My experience on this site :) / Intro

I'm pretty new to this honestly. And thought it'd be good to start a discussion on this. I use this site pretty passively but I've had a couple really good interactions on here. People seem pretty nice on this site. I really enjoy cuddling while watching movies or listening to relaxing music. I'm a seasonal worker traveling the states so I'm hoping to make some female friends I can cuddle with and hang out with in between contracts. So if anyones interested, slide into my dms lol. What has your experience on this site been like ?

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  • My experience so far? I didn’t read the site map and I am hopelessly lost because of my oversight. But asking for directions is out of the question.

  • My experiences here haven't met my expectations at all. Instead of getting connected with all sorts of local men who are into cuddling whatever women are interested whenever, I've found this amazing community of people who've helped to broaden my views on a number of topics, provided opportunities to dial in my beliefs and how I express them, have frustraded the ever lovin daylights out of me, and filled my entire being with all the bestest of the best feels. And although I have yet to have a roladex (basically a phone book) full of cuddlers I could hook up with for a quick cuddle fix, or an extended weekend of snuggles, anytime I want them, I've traveled about the country despite the pandemic and have met and cuddled with some of the most amazing people ever and have made some sure to be life-long friends too. I had no idea any of this was even possible, but am so glad it has been!! 💓

  • @quixotic_life Were any of these men named Bob?

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    @FunCartel ~ So many non-Bobs!!

  • Thank you @quixotic_life . I was experimenting with random questions to replace How are you? as an opener with people to see if I could initiate a deeper conversation. It works. I now know you don’t cuddle every Tom, Dick and Harry but Bobs figure prominently.

  • I appreciate your efforts @FunCartel ~ I really feel seen! And to take it a step deeper, I double checked and there has not been a Bob in the bunch (at least none who admitted to being a Bob). And just in case "Bob" was code for something, I Googled it and... 😳 I can assure you there has 100% been zero Bobs in my cuddling history.

    ie: I've cuddled with, "So many non-Bobs!!"

  • edited September 2022

    I’ll take this as a chance to say how amazing my experiences have been.

    The cuddle sessions I’ve had through this site (mostly paid, lately) have been extraordinary—like, what-the-heck-is-this-life, is-this-a-movie, out-of-this-world. Getting showered with sweet affection and care, potentially by someone I just met, at my own house, or in their bed, or in a hotel room, on a trip, in a strange city… Sometimes being loved better than any romantic partner I’ve had (for a couple hours!). Meeting human beings with hearts like you couldn’t have been sure existed in mortal bodies until the proof was in front of you. I’ve had same-day cuddles, double cuddles, and the most beautiful heartfelt exchanges… I feel appreciated and treasured just reflecting on my experience as a cuddle client. 🥰

  • @frankparker9 that's beautiful.

  • Thanks for all of your insights. Honestly might book a cuddler because it's been kind of tricky finding people let alone ones that keep in touch. And like quixotic said, I also want to have my own phone book of cuddlers and good things take time :)

  • If you have money yo can cuddle anywhere and anyone, my work sends me out of state and I have had cuddle in North Carolina and Austin Texas! I’m heading to Dallas next week and I have one booked! But if youre searching for free cuddle from someone good luck, unless you’re a chick and then you have the choice of the crop.

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    @quixotic_life if you do make a Rolodex please add me to it!

  • @Charlie_Bear ~ Did you / Are you moving up towards me?? Cause if so, I'm ordering a real deal Rolodex ASAP!!

  • @quixotic_life haha not that I am aware of unfortunately!

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