Do women seek cuddling on this site the same way men do? I'm interested in possibly becoming a cuddler. Advice?
Lots of threads on male.pros already . And you've made it clear in recent posts how you feel about pro cuddlers. This seems like you're fishing for something or trying to stir a metaphorical pot if I'm being honest.
@pmvines You could just skip a post you don't like. Complaining on so many threads sounds so repetitive. Try it for a week. You'll feel less stressed out.
@Saysoh Actually no. I believe women in general do not seek cuddling as much as men do. I've found that the women cuddle enthusiasts I have met usually want a relationship and not just platonic cuddling. It's easier to find a woman who just wants a one night hookup than it is to find a woman who just wants to cuddle. I discovered this recently because I've actually found 2 women for hookups on other sites while I can't even find one woman to cuddle platonically in twice the time. Now the funny thing is I've convinced two of the hookup culture girls to cuddle with me as well. So I'm finally getting my cuddling needs met. It's unorthdox but what can ya do ?
@Saysoh - Regardless of how women seek cuddling here, the fact that CC has many male members for every female member. It's so easy for a woman to find a male enthusiast to cuddle with, that I wonder if she would ever want to pay for what it is so easy for her to get for free.
Women - Please correct me if I'm wrong.
@Melancholy - Aren't you doing just what you're accusing @pmvines of doing? Personally, I think there's a good chance that he's right.
I enjoy most people that are not easy to figure out, so I'm glad OP started this thread regardless of his reason.
@GreatHornedOwl I agree on both points.
"The same way men do" Sounds like a generalization. What specifically do you think men seek?
Interestingly enough @Melancholy as a former enthusiast and current pro I found men also wanting relationships. They will comment to me on our "connection" and I find myself having to explain the difference between physical and emotional boundaries to adults too often. Hook up culture is too toxic but I understand the convenience. Eventually the price of the cuddle isn't worth it. Comprende? Wish you the best of luck finding someone genuine.
As an enthusiast I also came across a male that thought I wanted a relationship simply for asking for consistent cuddles. He lived nearby so I thought it was convenient for both of us (and free) but guess some commitment issues run deep lol I would pay a male pro to avoid these headaches of humans over complicating a cuddle bc I'd like to assume they understand all boundaries. Sometimes I look for one after I burn out from sessions but ultimately just take a break instead.
@GreatHornedOwl No I'm not complaining about the thread
@Vianca Interesting. Well I have never wanted a relationship. so I'm one who would cuddle with you as often as you want and never want a relationship. I assumed I wasn't unique. That sucks for cuddling then if that's how it is....wow...
Thats good to know @Melancholy appreciate that lol To be fair to him I was a bit needy from his perspective 😅 I had been on the site awhile but still new in terms of actually cuddling. So when I finally found someone in the same town that had a schedule that worked with mine I got excited. I can see how that can scare away someone with anxiety about relationships.
It's unfortunate yet understandable. We're all here for a reason ultimately. We all make progress on our own time and I was able to find other enthusiasts eventually. Humans suck sometimes, yes, but don't lose hope on cuddling. All the good sessions make the struggle worth it and I like to hope that the feedback I give to those I dont cuddle also helps with their journey in some way.
@pmvines yep yep! This post is 🤢 worthy along with all the others. Trolling misogynists need their own sub forum. We can call it, “I secretly hate women because I’m not self aware enough to hate myself”
This thread and others really helps me to understand who the real complainers are and who I should avoid when seeking cuddles. So thank you! 😀
@Saysoh I'm not a woman but In my experience there are many more men who seek cuddling on this website then women do. I believe it is because it is easier for a woman to cuddle a man or a woman where as men typically seek to have opposite sex cuddles. It seems to me that women don't need this website as much as men do.
Also my experience most of the new women Who I reach out to turn out to join on the website to make money.
@Melancholy not so much a complaint, more an observation. I feel OP is up to something, and seriously question the sincerity of it. Which I do kinda have a right to do when you post something on a public interweb forum.
@Saysoh From what i've noticed, majority of women come here short term to heal from a breakup or some kind of trauma. Also, a women may very well and every easily choose to cuddle another women.
Whereas men are looking for more long term consistency/stability, a place to get reliable source of physical comfort.
@TruePower starting to get the double meaning behind your name.
@stormydaycuddle I'm sorry.... what? It's a video game quote from Diablo
what I can tell based on your profile is that you’ve noticed a lot about the “long term” habits of women in your 3 months here? I’m also referring to the other post so forgive me if it seems a little out of context.
In my experience on the CC site:
if that sounds like Captain Obvious stuff...well...um...yeah! 😁