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Just curious how many pple here lurk but don't really comment for one reason or another. Holla!
I'm less active than I've been in the past, but I still love hearing what people have to say.
Oh yah...
I lurk here, comment maybe average but my cuddle average is low. I mean i been here years……😔
Heyo! 👋 On behalf of the lurkers, thank you for this thread. @cylee1180
Bottom of the morning to ya 🤗
More of an on/off lurker but hello anyway Also stupidly shy
I think there is a lot of people that read.the forum and see all the negativity and decide to not make any comments. I’ve been here almost 3 years now and I just don’t understand why some don’t get banned. It appears to be the same few over and over. Here is a list of what I have seen, Calling someone a bigot, a racist, you need mental health help, you can’t spell, your sentence’s are way to long, you don’t know good English, your a dumb ass, your stupid, throwing in F bombs, personal attacks, attacks on ones heritage, being called a stocker, telling a person that YOU are the reason that women are nervous about meeting men, I’m sure I’m missing some more choice wording, I know some will say it’s not true, just go back and read some of the comments and you’ll soon see the pattern. I have heard a few say that is the reason they won’t comment, it seems someone will take any comments and twist them into something negative!!!! Well my rant is over.
@waynewv if typed out words bother you, you are way too sensitive. Learn to embrace everyone and you’ll feel better 😘
@waynewv well placed rant! Plus a high level of judgment!
@SilenceMe , the only typed out words that bothers me is the negativity, I don’t come here for that. I feel one should not hide behind a keyboard and type what they would not say to a person to there face !!! I did not ask for any reply’s, I’m just giving my option and what I had seen here. There is plenty of other sites were people can put there negativity. There is many things I see that I don’t agree with in life and I don’t say anything against it or try to put them down, I just move on.
@roykent You got it!
@waynewv It does get heated here, and we can't even talk about politics and religion; imagine the possibilities!
@SilenceMe I guess the forum hits everyone differently.
@waynewv
you don’t know good English, your a dumb ass, your stupid,
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@MCcuddles2 , oh well. English was not my best subject in school , lol I wish you would tell me that to my face. I can see you are part of the problem Carry on, lol
@waynewv I'm just joking man. I checked out your profile. You have a really cool job. Boat moving sounds fun.
I lurk and read posts on here. Some posts are actually beneficial.
Also some of the people who post here are entertaining. Not funny entertaining though.
@MCcuddles2 , oh ok. I thought maybe your were joking, a ok. Thanks for letting me know, I’ve been called worst, lol.
Hey! I read and occasionally post .
@saltwaterlover Do you live by the ocean?
@elfdog21 Hi. Entertaining in what way?
@everyone - How has your cuddling experiences been?
@waynewv I respectfully reserve the right to drop the occasional F bomb when necessary. 😉
I assure you the use will be appropriately directed and only if I feel no other form of communication will work.
I maintain quite the offensive vocabulary in reserve as most of the time I can effectively communicate without resorting to sarcasm and profanity. 🙂
Greetings from an occasional lurker. 🙈☺
Sometimes what ordinarily wouldn't upset someone else might have profound effects on the other . Way I see it is you can't expect someone to be responsible for how the rest of the world ingests things . I try to treat people right, even though I know I dont always achieve that and I try to not upset or offend even though I know that is sometimes impossible to do. I cant be expected to accommodate each and every person who might not like something I have to say , and I am certainly not going to keep quiet out of fear of someone else getting upset. All we can do is go through the day and hope we dont hurt people, and if we do, hope that the hurt isn't deep and try to make things right if feasible and warranted.
I browse and message but no one seems to be interested in lil ole me….
@cylee1180 - not now, I was born and raised by the ocean and now I live in the prairies!
greetings back to @Hannie868