I have some very fond memories with her and would like to share them with the cuddling world. Is this ok by the mods and the general audience here? John
Do you have her permission to post the picture?
I have no clue why you would want to do that and why she would be ok with it. Sounds weird.
My ex-ground crew is in my picture
@metanoiahour ~ Has your ex given their consent to you doing that??
The mods would know better than I if you can use pics of others in your profile or not. My guess is that at a minimum, you'd have to be in them too.
Oh... nevermind. Nope, not okay.
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Block out her face, and/or blur her out. I have a shot of my boyfriend and I up, with his express permission, since he knows about this site. We don't share our faces, regardless.
~ Sunset Snuggles
I’m in the photos , yes. Title of the discussion clearly states it . @Btown hey dad! How are you ? Long time , no see , no hear .. 😅 you doing alright today ??
@metanoiahour maybe third time asking is the charm? Do you have your ex's consent / permission?
Request you to very kindly not visit my profile Uncle Mike 😅 @OhioMike
What about me, can i visit? @metanoiahour
@MCcuddles2 ....possibly if you aren't family?🙄
She's not into you. Let go.
I wish it was that easy my friend .. but I’m trying and I get by with a little help from my friends .
Request you to very kindly not visit my profile Uncle Mike
Sometimes people say silly things, but I can at least understand the mindset. This one though is something else. Always funny to me.
@CuddleWho But apparently @Btown is his dad and @OhioMike is his uncle, so Jerry Springer must be lurking, somewhere! 😏
I visited it /shrug
They have cat pictures on their profile which is a plus.
edit------- Oh right, I was going to say that's a question to ask her, not us.
The cat is not even mine, but visits me every day I return back home from work. Talk about unconditional love .
@metanoiahour I hear you. It doesn't matter what tactic you take, recovering from a breakup is never easy. It hurts if you avoid it and it hurts if you attack it. There is no easy way out of that pain other than time, and as you have pointed out, friends. And not overloading any one friend is important. We can look for cuddles when we're hurting. Cuddling can also unearth fear and pain from long long ago. So I guess you could attract someone who is a natural caretaker that would indulge in helping you recover.
The cat is not even mine, but visits me every day I return back home from work
That is the scout for homeless cats. He and his buddies are sizing you up for a future meal. No such thing as unconditional love in the cat world if you outlive your usefulness to them.
@FunCartel I have to beg to differ on this particular feline . All she wants is attention and affection. Even refuses food, I am quite baffled at the behavior to say the least . She has zero friends (other cats) and I can’t deny that I’ve considered taking her into my home. Thoughts ??? A little weary of the move as I have no experience with owning cats.
@metanoiahour You are asking a dog person whose mom’s cat took a liking to me and I am definitely not a cat person. Maybe they like us because we are so indifferent to them they find us intriguing. 🤣
@FunCartel I love cats but they can certainly be jerks sometimes.
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I was immediately going to click on your profile because it seems the thing to do when looking at someone's forum post, but I shall refrain since that seems to be a little dicey for some reason. (So welcome to the site if you are new and hope you're having great cuddles whatever part of the world you are in!)
@OhioMike is a dog person... maybe that's why the request to not visit his profile? And just for future reference you can BLOCK someone if you don't want them to look at your profile.... otherwise it will probably happen multiple times with numerous people for a plethora of reasons.
@FunCartel
My EX GROUND CREW 😁🤣😂
OP mentions...
I have some very fond memories with her and would like to share them with the cuddling world.
It seems odd that your reason for wanting to share your EX GF picture is that you want to share your memories with her with the cuddling world. I'm not sure why.... but at first glance of someone's profile with another girl it would make me wonder if....
I guess it winds up bringing WAY more questions to the table and I wind up not even able to concentrate on WHAT you are actually trying to accomplish with the picture.
Is this ok by the mods and the general audience here?
Like others have said.... You can post pictures of other people with blurred faces or emojis instead of reality, and with their express consent (because that's what this cuddle world is all about) but for me PERSONALLY just my opinion..... I don't really like sharing my close cuddle moments with the cuddle word in picture form or even verbal form really except as regards their karma review.
Something about it just feels a little... hmmmmm..... ummmmm..... I'm struggling for a correct emotion word..... I've been thinking about it for a few -edit* hours even.... I'm thinking maybe it just feels a little off-putting.
Maybe @DaringSprinter can help me with verbiage because of that amazing SQUISH reference!!!
@metanoiahour
A lot of folks are posting up with a lot of questions and parameters and mitigating circumstances here….
…but I’m gonna jump right in and say, if you feel like you have to ask, the answer is almost certainly no.
Don’t do it. Make new memories.
Best of luck!
@AintMisbehavin Word. this was nice to read . I shall acquiesce to the sound advice you’ve taken the time to write for me. Thank you🙂
@Charlie_Bear
I love cats but they can certainly be jerks sometimes.
Seriously! I give my cat treats, and then when I pet her, that little bitch bites me. 🤣🤣🤣 I still love her though. 🥰🥰🥰
@metanoiahour - I like the pics you already have up. 😊 Welcome!
@SunsetSnuggles
But apparently @Btown is his dad and @OhioMike is his uncle, so Jerry Springer must be lurking, somewhere! 😏
No kidding, with all the pot stirring by the OP…you nailed it.
That is a question for your ex. Why are you asking permission from interweb strangers ?
@Green_Eyes you’re so sweet. Thank you
I agree: the person to whom this question should be addressed is the ex, not us. If you have to ask, the answer is probably no.