How far would you go.....

JBearzJBearz
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How far would you travel to cuddle with someone? What's the furthest you've gone and what made you go that far?

I've seen some people say they've traveled almost 2 hours to cuddle with someone and I couldn't fathom it at the time, but with the lack of uh...variety in my area, I'm feeling inclined to expand my search radius.

I can imagine it must be hard for people who don't live near major cities

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  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    2 hours is not actually that much by cuddling standards. Lots of people have gone a lot further than that.

  • JBearzJBearz

    Interesting. I'd love to know what makes those trips worth it, whether it's simply because no cuddlers are closer or if the cuddles are just THAT good

  • KamikaziNinja86KamikaziNinja86

    My area has been getting a lot more active cuddlers so it's fairly easy to find some within 10-15 minutes away. But I have gone up to 40 miles, which is all freeway, to cuddle someone. These have been pros, but if I found an awesome enthusiast that we clicked I'd probably go farther.

  • wrenchwrench

    Gas is expensive, im sticking to around 30 minutes if I go to someone. And i dont expect anyone to travel an hour to cuddle me

  • wrenchwrench

    Gas is expensive, im sticking to around 30 minutes if I go to someone. And i dont expect anyone to travel an hour to cuddle me

  • ViancaVianca

    As a pro, I wouldn't mind driving 2+ hours. I'm in the center of New England so 2hrs in either direction is a major city. I became pro when gas sky rocketed bc as u can imagine ppl take advantage of such kindness/willingness to travel to help someone feel connected.

    If someone is on the border (~1hr) and require i host then ofc i provide discount or even give them free sessions. Sometimes even within the same state ppl are at least an hr away from me. We're fighting against an outdated transportation system that keeps us a part. So if someone is reasonable in terms of helping at least with gas and tolls idc how far.

    On the other hand once we approach the 4-5hr commute then that may also be a red flag. Hard to believe someone can't find anyone to cuddle. Either they did (or said) something to become low key black listed or is purposely seeking out a specific type or "variety" for non-platonic reasons.

    In the end it all depends 🤷🏽‍♀️ hope this helped answer your questions.

  • dave31415dave31415

    Wildlife biologists think cuddle migrations are triggered by shorter days and cooler temperatures. Once started, cuddlers will travel hundreds of miles, crossing rivers, roads, and other obstacles to find their winter cuddling grounds where they will remain until spring time when the reverse cuddle migration begins.

  • RyajoRyajo

    I dont mind a little travel. With gas included, I will hold a wonderful session with a cuddle person in need, and then go get food and or explore the area. A little day trip :)

  • RyajoRyajo

    @dave31415 right on, haha

  • marcustanakamarcustanaka

    The longer the cuddle (or visit 'n cuddles), the farther I'd be willing to travel.

  • JohnR1972JohnR1972

    For “just a cuddle” - 2 hours each way. However, on many occasions I have planned other activities around a cuddle then driven longer to do a cuddle and something else. I’ve had several such trips 4 hours each way, one 10 hours each way, and one big trip (with lots of cuddling) 16 hours each way.

  • Ironman294Ironman294

    I’m making my way across the pond 😊 for a trip and cuddling while there.

  • jetblackjetblack

    I concur with @JohnR1972 - I often either create a trip around cuddling, or incorporate cuddling into trips that I take of multiple lengths. But I don't know that I have traveled outside of my immediate region for a cuddle session and then came home.

  • [Deleted User]goodguy197636 (deleted user)

    I've drove 1.5 hours to do a session with a wonderful young lady. Longest drive in my life cuz time flew by so fast with her didn't seem real. Driving is nothing for me as I am a truck driver. If it's someone I really click with I will go quite far for.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited October 2022

    I love toad trips and little weekend getaways , and try to plan things with friends from all aspects of my life, including this site , whenever I go somewhere. For example, I'm driving to Chicago to see family and friends in a few weeks . So I'll be making a couple stops on way there and back to see folks I've met from the site , and while in chiraq I plan to visit a couple old friends from here who I've not had the pleasure of meeting yet .

    That's why I always tell people not to count out getting to know folks on here who arent nearby, because it might be easier to cross paths one day than you think . I have so many friends and acquaintances scattered all over the place that I could take a cross country trip anywhere in the US and parts of Canada and have people to visit and stay with. That kind of thing doesnt happen without work and effort , but it's so worth it because you meet so many amazing people. Plus it makes traveling cheaper when you have someone you can stay with haha .

  • CuddleBarista1CuddleBarista1

    The furthest I have traveled is 3 hours long in the train. I would only do that if someone is reliable and repeated multiple times with me.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    If I’m broke like a normal innocent bystanding paying citizen maybe no more than 60 miles (1 hour) … but If money is absolutely not an issue at all like not a concern, there is literally no limits , I would literally go anywhere on this green earth. And I’ll use that opportunity to visit some awesome restaurants nearby or explore some history there , something unique.

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    Less than an hour because I'm old, tired, dislike driving and don't travel well. Lol. I try to make it worth their while by making my home comfortable for cuddling and buy good snacks like cashews or find out what they especially like and have plenty of it.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    I would travel an extra 30 minutes for cheese doodle puffs.

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    @cuddles_ndream LOL, or original Doritos in the the red bag.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
    edited October 2022

    @achetocuddle ohhh 🙌🏼 for the original Doritos In the red bag I’m adding an extra 42 minutes on top of the 30 😋… for the blue bag I’m
    Subtracting 10, that’s a penalty on the field

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    @cuddles_ndream I would subtract for the blue bag also. The blue bag doesn't do a thing for me.

    @Vianca I agree.

  • KamikaziNinja86KamikaziNinja86

    Throw in some homemade snicker doodles or peanut butter cookies and I'm going anywhere. 🤤🤤🤤

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    Lol. I get weak for peanut butter cookies @KamikaziNinja86. Subway used to have great ones. Some homemade would be good. I'm glad I don't have to type your whole username. Lol.

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    For the right people and reasons, have traveled 🧳 approximately 2,000 miles before for cuddles 🥰 🤗🎉

  • teddybear888teddybear888

    @dave31415 A kind of humor I greatly appreciate. My kinda funny.

  • SweetPeaJenSweetPeaJen

    I've traveled a couple of hours away, one way, but only for people who I have really clicked with.

  • [Deleted User]GreyingBear (deleted user)

    Dang. Snacks and fresh baked cookies and stuff? Suddenly I'd consider traveling a lot farther than I would have otherwise.

  • [Deleted User]SnuggleSuz (deleted user)

    I have drove to LA to cuddle and that's between 2-3 hours each direction. I'm a pro. I ask for them to pay for my travel time as well. I have also drove to San Diego 1.5 hours as well as Palm Springs 1.5 hours. I'm willing to travel up to 3 hours in one direction when going to meet with a client. Longer than that and it's simply too much for me to drive in a day. I have cuddled with people while bicycle touring and technically have biked several hundreds of miles to meet a client, although realistically they were along the route.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    I flown multiple times for hours and with layovers in between, "just for cuddles", because quality people, and quality time with said people, are beyond worth it!!

    Driving for cuddles...? I think my max so far has been about 1.5 for a few hours of connection. But I'd be wiiling to go further if it was for longer, so long as it was someone I felt really good about already (I'm not likely to put in more than 30 to 45 minutes if it's just a public coffee meet kinda deal).

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