No cuddlers in my area

[Deleted User]VloneMyles (deleted user)

There are no cuddlers in my area to meetup with. Idk what to do. I just moved to a new state 6-7 months ago and the state I’m living in now the cuddling scene is completely non existent compared to the previous state I was in. I’ve been single my entire life and use cuddlecomfort as a way to fulfill my companionship/intimacy needs but since there are no cuddlers near me I have nothing left to try. I feel hopeless.

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  • [Deleted User]SweetSunshine65 (deleted user)
    edited February 2023

    What area did you move to? There is ways to share about this site on social media and you can print flyers to spread the word about this site in your area so more people will join. This is found at the bottom of the homepage. Good luck

  • [Deleted User]VloneMyles (deleted user)

    @SweetSunshine65 I moved to Murfreesboro Tennessee and was previously living in Florida. The cuddling scene here in Tennessee is pretty much non existent. Thank u for the advice tho I will see how I can spread more awareness about the site.

  • @VloneMyles hugs tight I'm so sorry the cuddle scene is so different/lacking in your new state. I understand, I live in the least-populated state (Wyoming) and am in a rural area outside of the cities, to boot. I've had to go out of state for 99% of my cuddles. Hang in there. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to PM me, anytime.

    Please look for other ways to fulfill your need to be with others. I know it's not the same as cuddling, but you can try MeetUp.com to get involved in fun activities like game nights, hiking, going to movies, etc. Maybe you could build meaningful friendships, that way.

    Don't hesitate to PM and if you are feeling truly in danger, please call or text 988. 🤗

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • [Deleted User]SweetSunshine65 (deleted user)
    edited February 2023

    I’m moved to the Atlanta area from Tennessee although I wasn’t a member of cuddle comfort then. Maybe if you broaden the radius you’re looking at might help also, you’re not far from Nashville. There has to be people there. I wish you good luck. I’m available for virtual sessions if you ever want to do that. I travel to Tennessee frequently, so if I’m ever coming your way, I’ll let you know.

  • edited February 2023

    There are some great cuddlers around Nashville and Chattanooga. Two of the best cuddlers on here are from those areas.

  • You must be doing something wrong. I just did a search, and found one active, female enthusiast in Murfreesboro. I didn't count, but there are many enthusiasts and pros in Nashville, which is only about 35 miles away. Many of the other, smaller towns in the area also have cuddlers. I am personally acquainted with a delightful cuddler in Lebanon.

    I live about 55 miles from the center of Chicago, and you seem to have more choices that I do.

  • [Deleted User]VloneMyles (deleted user)

    @SunsetSnuggles Thank you so much! Yeah it’s pretty annoying living in a state where the cuddling scene is non existent :( Also about the meetup site turns out the area I live in is nonexistent for that too :( Right now my plan is to get out of here ASAP and move to a big metropolitan City elsewhere so I can have more options.

  • You should go pro and corner that market.

  • There are 20 active pros within 50 miles of you. Granted they're not right next door to you, but they're definitely close enough that surely you can make something work.

  • There’s plenty not too far in Nashville, just checked for you. In fact, there’s one named @tachoudh that has me thinking I should move to Tennessee to start cuddling 😂

  • [Deleted User]VloneMyles (deleted user)

    @athleticdude I hit up @tachoudh and she didn’t respond lol. Maybe my age might have something to do with it cause I’ve had cuddlers that I messaged tell me that I’m too young to be on here.

  • You’re 22, that’s not too young to be on here

  • Sorry you’re having a hard time finding cuddles in your area. I like @SweetSunshine65 idea on spreading the word. You might be a catalyst in getting people cuddling!
    As others have mentioned, try broadening your search and you might have more luck. If all else fails, there are maaaany pros who offer virtual cuddles if you’re just looking for that connection with another person.
    Sending you hugs and positive energy. Hope you find a suitable cuddle buddy soon 🫂

  • I'm not terribly far from you.

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