Hey, I was just wondering if there any open minded guys preferably around the Seattle area that would be into meeting, cuddling, and making a new friend with a black curvy/thicker woman? Let me know if you are out there, I’ll sure like to meet you
You may try posting on cuddle request, but also just a local search and reaching out in message seems to be a more effective approach. I don’t think body type will be an issue, I hear thick & curvy is the thing these days 😉 Happy Cuddling!! 💫
Edit: I pulled up your profile… you are beautiful!! What’s not to love?!?
Oh goodness absolutley not that would be horrific ! Cuddling with a thick,.curvy person just because they wanted to cuddle? Good thing I'm not in Seatrle I might have to run and hide !!
Please realize that I am obviously not being serious
I wish that you were closer! I totally would! Curvy/thicker women are awesome too!🤗🎉
If I were in the Seattle area I would be setting up a cuddle with you right now. You will have no problem finding people who want to cuddle with you. You are beautiful and your profile is great.
@Dinah87 Hugs.
I’m not near Seattle but I’d still love to be friends.
As would I
In my experience, cuddling is about acceptance, so body type has never played into it, so long as you're meeting people who are in it for friendship and closeness, as opposed to something sexual. Best of luck finding those people and neatly sidestepping the rest!
~ Sunset Snuggles
100% agree with @SunsetSnuggles
@dinah87 being newer on this site its a little discomforting to know you jave not been able to cuddle for comfort. At the same time what I have learned is that sometimes dipping your toes in the water is not the same as just jumping in. Examine your heart, put yourself out into this community, use your got instincts and start cuddling. I talked myself out of a few cuddles the first few times because I was not ready to share my space. Then I just shared my space and found it was a profound moment to step outside my comfort zone. Thats my story. Thank you for sharing tours. And good luck to you in your search for real ones who will be genuine with you.
@ dinah87 If I were near your location, I'd be happy to cuddle with you. If you want to keep in touch, I'm willing.
I can't figure out how to remove my previous post, otherwise I would. I didn't note the age preference, so feel free to disregard it and this post. I oppologise for the inconveniance.
@hifigeorge there is no way to delete a post once you have made it. The convention is to delete the post's content, and replace it with a full stop.
However, in this case, I don't think there is any need for your previous post to be deleted. You were expressing something positive and supportive, and that's good. The technicality of the age thing would only matter if you were actually contemplating cuddling, which you are not.
I wish you best of luck @Dinah87 if the OP was a man and mention something about body shape will receive a lot attacks from feminists
@Dinah87 - If you aren't getting as many replies as you would like, it may be due to your profile, rather than to you being a "Thicker/Curvier woman." There are several things in your profile that will prevent, or at least discourage some men from messaging you.
Your profile says "Even though I have expressed more interest in dating again, I would be ok if we'd just meet up at an neutral venue and just cuddle, talk, and get to know one another." Many men will read this, and think that you are really interested in dating, but are willing to settle for cuddling. That will prevent, or at least discourage some men from messaging you.
Your preferred age range is stated as 21-45. Since you aren't (or at least shouldn't be) looking for dates, there are loads pf men here over 45 who would probably be perfectly suitable cuddle partners, but you upper limit of 45 will prevent, or at least discourage some men from messaging you.
Your profile suggests that you will only consider cuddling at live music events. You list three questions, and then state "If you answered yes to all three questions, then you should message me." Requiring that a man enjoys live music **and ** that he is interested in attending more musical events will prevent, or at least discourage some men from messaging you. There quit a few men, possibly even a majority who don't consider a live music event to be a suitable place to cuddle.
There's nothing that I've said her that you haven't heard before. Yet despite being told that the problem lies in you the limitations imposed by your profile, and not in you being thick and curvy, you still choose to limit your possible cuddle partners to a small fraction of the available men. That's your choice, and you're entitled to it, but having made that choice, it makes no sense to repeatedly come to the Forum and whine about it.
If what you really want is a date, there are plenty of dating sites around.
love to be in your curvy cuddles Dinah87
love to be in your curvy cuddles @Dinah87
