Whoah, put down those pitchforks! I’m not saying I wish I could hire an escort without fear of Johnny law, the point of this post is to bemoan what I see as a major problem with this site which is the prevalence of “secret sex workers”. What I’ve seen is that some unknown but seemingly significant number of women here are using this as a (relatively)safe and efficient way to make money. The profile will assure any reader that they are strictly here for such buzzwords as “connection” or “healing”, etc. but once they’re behind closed doors, they can offer even more intimate services for even more money.
This of course greatly contributes to what some may consider the greatest challenge to the honest cuddler: male clients expecting more than just cuddles. Of course they’re expecting more, they’ve been offered more by someone else! So now all these guys are trying to decipher profiles to find the pros that are offering those services, thinking that this is all a game of double-speak where both parties say they’re going to keep it platonic while understanding that once the meeting takes place those terms can be renegotiated.
Let me just say to both the female cuddlers who are offering those services and to the males who are looking for them: there are websites for that. This is not one of them. Do a bit of searching on google or Reddit and you can find what you seek.