Cuddling non-humans

I haven’t seen this topic before, at least during my relatively short time here, and I know resurrecting old threads is less than ideal, so here we are.

Back when my pup was still able to enjoy this existence we call life, he would curl up beside me in bed and I would wrap my arms around him; nuzzling the side of my face up against his chest while petting the fur on his back. It was fairly short-lived since he liked to get up a lot, usually to scratch at the door incessantly until I let him out my room, so I never got much cuddle time in with him for an extended period of time.

I was wondering if we get any sort of release of oxytocin when cuddling with our animal friends, or even inanimate objects, such as dolls, teddy bears, etc. There is obviously not that physical touch like with our fellow humans, and it is probably nowhere near as fulfilling, but is this possible?

It feels like a really silly thing to ask…but when the cuddles are scarce and paying is not presently in the cards, I was curious if someone knows an alternative to getting oxytocin-inducing cuddles in.

[Insert Tyrone Biggum meme here]

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  • [Deleted User]GreyingBear (deleted user)

    I'll say this. One time I was in a situation where dogs were brought in for us to pet (as a type of therapy, I suppose), and it was wonderful.

  • I absolutely don't think oxytocin is limited to human contact. I get straight up high on kittens. All animals really. As a child I had this extremely soft blanket that I projected a whole personality onto. As wonderful as it is connecting with humans, I understand how some people prefer animals and objects. I think our brains create intimacy in all kinds of ways and places.

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    @GreyingBear that sounds amazing 🐕🦮🐩🐕‍🦺

    @MxSmith oh wow that’s good to hear ☺️

  • I think whether we are talking about people, animals, or objects, the thing that creates the oxytocin is not them, but rather how your brain feels connected to them. I mean, there are people who form relationships with imaginary people in the sky. Or become convinced that a deceased loved one has come back as an owl. Out brains can really create meaningful connections out of anything. Just think of Tom Hanks and his volleyball friend Wilson.

  • @Charlie_Bear I had a boxer mix named Montee that was such a snuggle bug. He always had to be touching me. It was wonderful and always made me smile and feel happy. 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Definite oxytocin boost when he would snuggle me. He passed away a year ago in May. I've noticed that since then I have missed cuddles so much more because, apparently, he was helping me get my touch needs met. 😭😭😭😭 I miss him so much. I have another dog, but she's not big on cuddles. 😂😂😂

  • Oh my goodness yes it's a real thing. My cat has literally been cuddled up with me for 36 hours pretty much straight since me getting home from the islands. 😆😆

    We both get equal doses of oxytocin for sure, but we are seriously so bonded together through sharing the last decade. 😊

    The two boy kitties like their cuddles but not the same as Xena.

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    @MxSmith hopefully I won’t need to crash on a deserted island to develop a special connection to my sporting goods 😅

  • Humans will pack bond with anything.

  • @jenluvzscooby & @MissAdventurous ahh that’s so good to hear (and I’m sorry jenluvzscooby 😢) It must be sooo nice to have a cat that loves cuddles


  • This is my Rosie, she's been with me longer than I've been on this site and she is a great cuddler! She was about 6 months old when I got her and slept with me every night for months. This was just after my divorce and I needed her just as much as she needed me. 100% dogs are awesome cuddlers (pitbulls anyway) and I daresay more loyal than many humans 😊


  • I also got myself a pillow boyfriend, who was named Harrison by one of my human cuddlers 😊 Not as good as human or furry cuddles, but you can wrap it around you, fall asleep on it, and it's better than nothing!

  • Kitty cuddles are wonderful. And @Cuddle_RN, I am going to look into that pillow.

  • I was getting desperate there for a while during covid without being able to see my long distance partner for years. Iv cuddled Warmies which are weighted lavender scented stuffed animals and used a weighted blanket. I also found the perfect tree to lean up against. 😅 virtual cuddles are good to;) Iv also enjoyed binge watching cuddle pros on utube. They've got such warm vibes.
    My partners been here with me for a while so iv gotten so many awesome cuddles but there leaving again soon (not as long this time) and there cat is staying with me!! So I'm going to get lots of kitty cuddles so that will be awesome!! She's a super cuddly cat.

  • @Cuddle_RN awwww Rosie is adorable and looks like a great cuddler. And that pillow bf looks pretty comfy 😌


  • My lambies have given me more support I could ever ask for! I travel a lot and wouldn’t want to put an animal in that situation leaving it at home or with others for periods of time. @MxSmith stated it here perfectly. Adults really lose their childlike imagination when they grow up. I have no shame exercising my inner child every day! 💕 my lambie is Sassy just like me and I crack myself/ my friends up with videos of lambie and her brother 😂 it’s hilarious and just wholesome. pets, stuffed animals, pillows, trees, they’re what you make it!

  • Animal therapy is a thing for a reason. Petting an animal even for a minute or two can cheer me up immensely if I'm having a bad day.

  • @SSRequiescence ok I love that photo of your lambie, that’s so cute 🥰

    @bekah_cuddles i love petting animals. I haven’t had any animal therapy and I can’t imagine why not

  • [Deleted User]SnuggleSuz (deleted user)

    I definitely think we get oxytocin from cuddling animals. My favorite cuddle animals are pet rats. They're so affectionate and cuddly.

  • edited October 2022

    Yes, there is an oxytocin bond between you and your dog.
    And these are my favorite snuggles of all.

  • Wow @Mela_B your baby is a big boy now! ☺️

  • [Deleted User]ClubSamwiches (deleted user)




    Drowning in pet induced oxytocin over here!

  • edited October 2022


    Non-humans often give the best cuddles. They're free with (usually) no time limits

    (Excuse the dog biscuit crumbs in my beard)

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