What Are Your Favorite Cuddle Positions?

I'm sure that there is a post about this somewhere in the forums but I haven't come across it yet so lets revive it shall we? :) I would love to hear everyone's favorite cuddle positions. Which relaxes you best? Which cuddle is the best one to start in? Which one just makes your body melt and you feel so happy doing?

I think that my favorite position is when the other partner is laying on their back while I have my arms wrapped around their waste and my head on their chest and our legs intertwined while they hold me close. We could just lay there and talk or listen to music. I wish I could do that now. :)

Looking forward to hearing everyone else's favorites. :)

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  • [Deleted User]gcp1994 (deleted user)

    For starters I like to lay on my back and have her lay on my chest. My favorite is spooning her playing with her hair and holding hands

  • Lying side by side is magical for me - being chest to chest is so comforting. It's the very definition of closeness to me, and I feel like I'm being given a precious gift. I would usually go straight into this position. Touching toes is fun too!

    But it's also nice having her head on my chest like you described @o0ashley, so that my arm is a little more free to run my hands through her hair and things like that.

    (Here are some older posts but this is still a great idea!)

  • Girl laying on top of me is still my all time favorite

  • @morpheus I havnt done that one. Could you please describe it? Is it like the woman straddling or?

  • I’m a big guy first of all, 6’3 250 pounds so I make a big cuddle bed lol Girl is usually laying on top of me with her head resting on my chest. Her legs are usually on either side of me or one leg will be on the side and one leg in between my legs. I hope that made sense.

  • @Morpheus oh yes, I'm visualizing it like the cuddle I described in the intro. Yes I love that one too. Makes you feel so safe.

  • I also really enjoy gently using fingers and nails going up and down and circles around my back and to reciprocate.

  • Best part of girl on top of me is it leaves my hands free to massage her back and head

  • [Deleted User]VIPirate (deleted user)

    Side by side and spooning are the positions I tend to enjoy most often. When I'm truly comfortable with someone, I can even fall asleep like that. Chemistry has to be right, though.

  • I LOVE being the little spoon! However, I really like when my cuddle partner lays on his stomach and I straddle him, laying my chest on his back. It's a comfy way to give a nice back rub then the warmth of body to body, cheek to cheek.

  • Side by side , laying on his chest , laying on back , if I know you well and we have a history of respect I’ll straddle and lay on a man who’s on his back ,

  • I’ve had a couple pros who didn’t seem comfortable when I asked if they would lay on top. I can see how it can be seen as sexual.

  • [Deleted User]Alternis (deleted user)
    edited January 2018

    I like to dragon sleeper all the pros ive seen. Im also told I give the best RDCs.

  • Great replies everyone! I think people may learn new positions to try and enjoy! :)

    @Alternis I'm not familiar with the dragon sleeper, could you describe it? Also what does RDC stand for? sorry I just have not seen that before.

  • [Deleted User]Alternis (deleted user)

    The rdc was popularized in Japan which is where I think professional cuddling might have originated. ローリング・クレイドル is the actual name. It may not have a real name in English but it is basically what the position morpheus described and rolling around playfully. Best done with repeated cuddlers that there is trust with.

  • edited January 2018

    I like various and being attentive to my partners' likes too. :)

    To name a few:

    • Laying on my partners back (if it's okay with them and they enjoy) :)
    • Superperson
    • B and F :)

    • Thanks for sending me this picture. :)

  • [Deleted User]Alternis (deleted user)

    G is like the angry couple cuddle.
    E is the omg hes drunk again cuddle.

  • I'm more a fan of F, with transition to H once I get too hot, ,which happens sooner rather than later sometimes for big hairy man persons such as myself

  • I actually prefer spooning over girl facing me

  • A, F and H look good to me! :)

    Nice chart!

  • As long as someone is caressing my hair I'm a happy camper! I do enjoy taking naps on someone chest with my arms wrapped around their torso, but don't forget to play with my hair lol

  • I love playing with my cuddle buddies hair and brushing it if they like that.

  • F,A,D Are favorited AND I END WITH H if I’m sleeping

  • edited January 2018

    B B B B B. Then some more B. And sometimes F.

    But we can do A if you want to.

  • [Deleted User]VIPirate (deleted user)

    Cute picture! A, B, C and F, in no particular order. I'm the type that needs to transition every now and again if I get too hot or sore from being in one position for too long.

  • yeah I definitely like to mix it up. Don't want to be too rigid and stay in one position not moving.

  • [Deleted User]ivlegend (deleted user)

    I love spooning

  • @ivlegend always an enjoyable go to. :) The great thing about spooning is the big spoon can scratch the little spoons back so I really like doing both positions because I love how happy it makes my cuddler to get a nice back scratching. :)

  • @Scarlette Huh. Did not know other people cuddled like that, but I'd actually be happy to be in the guy's place for that cuddling position. I've noticed that I always tend to find the weight of another person weirdly comforting, and maybe that's one of the reasons why I'm used to / enjoy someone leaning on me or resting their head on my chest for cuddling.

  • [Deleted User]Greybeard (deleted user)

    Old -timer here. I have arthritis in my hips and knees (and almost every other joint) I need to change position often. I sleep (or try to sleep) that way too.

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