in getting to know each other/ get together . And even the pro cuddlers who you might be inquiring to set up a session with have lives, responsibilities, families, jobs etc outside of the site so even booking a session with a pro wont necessarily be an instantaneous process .