Just new to this world, but just curious, if I engage with a cuddler and none of us hosts, that means we have to meet in a neutral place… I’ve sern those hotels for a day fee, but is ok if both parties pay the bill if both are non-pro’s?
If both are enthusiasts (non-pros), I would say whomever brought up the idea of the hotel or whomever initiated first contract. Otherwise, just discuss it with the other person. Just my take.
Of course. That would be the fair way to do it. Happy cuddling.
The one who seems the most desperate should pay.
—Charles Darwin
LOL
I am always for splitting things 50-50, unless one person really pushes for a certain location/expense. Just be clear about expectations, beforehand, so everyone is on the same page.
~ Sunset Snuggles
I'm not sure why you are asking if it's ok for both to pay expenses. Work that out among yourselves, you don't need our permission
you don't need our permission
I beg to differ. OP, I will provide the answer once tribute is given to me and the six tasks are completed. Then and only then may you receive the wisdom you seek.
Can't wait to see what the six tasks are.
I thought the council had added a seventh?
You have to tithe the forum trolls before thou shall rent a room....
@BgstickTeddyBea Is that your new get rich scheme?
@FunCartel omg I jokingly thought this to myself right before I read your comment 😂
There should be one day per year when pros have to pay enthusiasts to cuddle. It would really make us happy.
I vote for every February 30th 😊
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Free cuddles on Feb 29th? Leap year deal?
To return, briefly, to the topic ..... @Drss79 if you are both enthusiasts then it's up to you to decide together what to do. An equal split of expenses is the most common agreement.
(If one person is a professional then the client pays for the room, either directly or indirectly via the professional.)
In either case, be careful. We don't want anybody to end up sitting alone in a hotel room they have paid for, or staring at a blocked profile wondering how to get their money back. A videocall or brief in-person meeting for coffee are good ways of building trust.
Oh, and don't agree to do the Six Tasks. Task 5 is to not do Task 6, so you can't win.
Good lord I actually agree with pmvines here. Not sure why you're asking us if it's ok. It's totally up to you and the other person. If she has a job and isn't barely scraping by she might be inclined to split the bill because it might seem a little unfair if you have to pay for it every time. But that's really between you. It's not our call.
Whoever checks in needs to know the cancelation policy. I have booked the same motel thru the motel and I am allowed to cancel same day by 6pm. That works well with mid afternoon sessions.
However, booking through a third party site, usually means cancelation is allowed only 24 hrs or more in advance.
I just wait until she confirms she's in the car enroute. That, or meet in the parking before checking in.
This obviously isn't helpful for sessions after 6
This is not an official response but one of my own opinion
@Melancholy I've actually agreed with you before too . Worse things could happen.