Cuddler flakes twice and won’t respond on day of meeting

[Deleted User]teddy771 (deleted user)
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This particular Cuddler agreed to meet on two separate occasion and both times she didn’t respond on the day of. I gave it a few weeks to try again and she did the same thing. Is this reportable?

I also requested a current photo of her in our first correspondence and she denied it saying that her review and pictures on her profile should be sufficient. The problem is she has a photo of when she’s like mid 20s and another when she’s mid 30s.

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  • MissAdventurousMissAdventurous

    Then find another cuddler. That easy.

    Especially if they're not consistent to what makes you comfy and heard, then move on. Just like anything else. Best of luck to you. Happy cuddles 😄

  • Mike403Mike403

    It isn't against the rules unless a pro cuddler scammed you out of money. Nobody is obligated to cuddle with anyone and can cancel last minute.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    If it's an enthusiast, recognize that she's not worth your time.

    If it's a Pro, report.

    Best of luck finding people who are more respectful of your time. Watch out for these types of red flags in the future, and don't waste effort on them.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • cudbud64cudbud64
    edited March 2023

    It happens, people have life happen or get overwhelmed. Meet up with someone in a public space prior to a cuddle for a meet to see if you vibe if you feel like what they look like matters would impact your decision to cuddle

  • [Deleted User]AlexciaRose (deleted user)

    Anyone who flakes ... just move on.. it is what it is.. there are other cuddlers.. who you might have a better experience with.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Flakes are a cornerstone to every nutritious breakfast but just like the cereal, you won’t die if you never have the human kind.

  • [Deleted User]MrAdmirer (deleted user)

    I suspect that “third time is a charm” won’t work. Time to give up and move on.

  • MDWMDW

    Don't chase 'em, replace 'em.

  • pmvinespmvines

    I say we burn her at the stake in front of her family

  • Erin_Elle_Erin_Elle_

    It’s hard to understand how people can ghost like that. ☹️

  • Mike403Mike403

    Ghosts are scary.

  • [Deleted User]RadiantBecca (deleted user)

    There not scary, I’ll be your boo

  • [Deleted User]Calibrate715 (deleted user)

    Well damn @pmvines - that went dark quick😆

  • warm_embracewarm_embrace

    The OP is gone.

  • [Deleted User]delicatesoul (deleted user)

    @pmvines What if she flakes for her own burning at the stake? Don't want to look silly in front of the whole family

  • pmvinespmvines

    @Calibrate715 if I were to hunt down every post that complains about a message going unreturned or about something falling through or general complaints about pros I'd have several Tolkien sized novels . Its just hard to be serious about something I dont take seriously 🙂

  • pmvinespmvines

    @delicatesoul well that's what the angry mob and torches and shackles are for you silly goose

  • [Deleted User]Calibrate715 (deleted user)

    @pmvines I could tell you weren't being serious; no worries 😆😉

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod
    edited March 2023

    Me believing this was pot stirring aside... I get accused of having old photos all the time. "Oh, you actually look like your photo" is a common reaction. My oldest photo is from early 2022 with most of them being even more recent. I don't think people should have to continually defend what they look like as long as they say its them and are at least fairly current other people have no right to keep demanding proof. IF however someone posts a photo from 1998 and shows up as their 2023 selves I think that may be a little different. Even if she sent the OP new photos at what point would they be satisfied. At what point would their concerns be met. And what is the concern here anyway? If its safety okay understood. Then she need only tell you which one is current and if she shows up a totally different person, then okay. If its something else especially if its a pro....tisk tisk... this site is platonic. Part of you no matter how small isn't being platonic.

  • GreatHornedOwlGreatHornedOwl

    @stormydaycuddle - Of course. You're too good looking. Ergo, your photos must be either too old, or completely fake :)

  • JoyfulHeartJoyfulHeart

    This is before I grew my beard. It's not much more than a half century old

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod

    @JoyfulHeart awe!!!! :)

  • bsrucebsruce

    Why do people on here consistently need to attack someone and belittle them for having a legitimate question and concern even after they have deleted their account? 😡

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod
    edited March 2023

    @bsruce Usually indicates a pot stirrer with a fake account. Its based on historical evidence. Complain about a pro-delete the account. Its a common theme. Stirring the pot. The second half of the OPs post was anything but legit. I pointed it out. The argument was flawed, coming at it from the wrong angle etc. Which is why it was commented on. Hope that helps.

  • UREverythingUREverything

    Dont stir, but instead roll between your three fingers until properly crumbled.
    The Pot

  • FairygoatFairygoat

    I just had the same thing happen to me..last minute he wanted to schedule a session the same night..i agreed..he refused to send a picture,i refuse to meet someone unless i know who im meeting..idc what they look like but its for my safety.he then said he would send the picture and never did..i cleared my schedule for him..the next morning he messaged me apologizing and said he would still like to see me..i agreed and he agreed to send a pic.10 min before we were supposed to have the session he messaged me apologizing yet again. I don’t understand the point of playing these games..we all have important things to do in our lives and some of these people just like to waste that time..I understand things like this happen but I really wish people would just have the respect for others..rant over thanks for reading lol…i hope everyone has an amazing evening

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod
    edited March 2023

    @Fairygoat photos were given. The OP wasn't satisfied with them which indicates several red flags. Absolutely nothing wrong with what you said or your feelings about your situation. Just clarifying that the guy wanted more pictures because he doubted the validity of her first ones. It indicates quite a few problematic things.

  • FairygoatFairygoat

    @stormydaycuddle i completely understand what your saying..really there is no reason to have to send more pictures if you have plenty on your profile..i think if someone is really worried about the person..have a 5 minute video call.it doesnt get more real then that.

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod
    edited March 2023

    It’s a shame OP left us.

    Where else are they going to find “slim, petite, or athletic toned cuddlers.” 😑 (Taken from his profile.)

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod
    edited March 2023

    Called it!!!!

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