@Rezz I do read all of someones profile to see if we are close to a good match. I'm saying I like the prices out in the open and not taking a chance of missing a fee somewhere. Please keep in mind folks I live in a different state then everyone I've seen here. Not all these 'pros' are what they are suppose to be. Out of 3 that I've met 2 of them made sexual advances then wanted money. Yes the 'pros' made the first move. I don't want the discussion to get into that, I'm just passing on my experiences so far.
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@zerocantaloupe LOL.
Dear Mickey, Please report those people if you have not already done so. Thank you.
@mickey46834 If you're thoroughly reading profiles then there should be no sticker shock. Now if a pro is quoting you a different price than listed, has hidden fees she doesn't disclose until after the session or solicits you, report them. We don't want them here anymore than you do. Maintaining communication on site is a good place to finalize the final rate with any additional fees they may require. Your exchanged messages here hold more weight than your word alone.
No woman in her right mind will cuddle with a man for free. Just think about it and use some common sense. Jfc
This is an insult to all the women enthusiasts on this site. Do it again and you’ll lose your forum privileges. - Babichev, moderator and enthusiast
@SilenceMe err, there are plenty of female enthusiasts cuddlers here.
Though "free" isn't the right word, as there is still value exchanged as both people are giving their time and energy.
@SilenceMe
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Not sure what in the world this comment has to do with the topic at hand, but also... I think some of you people are from another planet. "Free" cuddling is the norm. The vast majority of cuddles in the history of the world have been free expressions of affection between two people. Paid cuddling is the weird one.
Agreed, having to pay for something like this is a crappy deal really. Everyone wants money to do anything anymore. Pretty sad. Something I thought about the other day was you can only get so much free money till getting caught anymore. All the more reason to do it for free.
@mickey46834 - I know. I have to pay to have my car fixed, pay to have food prepared for me, pay to have the lawn mowed, pay to have my hair cut. Where’s all the folks willing to do all that for me for free?
@CuddleWho if free cuddling outside of a relationship or ONS is the norm, then you’d be automatically logged off this site
@SilenceMe that's absolute crap.
It's all about finding those that you truly enjoy and spending time with them. I keep my circle VERY small as I do not have the time or emotional energy for many people.
Hosted one member last weekend at my farm and now a guest of another at his home for the weekend.
Even have a week-long camping trip planned touring West Virginia and all the hollers in and around the mountains where he grew up.
Genuine friendship does not have a price for me.
@MCcuddles2 ‘there are plenty of female enthusiasts cuddlers out there’.. take a quick look at your profile and count how many of these ‘female enthusiasts’ cuddled with you for free. And then count how many wanted you to pay. And then you’ll finally get what I’m saying.
@SilenceMe It's true that women who want to cuddle with me generally also want sex and/or a romantic relationship, and that's a major reason I'm on this site. I'm not sure why that means a woman who wants to cuddle is not in her right mind.
@CuddleWho note how many professionals are females? Also, would you charge a beautiful woman to cuddle with you? Prolly not. It’s pretty clear women aren’t crazy about seeking out men to cuddle, they do it because it’s a good source of income (nothing wrong with that).
@Babichev I go with facts. If you don’t like it then go ahead and do what you need to do!
“No woman in her right mind will cuddle a man for free.” That is not a fact. However, what is a fact is that you’re in forum time out for 3 days. When you come back, please refrain from insulting our members unless you want a long term or perhaps permanent time out. - Babichev
I have female enthusiasts who I regularly cuddle with.
These aren't "free" either, as they are cuddling relationships built on mutual trust and respect.
Hiring professionals is just for the convenience. I don't have to maintain a relationship outside of the cuddles, and I can set my own times.
@SilenceMe I have cuddled many enthusiasts. I am curious, why the venom? You are dismissing women as simply money grubbers by your generalizations. I think you might have had better luck spilling your guts on here and saying you desperately need touch but you are not into the transactional feel of it. I have seen enthusiasts step up when they read that. But you seem intent on poisoning the well like women are Flint, Michigan and you are the funny tasting water.
@FunCartel love how you casually twist my words because you can’t handle the truth. It’s a legit source of income for women and they know it. If you looked like them and had 1000 men asking you to cuddle for $$$ you’d do it too.
"No woman in her right mind will cuddle with a man for free" is an insult to men, too. The enthusiast women here aren't in their right minds, apparently, and no man is worth cuddling without an exchange of money!
You’re right. I’m sorry I did not think of that. - Babichev
Astounding. I'm about the only one in this thread he hasn't insulted yet.
@FunCartel if you want to test my theory, convince the site to only allow enthusiasts and watch what happens lol
Maybe what @SilenceMe is really saying is that "no woman in her right mind will cuddle with me without payment."
Which may be his lived experience.
I don't want to make fun of it or treat it lightly as touch starvation for many men is probably an unfortunate reality.
One wonders how it can be this difficult for people to tell the difference between "some people like to make money where they can" and "all women want money so bad that only insane ones cuddle for free."
'Cause it's not just this guy who thinks like that.
Edit: No problem at all, @Babichev. It's a rare sentence that insults so many people at once. Glad I could help!
You can save your petty insults, period. - Babichev
And now he's insulting specific individuals. Really poorly. That's the insult you pick for a guy who literally makes a living off his intelligence? Talk about a swing and a miss.
Generalizing too broadly from lived experience could be the explanation, though. That's a good point.
@DaringSprinter - You got that right on both counts.
One of the great things about the forums is you get to know what folks are like. There are a number of people with whom I’d be delighted to cuddle because I’ve gotten to know them as wonderful, respectful human beings through the forums. I’ve met some in person and cuddled with a few and they are just as delightful and respectful in person as they are online.
There are others that I read their words and make a mental note that no way would I ever cuddle with them, not even for money.
So it goes. The complainers gonna keep complaining, as if that’s going to get them somewhere. They chase away the very thing they claim to desire. Good luck.
Meanwhile, @mickey46834 has been here barely over a month and has women throwing themselves at him whether he wants them to or not. Go figger.
I thought he was a frustrated soul but my troll radar is going off with all the blatant baiting he’s attempting. I think I will not feed the troll.
He won’t be able to troll the forums for the next three days. It’s a good idea not to feed the trolls. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt and see how it goes when he returns. However, his username may be telling us something.
@Babichev for 1 you just need to know the area I'm in. Meth use is real bad here and they want the money no matter what it takes to get it. It's been that way here for a while and getting worse. And I've only met 3 so far so I can only go on that experience. One was an amazing cuddle, what I would really call a perfect cuddle. So I'm not grouping all of them at all. Or saying I'm some hot guy that they can't help themselves because I'm not.
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Some people need to learn that there are places between the land of All Women Charge For Cuddles and the country of Everyone Cuddles For Free.