Do I seem like a catfish?

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• CuddleWho

  October 2022 edited October 2022

  I very much doubt the reason you're not getting messages is that people think you're fake.

  FWIW I've heard from two different pros that they struggle to find many clients when they're in San Diego. I'm not sure why, but it does seem that San Diego has an abundance of pro cuddlers, so maybe the problem is just stiff competition.

  Do what you feel is best, but I personally think you might do better to make your profile text much shorter. If I'm browsing cuddlers in an area like San Diego where there's a lot of them, I'm going to quickly scroll through and open maybe 15 profiles and look through them. I'm not going to sit and spend several minutes on each individual profile to decide which one I want to book. I'm going to very quickly skim each one and then decide. Your educational history and things like that sound really cool and I'd love to hear about that kind of stuff during a session... but including all that text in your profile just makes it hard to skim and come away with a quick positive impression.
• CuddleDuncan Mod

  October 2022 edited October 2022

  I concur with @CuddleWho. Especially at the start of the profile text, focus on the client, what you can offer them and how you can meet their needs. Talk about "you" not "I".

  Have a good look at the profiles of the professionals around you. Don't copy and paste, but use and improve upon their good ideas.

  Your photo set is good, I think. Rotate it every week or so and see what main photo (and photo order) works best.

  And nobody is not contacting you because they think you are fake. There are plenty of fake-looking profiles which are perfectly genuine people, but yours ain't one of them. The other site just made a mistake.